Some logical points about marital threesomes

Five key issues to consider in couples' dating/threesome interactions , along with preventative measures and remedies :
What should you do if your wife/husband falls in love with someone else after a long time?
What to do if you have an unplanned pregnancy?
What should I do if I get a sexually transmitted infection?
What if the truth comes out and becomes known to everyone (including the issue of legal sanctions)?
How to handle unpleasant issues that may arise during online interactions?

If you are a stable married couple and don't want this game to ruin your family, I suggest you discuss these four issues before starting.
Everything carries risk, and seeking pleasure naturally involves risk. Consider whether you can bear the risk.
Recommended preventative measures and remedies:
Question 1: What should I do if I get a sexually transmitted infection?
Precaution 1: Always use a condom when interacting with people you are not particularly familiar with.
Preventive measure 2: Both yourself and the people you frequently interact with should have regular medical checkups.
Have a check-up every six months, and also if any abnormalities are found in the genital area. If any problems are found with the STD six-item test, immediately stop using the service and seek treatment.
3. Get the HPV vaccine .
Although the effect of this vaccine is limited for those who have had sexual experience, it is better than nothing. If you want to have sex, it is best for both men and women to get vaccinated. However, don't think that you can be careless about health and hygiene just because you have been vaccinated. The vaccine's effect is very limited.
4. Pay attention to personal hygiene in daily life, and ask the other person to wash and check their hands before interacting with them .
Blood tests at the hospital cannot detect all problems, especially some issues with the surface of the genital skin. (Especially when interacting with an unfamiliar partner.) The wife should carefully examine the partner's genitals . (It's embarrassing for a man to have another man examine his genitals, so it's best for the wife to do it.) Ensure sufficient lighting, fully retract the foreskin for a thorough examination, and also check the skin under the pubic hair. If redness, blisters, skin damage, odor, or abnormal color are found, do not continue the interaction . If no problems are found, use a disinfectant solution to thoroughly clean the genitals (including pubic hair) again.
If the wife has a dominant personality, she can bend over and examine the genitals like a queen examining her lover; if she has a submissive personality, she can kneel down, make a kissing motion, and bring her face close for a closer look. Generally, this won't cause embarrassment.
New couples who are new to the industry often find that the wife is shy and embarrassed to examine the genitals. This is not good. It's best to find an experienced couple to teach her (with guidance, she won't be shy anymore), or start with a familiar single man. Newcomers should avoid interacting with unfamiliar single men.
5. Play with a fixed group of people you interact with more often .
This actually contradicts some of the preventative measures for question 1. While it's easier to develop feelings for someone you interact with over time if you have a fixed group of people, having relationships with too many different people each time can lead to greater health risks. My advice on this is to prioritize health , focus on having a fixed group of people, and use non-fixed groups as a secondary option. I will write about how to prevent and handle the issue of developing feelings over time later.
6. Choose to interact with people you know well.
Actually, it contradicts the preventative measures in question 4.
Remedial measures and timely treatment once a problem is discovered.

Question 2: What should I do if my wife/husband falls in love with someone else over time?
Preventive measure 1: Control the frequency of interaction with individual game objects (except for interactive objects that are convenient to live with).
(For example, if the husband is away for a month and the wife is partying with the same single man every night during that month, the risk of problems is high. But if she only sees him once a week, the risk is much lower.)
Preventive measure 2: During the same period, the wife should have two or more different people she interacts with besides her husband.
(Having your wife play with different people can significantly reduce her dependence on one person, such as playing with the same single man twice a week; or playing with two different single men twice a week...)
Precaution 3: Unmarried/divorced women of advanced age without a stable boyfriend are not allowed to participate in the game .
(This is mainly to prevent the husband from having problems. Older single women are more likely to fall in love with someone because of sex and try to destroy his existing family...)
4. Choose couples/partners with stable relationships for activities.
(If their relationship is stable and they are unlikely to separate, it's less likely that one of them will be left single after a divorce/breakup due to the swap. Whether you're swapping partners/looking for single men/women, try to find someone with a stable relationship, preferably someone your partner agrees to. If your partner doesn't agree, and it gets discovered, the relationship might be in trouble...and the risk increases...)
5. When choosing a "fast-food single man" who doesn't have a wife or a stable girlfriend , try to choose one who is unlikely to get married, such as one who is 8 years younger than his wife. However, there are a few exceptions .
