Introduction to various unconventional sexual behaviors 02

Safe word.
In BDSM, safety words are a series of codes or other signals used to convey one's physical or emotional state, typically used when approaching or exceeding physical or emotional limits. "Yellow line safety words" and "red line safety words" are commonly used.
Safe word rules: CNC rules.
A set of internationally accepted rules for safety terminology. Red, green, and yellow colors are used to mark the three states of subordinates, respectively.
Red: All activities and behaviors must be stopped immediately;
Yellow: The current pace of the activity is a bit too fast for me, and I need to slow down or take a short break;
Green: Everything is okay, please continue.
Safety words can be uttered by subordinates, and superiors can also ask at any time, "What color are you right now?"
Unconventional sexual fetish: kink.
Kink refers to unconventional sexual behaviors in human sexuality, including unconventional sexual morality and sexual orientation. BDSM is often considered such behavior, as are fetishism, cuckoldry, and other similar tendencies.
Three ages: age, social circle age, and high-pressure age.
The so-called high-pressure age refers to the time spent in high-pressure environments.
Mute via the line: People inside and outside the line cannot speak.
This is more common when organizing events in online communities.
Contributor: smer
They will describe their experiences, stories, recruitment, etc. to people, and then the recipient will compile and send them out.
The 18-piece set: refers to relatively common props.
It generally includes blindfolds, handcuffs and shackles, cross buckles, cotton rope, low-temperature wax...
Holy water: urine.
Don't think it's too extreme; quite a few people actually do this. Gold is relatively rare, but there are quite a few lower-ranking individuals who can accept holy water. Of course, this acceptance doesn't necessarily mean eating or drinking; for example, holy water showers, holding it in both hands to receive it, and many other indescribable methods, which I won't go into detail about.
Taboos and bottom lines: Taboos are things that should never be done under any circumstances; while bottom lines are the minimum limits that can be reached.
Fourth favorite: pegging.
Simply put, it means "female dominant, male submissive".
Latex suit.
Tight-fitting clothing made of materials such as latex. These are bodysuits and restraint-style clothing items within the BD category.
Common Relationships
DS-type relationships: DS relationships are more focused on psychological experiences. "I admire you, so I'm willing to submit to you; I want a sense of belonging." Therefore, this type of relationship also exists. In this relationship, love is paramount; sadomasochism is merely one expression of love. Therefore, the value orientation of love is very important in this relationship, such as exclusivity, exclusivity, and shared values. The submissive needs to first fall in love with a dominant, and they must share similar views on love before opening up and accepting the dominant's sadistic behavior. The biggest difference between this and the need for belonging is that the expression of sadomasochism beyond emotions is more rational and principled. Many factors in life can influence the relationship, and they won't cross their own boundaries just because of love. Those who need belonging, on the other hand, are more purposeful and value results more. They want a place for their hearts to rest and a sense of peace; they don't pay much attention to things beyond the "domination" aspect.
24*7:
24 hours a day, 7 days a week. A perpetually effective BDSM relationship. This is the most extreme case of BDSM, a complete exchange of power with no exemptions or rest periods. Within this type of relationship, a very small minority may experience mental manipulation or brainwashing. Additionally, some engage in so-called "24/7" projects. These individuals may exhibit "pathological sadomasochistic" tendencies and behaviors that "do not conform to basic social norms and values," therefore they cannot be considered to be engaging in SM behavior.
Domestication:
A subordinate voluntarily agrees to have their freedom restricted to a certain space of choice by their superior for a certain period of time. This is usually accompanied by a total power exchange/TPE (transactional power exchange).
24*7 and captive breeding should be considered as inclusive.
24/7 seems to be the essence of captivity, and captivity is one of the ways to achieve 24/7.
Multiple slaves/open relationship: family/usually capitalized.
It refers to a BDSM relationship consisting of three or more individuals.
They usually (but not always) live together.
A family can be organized around any number of people, including polygamy or monogamy with multiple submissives. The structure can be informal, fluid, or fixed, with clearly defined boundaries. Examples include master-sub couples, love-slave relationships, and monogamy with multiple submissives. In an open relationship, it's crucial that all participants knowingly consent to the relationship being open. Therefore, starting a submissive relationship with a submissive and then secretly seeing other submissives is not an open relationship; that's considered "scumbag" behavior...
