Sex must ignite a woman's desire.

Discussions between couples often fail to improve their sex life because they are reluctant to ask their partners what they like during sex. This
is especially true for chauvinistic men who often believe they should be sex experts, and women expect the same from their partners. Thus, men, due to complacency or self-deception, are unwilling to try to improve. Men are particularly sensitive to evaluations of their sexual abilities. When women tell them what they like or dislike, men often hear things like, "You're not good enough. Other men know how to do it, why don't you?" Women usually don't proactively tell their partners what they want because they don't want sex to be monotonous; they want to discover the true meaning of sex together.
Submissive women, however, mistakenly believe that if a man truly loves her, he should know how to do it. This feeling, a romantic fantasy, lacks shared communication and cannot create perfect sex. Furthermore, women are often afraid for their partners to know their sexual needs, worrying that they will be disrespected or unwilling to meet their demands. Even though most books on sex discuss these topics, many couples still struggle to communicate effectively and rarely discuss sex. They only have a cursory discussion when problems arise during sex. The dissatisfied partner starts complaining, while the other is completely unresponsive. In such situations, communication becomes less of an enjoyable experience and more of a criticism or blame. In fact, that's how it is in a sense. Every woman is different; there are differences not only between men and women, but also between women themselves. Different times, different mindsets, and different sexual desires can lead to different experiences. For men, one or two discussions are far from enough to truly understand a woman's needs during sex. More often than not, even studying general techniques and methods in the most comprehensive textbooks or seminars cannot uncover your partner's unique preferences. Only after consistently paying attention to and understanding what your partner needs most in the here and now can a man truly relax. While it's not necessary to strictly adhere to your partner's suggestions every time, understanding their preferences can significantly boost a man's confidence, allowing for a fresh experience each time. When some techniques don't work, a man can return to the ways his partner prefers. This confidence helps men relax during sex, becoming more creative and spontaneous. During sex, when a man can freely use methods that have been tried and worked on with a woman, he will be free to try and create new methods.

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