Online dating and meeting girls: personal experience sharing (6)

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! This article continues to talk about your social media presence. Again, I'll use the abbreviation "circle" or occasionally "Moments," it's the same thing, just get the gist. Enough chit-chat, let's get to the point!
You all understand the importance of posting on Moments, right? Building a high-quality Moments profile requires practice, don't just copy what I write.
(This article will be a little wordy, please forgive me.)
Girls react very differently to different quality Moments. For example, she might look at a guy's Moments like a work of art; she'll be curious, excited, and discuss all sorts of things about your life with you. But looking at other guys' Moments is like accidentally seeing a piece of trash; she won't want to look any further. Therefore, a high-quality Moments profile is your key weapon to stand out.
For example, both are photos of food, but one photo shows abundant ingredients, exquisite preparation, and sophisticated arrangement. Furthermore, the container itself looks very high-quality, suggesting a sophisticated restaurant (only those with money can afford it), indirectly confirming the person's taste in food (most girls are foodies, so they'll have something in common; otherwise, what do you think girls do when they go shopping? Buy, buy, buy! Eat, eat, eat!). Seeing such a picture, a girl will think the man has a good financial foundation and also has good taste and style. She'll be very willing to leave comments and interact with you.
However, if it's just a casually taken restaurant photo, even if it's the same food, the casual shooting style and caption won't be attractive. Such a post on social media simply won't capture a girl's interest. She might just swipe past it. She won't even have the desire to click and see the full-size image. Therefore, the same thing, different packaging methods, have a crucial impact on the result.
Girls like to define a man's image and judge what kind of person he is based on their own observations. Your social circle is key to her definition, basically accounting for 80%, the rest being conversation and other things. Many people like to turn their social media into a gossip hub, filled with random links (do you think they'll click on them?). When women see these kinds of things, they'll just think the man is boring, spending his days idly sharing such low-class content. Women value a man's quality of life and lifestyle. So, is being handsome important? Is being rich important? They are both important, but having these material qualities is best. However, it's certain that different types of women focus on different things. Some like handsome men, some like wealthy men, but what they all have in common is that they don't like losers. They all like high-quality men, but they don't like pretentious men. In short, if you can't make them like you, at least don't make them dislike you, right?
First of all, the essence of a social circle is high quality. A high-quality social circle is a comprehensive quality. Every aspect of the circle has this requirement. Profile pictures, cover photos, photo content, arrangement, photo editing style, and captions all affect the overall quality of the circle. That is to say, you need to ensure that every element of the content you post in the circle is okay, coordinated, and well-matched. And the resulting sense of quality is extremely attractive to women.
So before teaching you how to properly build your social circle, let me first talk about things you should avoid:

1. First, all sorts of forwarded links. Delete anything meaningless; they'll expire and nobody will read them. Just save the ones you like. This kind of stuff will make your circle look messy.
2. A flood of inspirational quotes. I know everyone likes to reflect on life, but, my friends, times have changed. It's 2019. A grown man acting like Lin Daiyu, constantly lamenting, doesn't he feel effeminate?
3. Posting tons of pictures at once (spam). Some people go on trips, get excited, take a bunch of photos, and then post them all on their Moments without editing or carefully selecting them. This is a very low and casual approach. Quality people go out and find inspiration before taking photos, until they get a masterpiece (that's what photographers do).
4. A penchant for posting short videos (again, spam). Some people attend weddings or parties and like to film short clips. Not only do they not consider other people's data usage, but this is also very rude. You're not a famous director; what quality content can you possibly create for your WeChat Moments in just a few seconds?
5. Posting complaints, anger, or subtly criticizing others—nobody likes that kind of negative energy. Everyone prefers positive energy. I know making money isn't easy this year, but please, if you're unhappy, just... keep it to yourself and don't post it on your Moments. Remember, this kind of content should absolutely not appear in a quality WeChat Moments.
Okay, so we've talked about the wrong way to present yourself in a Moments. Now let's talk about what makes a good Moments. First, you need a good profile picture. The first step in building a high-quality Moments is having a good profile picture. Everyone loves to look at faces, right? You're no exception. A good profile picture will attract people to click into your Moments. If your profile picture is bad, no matter how well you build your Moments, few girls will notice it. That's the opportunity a good profile picture can bring you. Your profile picture accounts for 50% of your success. Remember, always use your own photos. Can you use a handsome online picture? Sure, but if you do, it'll just expose your insecurity when you try to exchange photos with girls later. Since you'll be meeting them anyway, what's wrong with using your own photo?
Okay, let's talk about how to take a profile picture. First, the background must be neat and tidy; this is the most basic requirement. Don't include clutter, like a dorm bed, etc., as this will make you seem like you have a low quality of life. Choose a clean and tidy background for your profile picture. For example, a solid-color wall, or a stylish coffee shop background, or a fashionable wall will all work. Also, since it's a profile picture, you should use a headshot or a half-body photo. Never use a full-body photo, because it's hard to see your face in a full-body photo, so it's unlikely to attract the other person's attention. This is something you must pay attention to. The main purpose of the profile picture is to showcase yourself comprehensively through your photos, including your appearance, height, economic status, and social standing. Personal taste is meant to make girls feel that you are different, more distinctive and attractive than other guys. Simply put, the profile picture is the introduction, and the profile picture is the full text.

