An introduction to various unconventional behaviors found online.

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Basic nouns

?bdsm: is a compound word used to describe a behavioral pattern of human interest preferences.
It mainly includes the following three sets of relationships:
Bondage and discipline (b/d);
Domination and submission (d/s);
Sadism and masochism (i.e., s/m) are two opposing forces.
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The history and key points of BDSM
bd: bondage and discipline (i.e., bd, b/d, b&d)
BDSM is an abbreviation for BD. It mainly refers to physical restraint and immobilization, "pain," and discipline. It can exist alongside DS and SM relationships, or it can exist independently. BD relationships emphasize physical sensations. The mainstream gameplay involves bondage. There are various ways to bondage, using ropes, tape, leg irons, and handcuffs. Bondage with ropes is called rope art. Rope art can be considered a very artistic style of play in the SM community. Common examples include ebi-bondage, tortoise shell bondage, and frog bondage, etc.
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?ds: Domination and submission (i.e., ds, d/s, d&s)
The core relationship in BDSM involves domination and submission, especially various forms of power exchange. The submissive (DS) relationship leans more towards psychological submission and dependence. The dominant is called the dom, and the submissive is called the sub. Power exchange must be negotiated beforehand. Before BDSM activities, participants need to discuss their physiological and psychological limits, establish a safety word (a word used to stop the activity), and define the activities they will engage in. The submissive in this relationship seeks the pleasure of obedience, focusing more on the psychological experience. "Because I admire you, I am willing to submit to you." It's about a sense of belonging.
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SM: Sadism and Masochism (i.e., SM, SM/M, SM&M)
SM encompasses both sadism and masochism. The former refers to the pleasure derived from inflicting pain on others, while the latter refers to the satisfaction derived from receiving pain. This includes both physical pain (such as the pain of whipping) and psychological pain (such as the pain of humiliation and domination), but overall, it aims to satisfy one's physiological desires. SM places greater emphasis on seeking physiological satisfaction and release, that is, physical stimulation. The core element is the pleasure derived from pain. Subs in this type of relationship often enjoy being abused and humiliated. Depending on the agreement between the parties, there is no requirement for exclusivity or uniqueness; there may be multiple masters/slaves, group sex, etc. Of course, many "extreme" or "gross" content also originates from this category. Currently, the term "SM" is more often an abbreviation of "BDSM," and not solely refers to this specific sub-genre.
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BDSM behavior refers to practical games conducted for the purpose of pleasure, within the framework of basic social behavioral norms and values.
This involves a "power exchange"—participants voluntarily choose to transfer a portion of their power to the other party for a specific time and under specific circumstances. The power holder plays a "dominant" role, while the power relinquisher plays a "subordinate" role, and the game is thus put into practice. All BDSM actions must be agreed upon by all participants, adhere to the RACK principle (risk-aware consensual kink), and be conducted under the premise of ensuring SSC (safe, sane, and consensual). Furthermore, any participant has the right to terminate the game at any time.

Power exchange.
One or more individuals voluntarily relinquish a portion of their power to another (or more) individuals for a certain period of time. This is typically for a fixed period; a relationship based on an indefinite power exchange is called a total power exchange (TPE). The decisive factor in a power exchange is mutual consent; neither party conceals any privileges from the other. Power exchange is the essence of BDSM, and mutual consent is its foundation. Sociologically, this is the fundamental difference between BDSM and slavery. Currently, there are many cases that severely deviate from basic social norms and values, as well as some pathological sadomasochistic behaviors; these do not fall under the category of BDSM. Therefore, this has led to prejudice against BDSM among many people who are unfamiliar with it.
Total power exchange (TPE).
It is an absolute DS relationship. It is commonly found in 24/7 DS relationships and does not impose any obstacles on the DOM's exercise of power.
RACK principle: risk-aware, consensual, kink.
The two parties share a common understanding of the risks in practice.
It emphasizes risk disclosure, arguing that as long as participants fully understand the risks and are willing to bear them, the activity can proceed, no longer insisting on a 100% safety guarantee. Of course, legally, if bodily harm occurs, the other party's consent cannot be used as a defense.

