A complete guide to oral sex, based on personal experience.

I am a woman – a complete guide to oral sex, based on my personal experience.

This is a labor of love, the culmination of my husband and I've spent many years exploring our sexuality. I hope fellow sex enthusiasts will add to it and contribute to the richness of our sexual knowledge.
My husband is a very tender and passionate man in bed, which often leaves me wanting more. For example, he can perform countless oral sex positions for me, which I will now describe one by one.

First, the most common one: I lie down with my legs open, completely exposing my genitals to him. If I lie near the edge of the bed or sit on a table, and he sits on the floor or a chair, it will be even more comfortable for him. This position stimulates the woman's emotions. Watching my beloved man tenderly sucking and teasing the most sensitive and tender parts of my body between my legs makes my heart and body dance on the waves of pleasure. His tongue teased that spot like a flame, then spread like wildfire throughout my body. Every movement, every subtle nuance, made my heart and body tremble. What followed wasn't just lust, but also boundless, warm love, my heart overflowing with tenderness. At that moment, besides uncontrollable moans, my heart responded passionately: He loves me, he loves me!

II. Kneeling on the bed in a rear-entry position, he licked me from behind. This position is convenient for those who enjoy stimulating GMs. Yes, this position is primal, reminiscent of animals mating, especially when his tongue forcefully parted my vulva, like a male animal eagerly seeking an entrance. Perhaps it was precisely this primal nature that ignited my most instinctive, wild desires, and these desires burst forth with unstoppable power, turning my moans into a low growl almost like that of a female beast. At this moment, I was completely open, completely uninhibited—the former referring to my body, the latter to my soul. All the usual reserve, shyness, and restraint are abandoned, leaving only the most authentic experience and enjoyment of life. At this moment, it's best not to think of yourself as a human; you're an animal, really. Put aside your so-called human dignity and all pretense. You are an animal, an animal in the act of mating, happy and joyful.

Thirdly, the side-lying 69 position has two advantages: firstly, it's relatively easy for both people; secondly, it allows for mutual oral sex. Anyone who has ever performed oral sex has probably used this position. Because it's a side-lying kiss (sucking), even if he sucks my clitoris with great force, I won't feel uncomfortable due to excessive stimulation (other positions sometimes cause discomfort due to excessive stimulation, such as the urge to urinate). The woman should ideally place her legs on something supported, such as the headboard, to open her genitals as much as possible without getting too tired. The husband's head rests on my thighs, often with a small pillow underneath, so that the height of his mouth is just right for my genitals. This position can be played for as long as you want, but I always seem to work harder than him. When his penis is still soft, I can rest my head on his thigh normally, but when it gets hard and thick, the angle of entry into my mouth forces me to hold my head up while giving him oral sex so that my teeth don't hurt him.

Fourth, variation 1 of the 69 position: This time, instead of lying on my side, I kneel on top of my husband with my legs apart, my buttocks facing his mouth. My husband always elevates his head slightly to adjust to the most suitable height—this is very important. Too low, and not only is he tired (his neck is tired, he has to bend his head to lick), but I also don't enjoy it. Too high, and his mouth is pressed tightly against my vulva, which is uncomfortable. Even worse, it suffocates him; his nose and mouth are completely covered by my vulva, he can't breathe. It's true; once, after only a few minutes of "serving" me, he pushed me away with difficulty and said, "Let me catch my breath." So, oral sex is a delicate art, and you can't be careless.

I love this position. Spreading my legs wide, exposing my genitals directly above his mouth, letting him freely and unrestrainedly play with them feels amazing! And in this position, you don't need him to caress your labia too much; he should go straight to the point—the clitoris. Just that tiny, pointed point, in his mouth, being sucked with smacking sounds. If I also give him oral sex, his passion intensifies. He'll part my labia with both hands and suck on my clitoris, which always makes me lose control, my knees trembling. Oral sex in this position makes my clitoris swell up a lot, and I get very wet. Sometimes he'll even insert his fingers into my vagina while sucking. When I can't take it anymore, I'll arch my head back and rock back and forth like a trapped animal. It seems painful, but it's actually extreme pleasure. As they say, the ultimate pleasure is pain, and the ultimate splendor is tranquility (because I've lost my voice). The result is that I can't wait for him to enter me, to penetrate me. I always want to hold this position longer, much longer, but I always reluctantly give up because my knees get too tired from kneeling.

