Online dating and meeting girls: personal experience sharing (4)

Hey everyone, we meet again! It's your friendly neighborhood Xu from next door!

Articles here take a while to get approved, I've been a bit free these past few days, so I'm only posting one a day. I'll write more when I have time, so please be patient if I write slower in the future.
I noticed the font size in the earlier articles was a bit small, making them a little tiring to read, so I've increased it a bit today for a more comfortable reading experience. Today
we'll talk about building your profile.

This will be divided into two parts: the first part will

cover the general idea, and the second part will explain the specifics. First, let's define your profile. It's what you share on social media platforms like WeChat Moments, where you post statuses, moments, and updates—a glimpse into your life. These are basically the first things girls see when they chat with you and get to know you. They primarily look at these posts first, so you could say they directly determine the other person's attitude towards you online. Why do some people feel the other person is cold during chats? It's simple: your profile is empty, or it looks cheap and low-class. Put yourself in their shoes: would you develop a relationship with a girl who isn't good-looking and has a very unsophisticated lifestyle? Obviously not, so the first impression is crucial, and it's essential to present a well-crafted profile.
A good profile shows a complete picture of yourself, not necessarily your true self (I already mentioned "crafted"). It includes aspects like your life, work, income, hobbies, and current emotional state...
The most important point is authenticity. It doesn't mean posting your exact self, but rather making the other person feel that it's real. It showcases a part of your life (carefully selected photos; if you're going to post a picture of yourself picking your toes while eating instant noodles, then I have nothing to say). Some might ask, "Can I use photos found online?" Yes, but don't use photos of people earning 50,000 or 500,000 when your income is only 5,000. Anyone with common sense will know you're being ridiculous. As mentioned in the previous post, if you have those photos yourself, that's best; if not, figure it out yourself.

So how do you create a good profile? This post will first discuss the general approach. Let's start by introducing two types of girls you'll encounter in online chats. Which type do you want to win over? Think about it yourself.
Girls' attitudes can be broadly categorized into two types: those based on feelings and those based on material possessions.
1. The "Feeling" Type – This type comprises the majority of women. Everyone desires material possessions, so these women appreciate them too. Therefore, you need to project a basic level of financial stability; don't be too tacky. However, for this type, "having a feeling" is the foundation for attracting her. Only then will she appreciate your material possessions. If you only have material things but can't evoke that feeling (showing off luxury cars or five-star hotels), then sorry, your abundant material possessions are useless to her. That's why women nowadays say that beautiful appearances are a dime a dozen, but interesting souls are one in a million. A handsome and interesting guy with one house is more popular in the dating market than a greasy, unattractive guy with three houses. Online, women aren't stupid. Do you think she's confident enough to hook up with a rich second-generation online? So, she's chatting to have fun, not to see you flaunt your wealth. A stylish lifestyle is what attracts them. I believe some guys, right off the bat, claim to be the president of some company or own several houses, then flaunt their sports cars, luxury watches, and upscale restaurants in their social circles. When a girl sees this, she either feels she can't reach them or thinks you're bragging and that you have ulterior motives for pursuing them. Forget about hooking up; they'll already think you're a con artist. So, please don't ask if having a supercar will help you hook up with girls. I think if you have one, you don't need to read this.

2. Materialistic Type – When you demonstrate overwhelming financial power, feeling-oriented girls might think you're an idiot, while materialistic girls will be excited. First of all, let me tell you, these girls are easy to hook up with. Basically, if you have a supercar (don't ask me what to do if you don't, I don't have one either, so I don't know), take them for a drive, book a five-star hotel, and you can sleep with them (a friend of mine does this; he's basically a womanizer). And most of these girls are high-scoring, obedient, and good in bed. First, these women are usually those who have experienced some kind of trauma, leading to lower levels of concern about sex and morality. They also have little plan for the future with their partners. These women only care about living for the moment, showing off on social media, and leading extravagant lifestyles. A characteristic of these women is that they immediately try to find out your social class or check your profile when you start a conversation. If they think you're average, they'll ignore you. So, my friends, I'm emphasizing this rule three times (if you don't understand, go back and read what I wrote): don't waste your time, okay? Because ordinary men aren't considered human in their eyes. Their aloofness is just to filter out losers. If you're financially secure, they'll be very enthusiastic. Anyway, if you had that kind of wealth, you wouldn't be reading this, right? I'm just writing this down for everyone to see, and also to explain why many men think women are materialistic. These kinds of women certainly exist, but they are rare.
So far, everyone has a basic understanding of how to build a profile, which is very important. I know there are those "packaged" images for WeChat Moments on Taobao, but if you use them incorrectly, it will backfire. It's not about making yourself seem sophisticated, but about making the other person feel that building a profile, like chatting, is about gradually improving and strengthening. When people see your profile becoming more and more sophisticated, they will also think you are ambitious. The key is the approach; you need to learn how to build it, not just simply copy other people's images. Of course, using images initially isn't wrong, but you need to learn to improve yourself.

Okay, that's all for today. This is Lao Xu. See you next time, remember to leave a comment!

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