> It's best to avoid "fast-food single men" (men seeking casual sex). If you must choose, undergraduate students are the top choice . They're young, energetic, and have a short refractory period... various advantages, and they generally won't intentionally try to break you up to pursue your wife. ...The risks for single men are actually quite high. A few years ago, when I was single, I "stole" someone else's girlfriend... *facepalm*... It wasn't intentional. They broke up because the girl's family strongly opposed it, not because I deliberately seduced or broke them up. They still interact frequently, so I didn't completely steal her away.
(Why can there be exceptions? Because some are men your wife likes. Since you're playing this game, you should let your wife play with men she likes, otherwise what's the point?)
Precaution 6: When interacting with strangers, you should conceal your personal information, including frequently used contact information and address, when you have only known them for a short time.
(For newly engaged couples, if engaging with strangers, the first few interactions should ideally take place in a hotel. Avoid adding each other on WeChat/QQ or exchanging phone numbers. You can share your real names [in case of police raids, as long as it's not a three-person interaction, knowing each other's real names generally won't cause trouble. Also, be cautious about engaging in group interactions in hotels; specific issues are discussed in section 4 ]. Experienced couples can rent a private room for their daily activities. This helps control the possibility of the partner becoming overly clingy after interactions. Only when you are very familiar with and trust the partner should they reveal your main personal information .)
Of course, the most crucial thing is that your relationship needs to be stable. If problems arise in your relationship, couples' dating services are not a panacea; they can only enhance it.
Below, we'll discuss remedial measures:
Remedy 1: Accept your wife's new lover
So what if she falls in love with someone else? Will it necessarily destroy a family?
Couples' online activities are not simply about sexual release, especially for women, who can't always completely separate sex and love. It's understandable that developing feelings of attraction or even love after a long period of intimacy. (Of course, this is my opinion; some couples I know believe that if the wife develops feelings for her online partner, they should immediately break them up. I think that's wrong; it's like giving the wife a human massage. A wife can only have better pleasure with a single man if she has feelings for him, and feelings of attraction and love are hard to distinguish, so don't reject feelings of love/attraction.) As a husband, since you've chosen this activity, don't be hostile towards your wife's new lover. You should encourage her to continue interacting with him, and if both of you have the means, consider having him/her move into your home. (Someone asked: Didn't you say you wanted to hide personal information? That's for strangers you've just met and don't know well. If your wife has "fallen in love" with him, it's obvious you're already very familiar with him [perhaps through interaction, or perhaps he/she was already an acquaintance of yours], so there's no need to be wary of personal information.)
Remedy 2: If your wife falls in love with someone else, win her back.
Does falling in love with him today mean loving him forever? If
a wife falls for a virtual lover, the husband should show more care for her, make love to her more often, and also encourage the other men she likes to interact with her more, diverting her attention from him. Over time, the wife will feel less "in love" with this man, greatly reducing the risk.
Question 3: What should I do if I have an unplanned pregnancy?
Prevention measures 1. Normal contraceptive methods.
Condoms are recommended as they can also prevent sexually transmitted diseases. For close, familiar partners with whom you know each other very well, if your wife prefers unprotected sex , you can also choose oral contraceptives such as Marvelon based on your wife's health condition .
Remedial measures and contingency plans should be prepared.
There is no 100% reliable contraception in the world . If an unplanned pregnancy occurs, it's best to have a contingency plan in place . My advice is: as a husband, if you're going to have fun , you should support your wife in having the baby if she becomes pregnant , regardless of who the father is .
The plan should include: 1. Whether to give birth or abort; 2. Whether to deliberately keep the child's "potential father" informed; 3. Whether to investigate whether the child is yours. These three questions should be discussed beforehand.
As a man, you need to be responsible. Since you've chosen to have fun, if an unplanned pregnancy occurs, please don't make your wife have an abortion (unless your wife is firmly childless and insists on having an abortion). It's best to clearly tell your wife, "Don't abort the child just because it might/is definitely not mine."
As for whether to conduct a DNA test and whether to keep the other person informed, that's a matter of personal opinion.
My wife now allows me to have unprotected sex with two other men, but I haven't gotten pregnant yet. There was another woman (one of the men's wives) with whom the three of us had sex before, and now she has a child (we've agreed never to find out who the father is). We'll start using contraception from now on.
