The husband is the wife's sex mentor

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According to statistics from sexual psychology surveys, in most couples' sexual lives, the man initiates over 70% of sexual activity, while the wife is often in a passive position. Sexual fear is also more common among women. Generally speaking, women are more shy than men, so the role of "sex mentor" is perfectly suited to the husband. The husband has an undeniable responsibility for arousing and guiding his wife sexually.
How can a husband be a good sex mentor to his wife? To be a good mentor, the husband must learn the basics of sexual physiology and psychology to take the initiative in sex. When the couple's educational levels differ significantly, it is even more important to patiently guide and enthusiastically teach. During sexual intercourse, the husband should guide his wife to concentrate fully and avoid distractions.
A husband who acts as a mentor should be considerate of his wife and avoid being overly chauvinistic. He should set a good example, and
when his wife is unwell or extremely tired, he should not force her to have sex, nor should he increase her psychological or physical burden or cause her to develop sexual resistance. He
should not be impatient with his wife's sexual experiences, pleasure, and sensations, but rather wait patiently and avoid scolding her, which would hurt her feelings. It's important to know that men's peak libido is around 18-25 years old, while women's is around 40 years old. Mutual understanding and cooperation between partners require a
process of practice. As long as both partners are at peace and psychologically harmonious, and discuss sexual matters openly, things will naturally fall into place.
If the wife experiences pain during intercourse, the husband, as her mentor, should stop immediately. He should advise her to seek timely gynecological examination and treatment at a relevant hospital, and not to delay seeking medical help, otherwise it will be too late if she develops frigidity.
There was a wife who, when her husband initiated sexual intimacy, coldly refused, saying, "We already have children, why are you still bothering me like this?" Some wives are excellent at housework and childcare, but their understanding of sex is pitifully low. They believe marriage is only for procreation and carrying on the family line; others mistakenly believe wives are their husbands' "sexual release tools," unaware of the shared responsibility of improving the quality of life for both partners. Don't mistakenly assume that long-married couples understand everything; reality is not like that. Therefore, the husband, as a mentor, should guide his wife to rediscover the meaning of sex and deepen her understanding of the essence of marriage.
He should regularly and proactively communicate with his wife about their sexual experiences, constantly summarizing and improving. He should encourage even the smallest progress his wife makes, and through continuous practice, find and adopt the positions, methods, timing, frequency, and psychological environment that both find ideal, gradually achieving harmony.
In a rural area, there was a couple who, after a passionate courtship, married. Later, the man went to university, gaining broader experience. Back home, in the warm comfort of the bed, the husband whispered some things about improving the quality of their sex life, but the wife covered her ears, calling it disgusting and regarding her kind husband as a "rogue." Furthermore, when couples reunite after a long separation, the husband often wants to be intimate, while the wife seems passive. The wife should also be understanding of her husband and not be like Kong Yiji, pretending to be "proper" and remaining ignorant to the end, a "unenlightened" woman for
life. The wife needs a correct understanding of sex so that both husband and wife can achieve a dual fusion of body and emotion, thus reaching an ideal state.

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