This is a very good article for single men. I hope single men will read it before adding us.

Everyone says being a single man is incredibly difficult, harder than climbing to heaven! Looking closely at 69, there are just too many single men. And most of them have never had any experience, all yearning for a truly immersive and unforgettable experience. There are also those driven by curiosity. Initially, they're curious, thinking a threesome is easy. But after getting to know them better, they can't help but sigh, "Being a single man is truly difficult." I often see some complaining like widows, wondering why they can't find a suitable partner! This leads to a loss of confidence. And some married couples often say that good single men are incredibly hard to find!
We won't discuss how married couples choose for now; let's talk more about us single men. Some single men might think this is like a free market, where they find someone suitable, offer a reasonable "price," and that's it. No wonder married couples always emphasize the word "quality," some even explicitly stating "Single men, no soliciting." Want to know why? Fellow single men, this means there's a problem within our ranks! Within our vast community, there are indeed quite a few despicable and wicked individuals. At this rate, sooner or later, 69 will become a place of "fire prevention, theft prevention, and prevention of single men"—a three-pronged approach! As a single man myself, I've summarized my own experiences and drawn upon the wisdom of those who came before me, and I'd like to share them with fellow single men, hoping that everyone can make breakthroughs and gains on their journey of searching.
First and foremost, you need the right mindset. Single men must understand that finding a suitable partner is similar to finding a suitable wife, but the process is different. Those who have experienced it know that for most people, this process is long, arduous, and demanding. It severely tests your mental fortitude and patience, and what's easily obtained is rarely cherished. Therefore, expecting to find someone quickly and achieve a quick match is the wrong mindset. If you're always holding this mindset, you don't need to read on; it will waste your precious time. And, as a side note, just wait for a windfall!
To succeed in the business of connecting with couples, one must first be strong oneself. As a single man on a dating platform, you must possess excellent personal qualities. If you obtain the contact information of a couple, unless you are a high-level member, many other single men will also receive it, leading to competition. After all, it's a reality of "too many wolves, too little meat." How can you stand out? On an open platform like 69, everyone starts on equal footing, so your character and manners come into play. I believe that someone who immediately demands video calls and photos, spewing vulgarity and rudeness, will only get one result: being blocked! Regardless of how handsome you are. Therefore, it's essential to spend time reading and learning about various topics. Even when you're just chatting, you need to make your claims original! Only when couples give you the opportunity to communicate can you showcase yourself. Remember, a good start is the foundation of success. Perhaps what you've acquired will unintentionally impress your ideal couple.
A broad knowledge base is your capital for conversation. Imagine, who would be interested in someone who knows nothing and is a blockhead? You need to be able to chat like everyone else, and talk about what others talk about. At the same time, you need to learn to be a little witty and charming, and be mindful of the boundaries of your speech. Don't immediately start boasting about how cultured you are, how great you are in bed, or how impressive your genitals are. If a couple wants to play this game, they have plenty of suitors; they've probably seen all kinds of women. If you're still bragging without knowing the limits, how can you not be disgusted and blocked? Being witty isn't about being glib or being a chatterbox. Making appropriate jokes, setting the mood, flirting appropriately, and showing necessary tolerance and accommodation are all important. Women don't just want simple sexual stimulation; they need to feel loved and cherished by two men.
Secondly, you need to have a clean and tidy appearance. You don't need to look like Andy Lau, but you should at least be presentable. Some couples in group 69 are "appearance-obsessed," and we won't belittle ourselves here; it's their requirement. You don't need to get plastic surgery or cosmetic procedures for it; it's too late, and there's no need. If you're tall, handsome, and tall, maybe you don't need to be involved here. If you're rich, handsome, and tall, I suggest you find a young model or actress instead of struggling here. Give us guys some space. For men, clean and tidy clothes are enough. Women don't care too much about a man's appearance, but that doesn't mean they don't care. Who wants to date a man who's uglier than their husband and has a bigger belly (haha, there are plenty of women in their 60s and 70s with big bellies!)? But don't be too handsome either; that can put pressure on the husband and make him feel insecure, which won't be effective.
Also, always be mindful of giving your partner a sense of security, since they bear more risk and pressure. Most importantly, be sincere! In short, a lie can never become a truth! Don't think you're so clever, so good at deceiving, or so adept at bluffing. Even a fox, more cunning than you, still sells its pelts! If someone discovers you've lied, even a small one, they won't forgive you. Therefore, you must be honest and straightforward; sincerity is crucial in making friends.
Once you have good manners, give others a sense of security, and have a presentable appearance, the next step is finding suitable targets. I think it's best not to add every couple you see and greet them immediately. First, carefully read their dating profile. If they clearly state "No single men please," adding them will not only waste your time and reduce your efficiency but also annoy them. Don't expect to find someone just by browsing online forums every day. You need to be attentive, carefully read their posts, and sincerely reply. Your replies should be insightful. Simply writing a few words like "Great," "So beautiful," or "I like it" won't help. No matter how outstanding you are, they won't notice you among so many people. Because of your uniqueness, you will stand out, attract attention, and with that attention comes opportunity!
Not only will your chances of success increase, but you'll also find your personal qualities have improved. While gaining a 3P (personal connection), you also become a more outstanding individual!

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