Fifth, the variation 2 of the 69 position, is the exact opposite of the above. My husband kneels on top of me, his buttocks facing my face. I can lie flat with my legs wide apart, or I can bend them and spread them apart. I find this position very comfortable because this time he's the one kneeling. However, ladies, please note that when his penis is erect, it points forward, and my mouth is below, so the angle is a bit unsuitable. I have to tilt my neck back as much as possible to allow my head to tilt back and accommodate his hard penis so that my teeth won't hurt him.

The oral sex experience in this position is slightly different from the above, often leaving me completely limp and unable to move or think.

If the first position is the most tender, the second the most primal, the third the most casual, and the fourth the most pleasurable, then this fifth is the most fun. Because my husband was already rock hard by the end of each oral sex session, and I deliberately held it in my mouth with my lips tightly closed, he would slowly pull it out, and then there would be a muffled "thump" as he pulled it out of my mouth. My husband said I was "cupping."

Sixth, my husband was lying down while I knelt at the head of the bed, his head between my legs. I don't need to describe it in detail; you can probably imagine this position. The key to this position is the height of my husband's head. I chose to kneel at the head of the bed to save myself energy, so I could more greedily and indulgently enjoy the waves of breathtaking pleasure he brought me.

This physical and mental pleasure is indescribable. All my weight and sensation are concentrated on that one point below. He sucks heavily, thirstily, pulling every nerve downwards. My lower abdomen feels heavy, swollen, and numb. I spread my legs, trying my best to maintain my balance, and this struggle is precisely how I maintain the pleasure. My clitoris seems to be sucked out, and my soul seems to leave my body.

Seventh, a variation of the sixth position. I wasn't lying face down at the head of the bed, but rather on the bed itself. This position is quite tiring, and I can't hold it for long. Because my husband's head is between my legs, I have to maintain a certain kneeling height, which often requires placing small pillows under my knees to increase the height and make it easier for him to enter.

However, women with poor stamina (like myself) shouldn't use this position too often; I've made a fool of myself with it. Once, I was so incredibly aroused, already exhausted, and then I was completely overwhelmed by the pleasure, but I didn't want him to stop. So I trembled and struggled to hold on, finally collapsing completely when he wasn't expecting it, my entire vulva pressing against his face. He said I was trying to murder my husband.

Eight, I lie flat with my husband kneeling on his side, meaning his mouth is level with my labia. This position stimulates the labia majora and minora, and the clitoris doesn't tense up from excessive stimulation. I'm completely relaxed and enjoy it, but it's more tiring for my husband. This position is great for physical intimacy. My husband often kisses my vulva while his hands roam freely, sometimes caressing my breasts, sometimes inserting his fingers into my vagina—it's impossible not to feel comfortable. I can also gently stroke his naked skin, his fluffy, clean hair. This kind of intimacy is necessary and tender. Many positions give me a feeling of being attacked by a male, but this position fills me with maternal tenderness, making me want to cherish and comfort this young man—including his naked body and open soul that he presents to me.

9. This is another position I really like, which I call the most languid one. I lie on my side with my legs bent, and my husband, like a little pig, nudges my genitals with his mouth, his tongue teasing that most secret nerve. This position is usually used when I'm half-awake, and it's only at this time that it feels real. Sometimes it's at night, after my husband has showered late, his naked body still damp, like a male seal just climbed ashore. I'm drowsy, but I can still feel his dreamy and erotic gaze. I don't open my eyes, I don't speak, I don't even moan, but the pleasure is so intense it melts into my bones. I can breathe evenly as I enjoy the caresses of his lips and tongue. Outside, it's a spring evening with a gentle breeze; inside, it's a quiet and erotic night. I bury my face deep in the soft pillow, and a smile involuntarily creeps onto my lips. This position fills my heart with peaceful, fulfilling happiness and gratitude. It's so good to be alive, it's so good to have sex, it's so good to have a healthy body, it's so good to have a lover—it's all so wonderful!

10. Squat down as if urinating, with your genitals exposed to your husband. He needs to sit lower than you, holding your buttocks with both hands. That's it. It's very pleasurable and erotic, and this eroticism lingers in my mind for a long time. Sometimes the next day at work, when I squat down to urinate in the restroom, I'll think of the oral sex we did the night before, and I'll even lewdly look down at my genitals, feeling gratified that he kissed me so hard yesterday.

11. For me, this is the most difficult and strenuous position—a bit like a horse stance. To make it less strenuous, my husband's head is propped up high between my legs, his face directly below my genitals. I support myself with my hands on my thighs for balance. This position is comfortable, but I only last five minutes before I want to stop; it's too tiring, so we rarely use it.

