These are my thoughts upon entering the park. I also hope to make friends as the New Year approaches, and enjoy the pinnacle of life together.

I've been in this circle for a while now, talked to many friends, and have some thoughts I'd like to share, which can also serve as experience for newcomers. First, you need to clarify your purpose for being here. Is it just to add some excitement to a dull life, to play around occasionally, or is it a more targeted approach like cuckoldry, slutry, or submissive relationships? Second, consider whether you're looking for single men or couples. Some couples prefer single men; seeing their wives being with other men excites them. The advantage of single men is that they can focus on one woman, and if they are charming, tasteful, and good at flirting, women will enjoy it immensely. Of course, finding single men is much more difficult than finding couples, because single men have higher standards. Some couples like to play together as a group of four—playing alone, swapping, or playing in separate rooms—it's all fine, as long as the atmosphere is right, you can play however you like. If your wife is shy or nervous the first time, I have a little trick: wear a blindfold. Do it with your wife first, then gradually suggest swapping. This will make her more receptive, less resistant, and less nervous.
Regarding the topic of threesomes or "breathing" (a euphemism for sexual activity), wives often experience immense pressure. This is due to the constraints of thousands of years of feudal ideology in China, where men can do whatever they want, while women, even if they have ideas, dare not express them, let alone experience them – that's practically a fantasy. Therefore, I suggest that many husbands prioritize their wives when engaging in such activities (as many friends have said, they're there to serve their wives, not to find prostitutes). They should communicate and exchange ideas more, avoiding being too subjective and completely disregarding their wives' feelings. This is something that needs careful attention.
I've talked to many friends and wasted a lot of time. I initially said I wouldn't add single men, but many people still added me persistently. Some added me but didn't speak, so I had to delete them. Others made good points, saying their wives fully agreed, but when it came to creating a group chat, they started saying their wives were introverted, busy with work, and various other excuses. Since they're here to have fun, and since they've all agreed, what can't they talk about? If they can't even chat, how can they have a good time when they actually meet in person? Some people switch between their wife's account and their own account to chat with you. They start by talking about exchanging photos, then use their wife's account to say things like, "I'm still a little reserved, why don't you three play together?"—leading you towards a threesome (personal experience). Some friends immediately want to exchange photos, and after looking at the photos and asking about basic information, they'll ask if you're available anytime soon, acting very impatient. This is something that needs to be done gradually, step by step. First, get to know each other's specific situations. If it's a good fit, exchange photos. If there's a connection, then you can get to know each other better and chat. When things are going well, you can meet in person, and then the real work can begin. Haste makes waste, and for safety reasons, don't rush things. My initial intention here was to add some fun to my boring life, and I came here sincerely to meet everyone. I didn't expect to have to play detective, constantly distinguishing between real and fake people. It's really frustrating and exhausting.
These are just some of my humble opinions. I'm someone who enjoys sharing, and I hope everyone will leave comments and discuss them together. Any good suggestions or ideas are welcome. If I've written anything incorrectly, please point it out so we can discuss and improve together.
Christmas is just around the corner, followed by New Year's Day, and then the Lunar New Year. I sincerely hope that everyone in this community can find happiness, friends, and the joy they desire. If fate allows, I hope we can find travel companions to release our passion on our journeys and find happiness in foreign lands.

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