SSC principle: safe, sane, and consensual.
These are considered general guiding principles in BDSM activities. Safety: The health and safety of participants must be guaranteed; Sane: All activities should be conducted with a rational and sensible mindset; Informed Consent: All actions require the consent of all parties involved.
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Rope bondage: a derivative branch of bondage, it's a style of rope bondage with a strong artistic emphasis. Its core focus is on artistic display rather than simple practical restraint. Most offline gatherings across the country are related to rope bondage demonstrations. Those skilled in rope bondage are called rope masters.
Aftercare.
After a BDSM scenario or game ends, caregiving behaviors help participants calm down and gradually reconnect with reality. Post-continuation care is crucial; it's one of the most valuable and heartwarming experiences for participants. It typically includes: noise reduction, kissing, caressing, hugging, hydration with sports drinks, and keeping warm.
Low point: drop.
This refers to a period of emotional instability following a BDSM session. It may occur immediately afterward or several hours later. Of course, not everyone will experience this. These emotional reactions may include frustration, crying, anger, and depression.
It's somewhat similar to an actor becoming so immersed in a character's emotions that they can't break free. The current medical explanation for this phenomenon is a sudden drop in adrenaline causing mood swings. This can be further divided into sub-drop (feeling bad) and dom-drop (feeling bad).
The purpose of aftercare is to effectively prevent the occurrence of drop emotions.
Body worship.
Body worship expresses respect and adoration for different parts of the dominant/sub's body through kissing and licking. It's important to distinguish this from foot fetishism: foot licking, stemming from a foot fetish, is an act by the submissive to satisfy their own desires and is inherently sexually arousing; while body worship expresses adoration for a superior and does not necessarily involve sexual arousal, and the subordinate is not necessarily a foot fetishist or fetishist. The hand-kissing and face-kissing greetings still existing in some areas seem to be remnants of this degenerated behavior.
Boot worship.
Kissing boots is a way to express respect for dom/s footwear. It often involves a sense of ritual. This sentiment is usually intertwined with fetishism, but it can also exist as a standalone ritual of worship.
Male cuckoldry: cuckold.
The core of the "male cuckoldry complex" is that the male in a couple or romantic relationship desires his partner to have sexual relations with other people (male or female) while he acts as a participant or observer. Because cuckoldry violates universal values regarding marital fidelity, men with this complex often face immense social pressure. In other countries, these men often hire professionals to perform role-playing.
Female cuckoldry complex: cuckquean.
The definition corresponds to cuckold.
Generally speaking, cuckqueans would prefer a scenario where they are forced to sit quietly and watch their partner have sex with someone else, but are not allowed to participate.
Fetishism: a condition where a person is obsessed with objects or objects.
Sexual arousal is triggered by specific objects or unrelated body parts. This is often accompanied by pheromones. Examples include shoes, socks, underwear, armpits, hands, legs, abdominal muscles, etc. For it to constitute a fetish, the object must be sexually arousing; simply collecting or treasuring it does not count. Foot fetish: foot fetish.
Foot fetishism refers to a special fascination with the feet of people of the same or opposite sex, often surpassing interest in other parts of their bodies and even deriving sexual satisfaction from them. The object of a foot fetishist's interest may not be limited to "feet" but can extend to legs, shoes, socks, leather, clothing combinations, and images.
Pheromones: pheromone.
The more familiar term is pheromone. When an individual secretes pheromones, these pheromones can be received by other individuals of the same species through their olfactory organs (such as the accessory olfactory bulb and vomeronasal organ), causing the latter to exhibit certain behavioral, emotional, psychological, or physiological changes. For example, certain preferences for strong odors are related to pheromones.
The Grandmother Rule.
This phrase originally meant there were no specific dress requirements during the game. Now, it often refers to BDSM parties where there are no particular rules or requirements regarding clothing or behavior. When you ask the organizers what to wear, they'll most likely tell you, "Grandmother rule."
Leather culture.
Traditional, old-school BDSM originated after World War II, stemming from combinations of motorcycle "gangs" and male homosexual BDSM. It later spread through other channels, leading to the hundreds of clubs that exist abroad today.
Women's leather culture: leather dykes.
It has been participating since around 1980, usually as a "sister" chapter.
Leather Club: Old School.
Some leather clubs have outdated structures and hierarchies, requiring members to spend many years in the club before rising through the ranks. This type of system is often referred to as "old school."
Objectification.
This refers to a series of behaviors that dehumanize a sub/m over a period of time. They are usually treated as animals, furniture, toys, etc. Objectification here is not derogatory, but rather a pre-agreed game. Examples include furniture slaves and toy slaves. I was chatting with a female S the other day, and she mentioned she met a domestic slave who only wanted to do housework...?
Safe word.
In BDSM, safety words are a series of codes or other signals used to convey one's physical or emotional state, typically used when approaching or exceeding physical or emotional limits. "Yellow line safety words" and "red line safety words" are commonly used.
Safe word rules: CNC rules.
A set of internationally accepted rules for safety terminology. Red, green, and yellow colors are used to mark the three states of subordinates, respectively.
Red: All activities and behaviors must be stopped immediately;
Yellow: Current activity section

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