12. This is a very common position: I stand while my husband kneels or sits on the ground, kissing my genitals directly. This position requires the woman to cooperate with movements to achieve mutual sensory stimulation, such as touching her own breasts. However, because of the standing position, my vulva was closed, and even when he used his hand to open it, it wasn't as pleasurable as when I was lying down with my genitals fully open. But this varies from person to person. Personally, I value and respect the emotional experience in addition to physical pleasure during oral sex and intercourse. Whether it's rough and wild or gentle and delicate, under his warm hands or body, under his moist lips and tongue full of passion and love, my body feels so small and helpless, and a feeling of being pampered arises spontaneously. This position is the same; watching him kiss so intently and passionately, even with my vulva closed, I still feel happy.

Thirteen, I stand with one leg high on the edge of the bed or table, and my husband kneels down to kiss my genitals. This position is common but also very sensual, with a kind of playful pleasure. Sometimes I'm working in the kitchen, and my husband comes in and pulls down my underwear. As a housewife, the daily needs of the family are still very important (although now it's just the two of us). So when my hands are covered in food stains and grease, I resist. But my husband's sex theory has always been "go with the flow." He put one of my legs on the counter, squatted down, and started kissing me. Of course, at this point, it was impossible for me not to give in. When I was so wet and swollen, I simply turned off the stove, washed my hands, and had my husband carry me to bed. Hehe, in the end, the soup was cold and the food was cold, and I finally walked into the kitchen, filled with the erotic smell, completely satisfied.

Fourteen, have you ever tried riding on your husband's neck and having him give you oral sex? Yes, it's a very fun and playful position. To make it easier for both of us, I would prop my elbows on the headboard (when we bought the bed, we chose a velvet sofa headboard, which is very soft, so, for a happy sex life, the bed is also very important), and my husband could just gently support my buttocks with his hands. This position makes me feel like a delicious meal being devoured, watching him relish his sucking and nibbling, and I feel so useful.

Fifteen, with my legs spread and resting on my husband's shoulders, my private parts very close to his mouth, lying upside down. The advantage of this position is that he can comfortably lean against the headboard, holding my hips with both hands, and perform oral sex while watching TV. Hehe. Sometimes he'll reach out and play with my nipples, which is incredibly pleasurable. This position is also relatively easy for me; I can almost enter a semi-sleep state. Really, not all oral sex evokes strong desire. As I mentioned above, different positions produce different physiological and psychological sensations; some generate lust, while others bring inner peace.

The only downside to this position is that because my head is tilted downwards, after a while, I experience insufficient blood supply and dizziness.

Sixteen, if the previous position caused insufficient blood supply to my head, this one is even more of a test of my limits. My husband stands upside down, holding me in a handstand position. There are two variations of this position: one where I face inwards, and one where I face outwards. But no matter which one, I'm exhausted. Within minutes, I start seeing stars, and my veins are throbbing – it's torture, haha. Sometimes, when I can't take it anymore, I lie face down with my hands on the edge of the bed, or face up with my elbows on the edge. In short, this isn't my preferred position, but it's worth trying to satisfy my husband's endless curiosity and innovative spirit regarding sex.

Seventeen, I lie on my side with one leg raised high. Ideally, this raised leg should be placed on the headboard or against the wall for easier movement. My husband can choose various methods for oral sex, such as from behind, from the front, lying on his side, or lying face down on the edge of the bed.

This position is completely open, and the combined hand movements feel good.

Eighteen, my head is against the wall, and my husband sits cross-legged, supporting my back. I hook one leg under his armpit and around his back, his mouth parallel to my labia. When we use this position, he always performs oral sex while simultaneously inserting his fingers into my vagina. This double stimulation is incredibly pleasurable. However, after a while, my head and cervical spine get quite tired, so it's best to pile blankets on the bed and fix yourself in the middle (ideally with one side of your body against a wall). It might be a bit difficult to do, so we don't use it often.

Nineteen, this is the only position we've tried that we haven't been able to successfully maintain. It's incredibly difficult, especially for Asian men; it's a huge challenge. He lifts me high above his head, and my husband has to support my weight entirely with his arms, positioning my vulva directly in front of his mouth. Although I'm petite and relatively light, with his height of over 1.7 meters and the typical Asian stamina, it's still an impossible task for him. Hehe, this position is too much for us to handle during oral sex, and because I'm always worried about falling and getting seriously injured, I don't want to try it again.

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