Dollification.
Dollification refers to the process of becoming a "doll" psychologically and physically, a branch of objectification play. The parties involved in this role-playing game are referred to as the "owner" and the "doll"; this is equivalent to a sadomasochistic relationship. The psychological characteristics of a doll include, but are not limited to, enjoying subservience and being manipulated. Ultimately, the doll experiences a sense of self-worth through being used and played with by the owner, a service mentality. In other countries, the decorative features of a doll include, but are not limited to, corsets, stiletto heels, thigh-high heels/stockings, rubber/vinyl/plastic suits, dresses, skirts, cosmetics, etc.
cg/l relationship: Represents the relationship between caregivers and children being cared for.
The caregiver, similar to a dom, plays a guiding role and is usually called a daddy or mommy; the little ones, similar to subs, are the ones being guided and are usually called boys or girls. They derive satisfaction from the process of caring for and being cared for. Contrary to popular belief, CGL relationships are mostly accompanied by sexual activity, but not necessarily sexual in nature. However, these relationships invariably involve childlike behaviors, such as storytelling, using children's toys, lifting each other up, pacifiers, and diapers. They can also be further subdivided into ddlg, mdlg, ddlb, and mdlb, etc.
Among these, ddlg is the most common, which stands for "daddy dom little girl." ddlg is further subdivided into several branches based on the age and relationship of the characters, which will be discussed in later ddlg series posts. Finally, it's important to emphasize that cgl relationships are different from pedophilia. Pedophilia targets children, while cgl involves role-playing between adults. The identities of the two parties in a cgl relationship are not necessarily limited to age, nor does a large age gap exist.
ddlg: daddy dom little girl.
ddlg is a branch of ds in bdsm relations, and also a branch of cgl gameplay.
In this type of relationship, the dominant partner plays the role of the caregiver (father or mother), while the submissive partner plays the role of the "child." It's a kind of role-playing game between adults. It can also be simply understood as a "dad-like boyfriend." Although they often use "dad/mom" to address each other, it's completely different from the general sexual connotation of "calling someone dad." It's a way of interacting where the psychological state truly returns to that of a "child" and "guardian." In the BDSM community, you can see many subs calling their dominant partners "dad" or "daddy," or some dominant partners writing "looking for a daughter slave" in their profiles—this is also a manifestation of DDLG (Dog-Girl Couple). However, ddlg is not such a simple relationship. It involves the father/dom party taking meticulous care of, showing concern for, disciplining, and taming the little girl. The little girl often exhibits childlike behavior, such as sucking on a pacifier, playing with children's toys, kissing, hugging, lifting her up, and deliberately causing trouble to invite punishment from her father. The core of ddlg is that the subordinate chooses to regress to a younger, more childlike mindset, while relinquishing some control and allowing herself to be "cared for" by the superior. The scene after both parties enter this state is generally called "little space".
mdlg: mommy dom little girl.
Corresponding to the above ddlg, except that the superior is changed to "mother".
ddlb: daddy dom little boy.
Father and son.
mdlb: mommy dom littleboy.
Mother and son.
Main terms: active and passive.
"Active" refers to those in a superior position within the SP (sexual activity) community. "Passive" refers to those in a subordinate position within the SP community.
top and bottom: the executor and the receiver of instructions.
"Top" indicates the active actor of the action, but does not imply a higher position or status within the relationship. "Bottom" indicates the passive recipient of the action, but does not imply a lower position or status within the relationship. If a dom commands a sub to bind itself, then the executing sub is the top.
other:
brat and brat-tamer;
damsel in distress and white-knight;
Master-servant relationship;
Pet owners and pet actors;
Riding culture, TK culture, fantasists and practitioners, ATM master-slave, cuckold master-slave, role-playing (nurse and patient, teacher and student, etc.), and various other relationships basically belong to the personalized branches of SM or DS relationships mentioned at the beginning of the article. Some will be introduced in the next issue on gameplay, and some will be featured in a special series later. Examples will not be elaborated here.

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