Online dating and meeting girls: Personal experience sharing (3)

Hi everyone, it's time for another dating advice lesson! I'm your friendly neighborhood Xu!

After posting the last article, some friends messaged me with questions, so I'll address them today. Thanks for your support!
1. How do I chat with high-scoring girls online and ask them out? What if they seem aloof?
First, everyone, you need to understand one thing: high-scoring girls don't use social media much. Based on my experience over the years, this is the general consensus. There are definitely exceptions, but they're rare. They're never short of suitors. Even if they are, you're just a drop in the ocean. Chatting with them is a waste of time and effort. Forget it, young people. In their daily lives, they're surrounded by a group of decent men who treat them well. Do you think you can easily attract them online? Why would they waste time dealing with a bunch of losers? Don't you agree? So, you'll basically only be able to hook up with ordinary people online. So be confident, don't just fawn over them because of their pretty photos. If you think they're aloof, it's probably because you're too enthusiastic, or they simply don't want to talk to you. Remember the rule of thirds? On a side note, I'm a photographer (professional, not a hobby), and I've definitely seen some very beautiful girls. They don't give off a cold or aloof vibe; they just exude a confident aura. So, those so-called high-scoring girls online (not that they absolutely don't exist) are basically all photoshopped. I've photographed many car models; their legs, waists, and breasts are all photoshopped to look good. In reality, their figures are just average, and some are even just average-looking. In short, don't believe too much in girls' online photos; just enjoy them.
2. Are people on these apps really looking for hookups? It seems like everyone's there to find love?
First, I want to say something unrelated. I came to this platform because I think it's basically impossible to hook up with single women (if any single women really want to hook up, feel free to disagree, haha). If they really wanted to have sex, would they need this platform? Let me be clear: women's thinking about hooking up is different from men's (I don't care what you think, I care what I think). Do you think it's possible to open a chat app, find a woman, say, "Want to hook up?", and she says yes, and then you have sex? Unless the girl is a sex addict (not just promiscuous, but addicted), I think girls generally go by feeling (it doesn't necessarily mean you have to be handsome). Attract her first, then have sex. Why? She has so many choices, why would she choose you? Does attraction necessarily depend on looks? Of course, being handsome can get you anywhere, but those reading my articles probably haven't reached that point yet. So, going by feeling is very important. Be considerate, be a warm guy, or even be a little flirtatious, and if she feels the connection, things will naturally fall into place. Why don't guys get to sleep with girls? Are they ugly? Not necessarily, but one thing is certain: they lack attraction, interest, and charm. So there's a phenomenon called the Matthew effect (if you don't understand, Google it yourself): those who know how to hook up get hooked up more and more, and the guys end up masturbating. In short, what looks like a relationship is actually just a flirtatious process; she's looking for the right feeling.
3. How to tell if a girl is just looking for fun?
One thing is certain: girls also have needs (and quite significant ones), but they're definitely much more cautious than guys. Guys can easily go online to play PUBG, but girls normally wouldn't go online to play PUBG (if anyone has tried it, feel free to message me privately for an update; I'm curious too). So what do they do when they're feeling sexually frustrated? They definitely go on social media. First, we look at what she posts on her social media profile (not WeChat or QQ). If she posts a lot about her life, and it's been going on for over a month, then we can be pretty sure she's interested. Why? Because there are a lot of guys on social media (try creating a female account and posting some photos yourself if you don't believe me). If a girl just registers out of curiosity, she'll get annoyed and quit after a few days. If she persists for over a month, it means she's interested. Don't ask me why I feel like everyone on these platforms is looking for a relationship; see what I wrote above. Basically, anyone who flirts with you without clarifying the relationship is also a player. Let me tell you something here: those of you who have actually hooked up with 69 girls know that it's definitely not about going to a hotel and

having sex right away. It's about having a meal first, assessing the person, and seeing how things go. Humans are emotional beings, not beasts, so please be patient. Okay, now that you've read this far, you're probably itching to sleep with them, so let's get down to business. Where do you find girls to sleep with? It's definitely through dating apps (I won't name names, not WeChat or QQ). Of course, apps like Tantan and Momo are usable, but they're difficult to use. I'll give you a general overview of the process first, and then go into more detail later. First, create a good profile (take your own photos if you can), then filter through chats (if you don't know how, refer to the previous post), develop a romantic relationship, create some flirtation, invite them out for dinner, then a movie, then a hotel. Pay attention to details during this process (you know what a "warm guy" is). Don't think I'm being perfunctory, let's take it slow and see.
Finally, let me tell you that in this world, everything follows the ironclad rule of "you reap what you sow." If you read and remember what I've written today, and practice a lot, you will succeed. However, you can't possibly learn something from just a few words without trying. For example, if you're a beginner wanting to learn to drive and you ask me how to drive, and I just write it down for you, can you learn it? Driving is a very complex skill, and written content can only give you a general idea. If you have ideas, spend more time researching them.

Okay, everyone! I'm Lao Xu. Remember to leave a comment and add me as a friend. See you in the next post!

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