In my last article, I talked about some methods for building a social circle. This time, I'll add a few more, and you can refer to them:

1. Food is something everyone loves, and Chinese people love to eat. Posting pictures of delicious-looking food on your social media is incredibly tempting for girls. When she sees the food and scenery in your posts, she'll think you're someone who loves life and is particular about food and entertainment. Being friends with such a guy would make life feel wonderful every day. However, when posting food and travel-related content, pay attention to creating a high-quality feel. For example, if you're eating seafood, the colors are naturally vibrant. Pay attention to the arrangement or presentation to create an aesthetically pleasing and impressive look. Also, when photographing food, learn to photograph one item at a time. Too many items will make the picture cluttered. Make sure the food looks appetizing and tempting. Besides photographing the food itself, beautiful tableware is also worth photographing. Many unique restaurants have tableware that makes you want to go (you might not like it, but girls do—you know the drill). For example, the material and color of the tableware in Yunnan restaurants give the feeling of eating in a small wooden cabin in the forest, which is perfect for photographing. For example, when eating Zhejiang cuisine, Zhejiang restaurants often emphasize cultural aspects, using tableware with designs and patterns resembling Song Dynasty porcelain. This is also great for photos. Or, if you're drinking with friends at a bar, displaying different shaped bottles together will look very appealing. I know some people will ask, "Didn't you say in your first article that you should cook your own steak and not post it at restaurants?" Please, that was for chatting with girls; this is for posting on
social media, it's different. 2. Posting travel photos can also showcase your value. A love of travel is human nature, especially for girls; it seems like everything in life can be related to travel. So, post some photos of your trips on social media. The destination doesn't matter; the important thing is to learn how to take beautiful photos (I'll talk about that next time), making girls want to go. This will make girls think you're someone who enjoys life and has high standards for quality of life.
3. You can also post on social media to showcase your social value. Posting photos of yourself attending social events will make girls think you're a good communicator and communicator—that's what you call an interesting soul, you know? Those dull, introverted guys will only make people feel awkward and bored. Note that the point of these posts is to highlight your influence and leadership. Whether it's a more formal or more casual occasion, like a karaoke session with colleagues, remember to center the photos on yourself. The photos should show you as the core of the group, for example, everyone listening to you speak, or photos of you leading a group in a task. These photos express your status and respect among people. They also reflect that everyone recognizes you as a leader. Such photos will greatly increase your attractiveness.
4. Post on social media that showcase your financial status. For example, if you bought a new car or a luxury belt, post about what you bought yourself. Show it off when you should; avoid using stock photos. When girls see these posts, they'll understand, "Oh, this person has good financial means," and they'll value you more. However, you can't be too direct when posting on social media. For example, if you directly post a picture of a car brand logo, that's considered showing off and is rather low-class. We're not trying to flaunt wealth; we're just objectively stating, "Oh, I own this.
" 5. You can post photos of yourself making food at home, or reading and writing in your study. Seeing these photos, girls will understand that you own your own house (if you don't, borrow one from a friend). Or, if you want to show off your car on social media, try posting pictures of the side or interior. Girls will judge the quality of your car based on these details (if you don't own one, borrow or rent one; after all, buying a good car isn't cheap, right? Forget about anything under 100,000 RMB—even ride-hailing services have this level of quality).
6. Another example is when a friend sends you the latest iPhone shortly after its release, or gives you exquisite mooncakes for the Mid-Autumn Festival. Posting these photos on social media will make girls think you're amazing and admire you greatly. Wow, someone actually gave him such a big gift, he must be very high-ranking (a big gift for a leader, you know what I mean).
7. Photos of important circles, especially group photos with girls, particularly beautiful girls, can indirectly showcase your charm and even arouse jealousy in girls. It makes girls feel you are rare and mature. However, there are two things to note with these photos. First, don't include more than two girls with whom you have a close relationship. Otherwise, other girls will think you're a womanizer and refuse to communicate with you further. Therefore, the second point to note in these social media posts is that you should subtly portray your friendship with the girl, and absolutely avoid any ambiguous feelings. Furthermore, the shooting location for these photos should ideally be a spacious outdoor area or a bright indoor space. Avoid dark, cramped, and enclosed scenes like karaoke bars, as these can also create misunderstandings (people might think you, hehe, I won't say more).

Okay, that's all for now. Brothers, please leave comments to support me, and we can even add each other as friends!

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