Wife's account: My first swapping experience after five years of brainwashing by my husband (1)

As the title suggests: My husband spent five whole years persuading me to participate in this activity after we got married. Because he's older than me, and he studied, lived, and was married abroad during his youth, he was familiar with and had participated in couples' dating activities. Therefore, having such a seasoned veteran by my side, it's quite a testament to my strong willpower that I persisted for five years. So what made me finally agree to participate?
My husband had been connecting with some high-quality couples and exchanging private messages with them. One evening in June 2021, my husband said, "Let's go downstairs for a walk! There's a new bar near the entrance; we can sit for a while and listen to some music." Chengdu is a romantic and charming city. Although my home isn't in the city center, it's right next to a commercial center and quite lively. I didn't think much of it; we often go out for walks.
But when we sat down, he told me, "I met a guy today, we had a good chat, how about we meet up?" I instantly felt he was being incredibly shameless, but seeing his pitiful expression, I thought, "Let's just meet up, I won't do anything more."
The man arrived shortly after. He was from Changsha and had a business project in Chengdu, so he would be frequently in Chengdu recently. He and his wife had attended similar events before, but his wife wasn't there today, so he was the only one there. Let's call him A.
A was a veteran, a little over 1.7 meters tall, about 30 years old, but with a good posture. He wasn't exactly handsome, but he looked very energetic. My first impression of him was very good, which was crucial! We chatted over drinks. He was quite sincere, and when I asked about his profession and previous friendships, he didn't mince words, increasing my positive impression. During the drinks, he took care of my husband and me, pouring drinks and handing us tissues. He was well-behaved and considerate, further increasing my positive impression. When we were almost finished drinking, seeing that we hadn't invited him to stay, he offered to leave first, further increasing my positive impression.
My husband knows me very well. We fell in love at first sight, and our personalities are very compatible. We've been together for five years, and he can tell why I'm unhappy just by looking at my expression. If he hesitates for a moment, I know what he's holding back. Seeing that I liked A, he naturally couldn't let this golden opportunity pass him by. He immediately pulled A down and said, "My house is nearby, let me take you for a walk!" When I heard this, I was a little surprised, terrified, and at a loss... Although I didn't dislike him and even had some feelings for him, I hadn't thought about taking it further... My mind went blank. My husband naturally noticed, gently put his arm around me, and rubbed me soothingly before we got up and went home.
After we got home, my overall state was very different. I was completely different from when I was at the bar. If I was Sun Erniang then, I was Lin Daiyu now, just short of tears. At this time, A's skills started to come out again: "Brother, do you have massage oil? We're in the business of that. We can give your wife a massage to relax..." Bonus points, big bonus points! He proactively identified the problem and proposed an effective and feasible solution, which made me, who was still feeling anxious, start to look forward to the aromatherapy spa I was about
to enjoy. We didn't actually have that at home, so he ordered takeout and had a delivery person buy it for us. While waiting for the essential oils, to avoid awkwardness, we played a game of Switch for a while. While playing, I mentally prepared myself: "It's just a little bit, right? He (my husband) just wants to see me with other men, so let's do it! Let's make it big, make him jealous and regretful!" Looking back, my thoughts at the time were really naive, but it was a process of reshaping my worldview and a breakthrough opportunity. This is
my first time writing a diary, so I'm not quite sure how to keep the pace. I'll stop here for today… If anyone likes to hear more, I'll continue.

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