Online dating tips: Personal experience sharing (mindset section)

Hello everyone, long time no see! I've been busy with work lately, so I haven't been posting articles as frequently. Feel free to leave a message if you have any requests for specific content
. These past few days, I've received several friend requests asking about online chatting. I'm very pleased; the focus has shifted from "how to chat" to "how to arrange a date," which shows that some people are still reading my articles. I hope to help everyone have fun, but sometimes I can't reply immediately because I'm busy. I also know a few couples who are currently dating online. If you'd like to arrange a date with me, please let me know beforehand. Thank you!
Today's article will address how to turn a successful chat into a date. This article mainly focuses on your mindset; a correct mindset is crucial for success. I won't go into too many techniques, so you can consider reading it yourself.
First and foremost, we need to date a girl who is a potential candidate. Basically, you should be 90% confident you can win her over in online chatting before considering asking her out for dinner. So, if you're asking what to do after getting a date, or how to sleep with her, you need to consider whether you've done your preliminary work and chosen the right person. Of course, if you're a virgin and too eager, well, I can't help you with that. Many people think online chatting is too much trouble, so if you're willing to approach people offline, that's definitely the best option. But if you're that kind of person, you don't need to read all this. Simply put, playing PUBG is the easiest way—just pay up. So, keep the right mindset, be patient, and you'll reap what you sow.
How do you tell if someone is also just looking for fun? If you're in the flirting stage, and they haven't expressed any intention to develop a long-term relationship with you, but are still willing to flirt, ask you out for dinner, and then sleep with you, okay, they're also a player. It's like the term "player girl" used to describe a woman; it roughly means the same thing. Sometimes, they just have a player mentality, they're only interested in you because you're handsome or rich, and they'll leave when they're bored. It's not that they're irresponsible, it's that you're too serious.
In short, it's a one-night stand, a mutually beneficial arrangement. I don't want to make this kind of thing sound too noble. The Peking University PUA incident has been very popular recently, and you've probably all heard about it. What I'm teaching you here is how to chat with girls online, not how to use this method to start a relationship. So, single people, use this as a guide and manage your own actions. In short, it's unwise to have malicious intentions, and some things are best left unexamined. What we want is for each other to be happy, not to harm ordinary young women. Let's be kinder to the world. To young women aged 18-25 (any younger, hmph, bad guys!), please, Mr. Xu, leave them alone. If you're really looking for a relationship, please be mindful of boundaries. I won't elaborate further.
I suggest setting the age range at 26 and above. Here's some practical advice: girls who are easy to date generally have these characteristics; you can observe their social circles: First, they love taking selfies without showing their faces. I don't need to elaborate; they clearly want men to admire their figures and talk to them. Second, they own dogs (not necessarily cat owners). Dogs offer more companionship than cats, and older women without children or boyfriends are more prone to loneliness. Third, they like taking taxis. Girls who like taking taxis are generally less secure, fearing perverts on public transport (this isn't absolute, just a personal opinion). If the app explicitly states that you're looking for a boyfriend and sets a bunch of conditions, well, forget it, buddy, this is online dating, not a blind date. This is based on my long-term experience; you can think about it yourselves.
Okay, now that we've talked about choosing someone, let's discuss the most important issue: what's the right mindset. First, as I mentioned before, if you're thinking, "I want to ask you out," the woman isn't thinking, "Come on, ask me out!" Instead, she's thinking, "So many men want to ask me out, give me a reason to go on a date with you." If you want her to sleep with you, that's fundamentally wrong. Chatting and dating are about both parties enjoying the ambiguity. You're after that moment, she's after a comfortable experience. She also has the right to choose. If they're all handsome, why not choose someone humorous and witty? Okay, you say you're well-endowed and good in bed, but how will she know if she hasn't tried? You say you have a great body and are handsome? Please, if you had those qualities, you wouldn't need to read this. What they want is romance, recognition and understanding, and relief from loneliness. Sex is an important step, but only the last one, a natural progression. Many details, whether chatting or dating, reveal this. Here's a crucial point: what constitutes high quality? We've discussed appearance and chatting before, but most importantly, your mindset is key. You're not a walking sex machine; you don't have to sleep with someone just because they want to. You need to learn to choose, to think critically: why do I want to ask her out? What attracts me to her? After chatting more, you
have the right to be selective. If you feel something isn't right, let it go; there's no need to cling. A woman's photos and her real appearance are often different. Without a good foundation, no amount of makeup can make her look much better. If the difference is significant in person, it's simple: maintain mutual respect, leave a casual message, and politely go home. If she treats you the same way, I don't need to say more; you all understand.
Finally, let me say something heartfelt. Thank you to all the brothers who read this far. Many people have asked me for chat logs, wanting to see how I chat. I'm sorry to disappoint you all, I basically don't chat online anymore. Why? It's simple, the methods for meeting up are different, and what I'm looking for is different. As my level of understanding improves, what I pursue gradually changes. Competing to meet up a lot isn't a skill; pursuing quantity alone is meaningless. Pursuing quality is key. High-scoring girls generally don't chat online much. You could say that 90% of online chats are between male losers and 80% are female losers. A beautiful woman has a bunch of high-scoring men pursuing her, so why would she open an app and chat with someone she's never even met? Isn't that a waste of time?
Also, some friends have asked me if those paid platforms that match you with girls are reliable. I haven't used them. I'm just giving you an objective analysis; think about whether it makes sense for yourself. Are pretty girls short of men? Among those who use these kinds of apps, do you think there are more losers or handsome guys? If they're truly beautiful, why would they risk leaking their information by using this platform, only to not be matched with quality men? 69 websites don't offer paid matching services either, so those platforms with membership fees of 5K+, think about it yourselves.
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