Question 4: What if the matter is exposed and everyone finds out?
Prevention measure 1: When interacting with multiple friends, you can conceal your marital/romantic relationship.
When interacting with friends and acquaintances , minimize interactions with friends who know both of you. Instead , focus on interacting with close friends who only know one of you (but these should be long-term, reliable friends with whom you can share your relationship — it's safer and more exciting ).
For example, I have a classmate who doesn't know my wife. I could tell him a girl wants to meet up… then my wife goes to meet him… and later we have a threesome, and he doesn't even know the girl is my wife . When interacting with multiple friends of your wife, it's not necessary for them to know you're her husband.
Preventive measure 2 : When interacting with friends and acquaintances, minimize interactions with multiple friends who know both spouses.
If he knew the couple before interacting with them, it would be impossible for him to hide their marital relationship. Generally, the risk of such an acquaintance being exposed is very high, so be cautious about interacting with multiple people! However , it is not that you can't interact with such a friend at all ; your wife can go on a date with him alone .
Precaution 3: Avoid interacting with people who may cause serious conflicts of interest (whether it is a group interaction or a two-person interaction).
( This isn't about just anyone with a conflict of interest, but rather a serious one. For example, if your wife works in a private company, her direct supervisor is usually not someone with a serious conflict of interest, because it's just a job, and you can easily switch jobs. It's also unlikely you'll offend your boss and become their enemy. However, your wife's direct subordinates, peers, and suppliers at the company are more dangerous. These are people who often need your wife's favors, and your wife can't always satisfy their needs. In rare cases, this can lead to a complete falling out, with the person threatening to talk about it...)
Prevention measure 4: Engage in more interactions between two people and less interactions with multiple people, but don't let your husband stray too far away.
The wife can absolutely have one-on-one dates with her new partner. During these dates , she can call her husband to listen in or recount the experience later . This is already quite exciting; group dates don't need to be deliberately pursued .
A word of caution for one-on-one dates: If meeting a new partner, the husband must be nearby!
As the saying goes, you can know a person's face but not their heart. A very small number of men, seemingly polite, can become extremely violent and savage when sexually aroused, disrespecting women's wishes (such as forcing anal sex against their will). Therefore, for the first one-on-one date with a new partner, it's best to go to a hotel or your own private space rather than their home. If it's a hotel, the husband should follow her there and book a separate room. The wife should send the room number to her husband and keep them on the phone throughout the entire encounter (with the husband remaining silent).
If it's your own private space, the husband should wait outside and keep the phone on the phone the entire time.
Precaution 5: When engaging in group activities, be careful in choosing the venue!
Group activities are best conducted in brothels, entire groups of guests renting rooms for a day, or entire groups of guesthouses near tourist attractions. If these options are not available, hotel suites can be considered with caution, but regular hotel rooms should be avoided.
Group activities are illegal in China!
Question 1: How to handle unpleasant issues that may arise during the process of making friends?
Preventative measure 1: Before engaging in any activity, clearly communicate your (both spouses') sexual orientation and the types of interaction you are comfortable with ( e.g., whether penetration is allowed, whether a condom is necessary, whether anal sex is permitted, whether kissing (or French kissing) is acceptable, etc.). Also, understand your partner's sexual orientation and the types of interaction they are comfortable with. Ask your partner to respect your rules, and also respect theirs.
Precaution 2: Choose people to interact with who are similar to your social circle (or who are well-mannered).
Preventive measure 3: When the wife first meets a new person, the husband should be nearby (if in a hotel, it is best to book a separate room and keep the phone on throughout the interaction) so that he can stop any compulsive behavior in time.
Countermeasure 1: If the person you are interacting with does something that you find very unacceptable, never interact with that person again.
Issues with same-sex contact during interactions: Same-sex contact (non-intimate, non-sexual) is often unavoidable in group activities, and those who cannot accept it are not suited for group interactions. However, there is a limit to this same-sex contact, and the specific limit needs to be discussed beforehand. If one or both parties are firmly straight, for example, my preferred approach is "when a single man is having sex with his wife, I lick their genitals," but I won't suck the single man's penis, nor do I want a single man to suck my penis. Some single men don't want men to lick their genitals when they are having sex with women; this should be agreed upon beforehand to avoid misunderstandings.

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