Lewd but not disorderly

Seeing the sincere comments from netizens on 69.com, my heart pounded. "Before I could utter a soft cry... I wanted to hold your hand and stay... but I could only turn back and send you off with a heartfelt glance" (@Meeting Among Roses). Such poetic words transport me to a fairyland, where I can still feel the warmth of your presence and the lingering fragrance. How beautiful!
Actually, it's not as @For Sexual Pleasure said: You ultimately return here?! Three days apart, and I am no longer the same person I once was. Returning to 69.com, the initial excitement is gone, replaced by a sense of peace and rationality.
During our time away from 69.com, my wife and I reflected on our sex life. What kind of life do we truly want?
As mentioned earlier, I am a sexually unrestrained person; if I were allowed to indulge myself, my desires would slide into an abyss. My wife, however, is always a rational "strong woman," thoughtful and always able to put a delicate rein on this runaway horse. And this rein, I later came to understand as the bottom line of our lives.
Sexologist Li Yinhe stated that marital friendships do not disrupt social order, do not damage marital relationships, and should not be subject to secular laws. I believe that both government regulatory bodies and 69.com operators should allow the existence of this niche form of marital friendship, but on the one hand, it should not interfere with the regime, and on the other hand, it should not violate ethical norms, affect future generations, or damage marriages. This should be a fundamental bottom line for marital friendships. The fact that we can access 69.com without VPNs is largely due to not crossing any red lines.
Every user on 69.com also has an existing bottom line, which I believe is that it should not weaken marital relationships. As long as this goal is achieved, whether it's fantasizing, sharing a bed, threesomes, or even casual sex, as long as both spouses agree and participate voluntarily, it's acceptable to enjoy it within the community.
However, casual sex should be considered the highest form of marital friendship. If it progresses further, such as incest leading to deformed offspring, it will affect social stability, and regulatory bodies will certainly crack down on it; if it involves promiscuity, it will disrupt the population and cause widespread chaos.
While desire is limitless, sexual pleasure should have its limits—it must not affect society, the community, or marital relationships. This limit also represents the bottom line for marital relationships.
Satisfaction with basic necessities can lead to lust. Empress Wu Zetian, after seizing power, kept countless male lovers, yet she exercised restraint, governed the country effectively, and became China's longest-lived emperor (dying at 82). Liu Ziye of the Northern and Southern Dynasties, on the other hand, stole other men's wives, married his own sister and aunt, and raped his aunt, ultimately being killed by his own uncle. History serves as a mirror; no emperor throughout history was immune to lust. Liu Bang's love of beautiful women was directly recorded by Sima Qian in the *Records of the Grand Historian*, and Li Shimin's lust is well-known, yet this did not prevent them from achieving great things. Their success was based on the principle of "lust without lewdness." One can pursue ultimate sexual pleasure, but the premise is not lust for its own sake, nor should it be treated as a primary pursuit or a means to advance one's future. Furthermore, it must not violate ethical norms, making one a target of public condemnation. If emperors and generals acted this way, how much more should ordinary people like us?
I've rambled on for so long, I don't even know where I ended up. If you're a patient reader, please bear with it. If you find it easy on the eyes, please leave a comment. If there's a flood of negative reviews, I might have to stop writing altogether.

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