Reposting a post by my husband about how to give oral sex.

1. When using your mouth, you don't need to worry about the wetness of her genitals, but please make sure your mouth is relatively moist. Don't have dry skin on your lips, as it will hurt your wife (imagine your wife sucking your penis with a mouth full of dry skin, would you enjoy it?). So please brush your teeth first to ensure your mouth is clean, as your wife's genitals are quite delicate.

2. After brushing your teeth, kiss your wife and caress her for a while, following the same steps as foreplay. The goal is not to make her wet, but to make her clitoris sensitive and slightly erect, making it easier for the first time giving your wife oral sex to find the exact location.

3. Slowly kiss downwards, paying attention to her chest and navel. This will make your wife very comfortable, as oral sex takes time, and these areas help make it easier for your mouth.

4. After kissing your wife's genitals, don't immediately kiss her clitoris. Kiss the area around it for a while. Sometimes, letting her wait a little longer is more pleasurable (imagine your wife sucking your penis from the side first, and then taking it into her mouth, wouldn't that be more pleasurable?).

5. When kissing her vulva, don't be as aggressive as in porn movies, making noises while kissing. Making noise isn't necessary to make her feel good; it's just part of foreplay. Initially, noise can distract her from getting into the mood and finding her footing.

6. Give her about two minutes of kissing. Too long and she'll get bored; too short and it won't be as effective.

7. Slowly move your tongue from the opening to the clitoris. Some guys might ask where the clitoris is. It's near the very top of the vulva, about one and a half finger joints from the opening. It's a small, bean-shaped thing, similar in structure to the penis, but the size varies from person to person. If you've done the previous work, it should be easy to find; just gently part the vulva with your hands.

8. Don't rush to suck it all the way in. Gently lick the clitoris with your tongue for a while. This is where your oral skills are tested. Remember, the gentler you lick, the more comfortable your wife will feel, and the more you'll get later.

9. Suck it all the way in—actually, don't suck, just kiss it like you're kissing—and then start licking the clitoris up and down or in circles with your tongue. At this point, please note that you can change the direction of your tongue at the beginning, listen carefully to your wife's voice, and observe her reactions. You can place your hands on your wife's inner thighs and pay attention to her slight reactions to your tongue movements. This will help you find her favorite tongue movements. Don't keep looking up to ask her if she's comfortable; it will disrupt the mood. Asking questions is something you do after you've finished and are holding your wife in your new sexual experience.

After finding your wife's favorite tongue movements, you don't have to stick to that position. You can change the position, but the change should not last more than two minutes. Just like during intercourse, constantly changing positions won't easily bring your wife to orgasm. The same applies to oral sex. Frequent changes are not the time to showcase your tongue skills; that's already done. Now is the time to test your patience.

Oral sex isn't the easiest way to bring a woman to orgasm, but it will make her feel very comfortable. Just like it's difficult for a man to orgasm with oral sex without the help of hands, you need to be patient. Don't think that using your hands will bring a woman to orgasm faster. A woman's anatomy is different from a man's; inserting your hand will distract her, causing oral sex to last longer.

10. After about ten minutes, you might sense she hasn't reached orgasm yet. Don't rush or lose patience; let her enjoy it a little longer. Imagine if she were sucking your penis and saw you taking so long to ejaculate and looked impatient—wouldn't that be incredibly frustrating? Again, the more patient you are, the more you understand the importance of making her enjoy herself, and the more comfortable she will make you feel.

11. Continuously stimulate the clitoris with your tongue. A crucial point is not to use excessive force. Porn isn't reality; gentle kisses and licking of the clitoris are key. Also, be aware that sometimes, because you're sucking so intently, your lips might press too hard. Even though your teeth are inside your lips, the pressure from your philtrum can be too much on the vulva. Slowly move your mouth away slightly to avoid distracting her with other pressure.

12. After gently licking for a while, apply a little more pressure with your tongue and lick a few times, then continue gently licking. Just like when your wife gives you oral sex, applying a few firm licks followed by gentle licking at appropriate times will make the gentle sensation more comfortable and pronounced.

13. You can gently stroke her inner thighs and lower abdomen, lightly, without force. Just use your fingertips to lightly scratch like a tickle. Otherwise, too much force will distract her.

14. After about 10 minutes, you can slowly increase the volume slightly, but not too much. Too much noise isn't flirting, it's just being noisy. A little noise will make her more excited.

15. While being patient, remember that a woman's vaginal fluid and a man's semen shouldn't taste very different—they're both salty. So if it's your wife's first time giving you a serious blowjob, don't feel unsatisfied after swallowing the fluid. Think about how you want your wife to swallow your semen or give you oral sex. If you can't swallow it, don't expect your wife to give you oral sex.

16. After continuously stimulating the clitoris and stimulating the vulva, the time it takes for each person to reach orgasm varies. However, with oral stimulation, it should take about 15 to 25 minutes. If you feel your wife suddenly pull her legs back, don't rush to speed up, as suddenly increasing the speed of your tongue can sometimes have the opposite effect. Her body movement indicates that you are close to bringing her to orgasm. Continue with the same intensity, or even slow down slightly.

17. Slowing down slightly is to make her orgasm more comfortable and to induce it more quickly. Don't slow down too much, about 10 seconds is enough, then resume the speed. At this point, you can gently place one finger on her perineum. The perineum is the skin between the vagina and anus, simply put, the area between the two openings. You place it on the perineum because you need to feel the frequency of her vaginal contractions.

18. The frequency of vaginal contractions is closely related to orgasm. The faster and more obvious the contractions, the closer she is to orgasm. This method is not very effective in the first 10 minutes. It works very well when she is close to orgasm. When you can feel her contractions with each light lick, please note that you need to guide her to orgasm.

19. Don't use force with your fingers; continue placing them on her perineum. Then, pause your tongue for a second or two. At this point, begin licking her clitoris very slowly, applying a little pressure, once per second, counting in your mind. You should clearly feel that with each movement of your tongue, her vagina will contract. That's it.

20. One lick per second should take about 15 seconds, meaning about 10 to 15 licks. Prolonging this will cause the orgasmic sensation to fade. The slowing down was to adjust the frequency of her vaginal contractions. Now, slowly, very slowly, increase the frequency. Remember to feel with your fingers; the frequency of her vaginal contractions should be the same as your tongue's. The reason for gradually increasing the speed is obvious: a very fast vaginal contraction frequency can bring about an orgasm. That's why you're doing this.

21. Don't increase the frequency too fast; that would be overdone, and everything you did before would be ineffective. Just increase it to about the same speed you normally use when licking her, because at this point, the vagina can keep up with the speed of your tongue's movements. Then maintain this pace. Within two minutes, you'll suddenly stop hearing your wife's panting, and her body will tense up. At this point, increase the speed, licking her clitoris with a little force. The technique is the same as before: don't stop stimulating the clitoris with your tongue, but don't use too much force; just a little faster than before. Then, your wife will have a pleasant orgasm.

When your wife orgasms, don't immediately withdraw your tongue and mouth. Continue to gently lick her clitoris to prolong her orgasm for a few more seconds. Just lick lightly, as the clitoris is very sensitive during orgasm. Then, when your wife feels itchy, you can withdraw. Hehe.

Every girlfriend's sensitivity is different, so the time required will vary, but remember to be patient and take it slow. After her orgasm, you will also feel very comfortable. Your efforts will not be in vain; you may even get double the reward. Hehe.

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