First Experience with 3P (Classic Article)

Want to try a threesome? Maybe it's because I (the original author, female) am always eager to try anything, but if you're truly open to a threesome, I absolutely recommend you give it a shot. Turning fantasies into reality is always fun, and you might discover what you love most. However, if you've never tried a threesome before, you might feel a bit overwhelmed. Many men I know say that threesomes sound great, but the reality is terrifying. I understand, because there are so many people, so many arms and legs; it takes time to adjust. So, what good advice can I give to those trying a threesome for the first time?

You might think only men fantasize about threesomes, but a recent survey found that women search for "threesome" and "group sex" more frequently than men when browsing adult websites. However, threesomes don't have to stay just a fantasy; they're so much fun, the possibilities during a threesome are on a completely different level than when you're with just one person. I've tried it myself, and overall, the experience is quite good. Obviously, the most important thing is to make sure you're comfortable with it. While this is just my personal opinion, here are some suggestions: For me, the best way

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a threesome is with three single people. I know threesomes can be a fun way for couples to have fun, but I've found that if you join as the third person, the couple will either be overly attentive to you because you're a guest, or overly indifferent because they'll focus more on each other to prove they like each other more than you. Maybe I'll eventually find a partner and have a threesome as one of the couples, and perhaps then I'll change my mind. However, I think it's easier for people trying a threesome for the first time if they don't have a romantic relationship with each other.

Feeling comfortable:

You might want to have a threesome with a friend or someone you've had a relationship with before, which you might find stressful, and you might prefer someone you'll never see again. Make sure you find people and relationships that make you feel comfortable; don't compromise on this.

Attraction:

Ideally, all three people should be attracted to each other. This might be because I like both men and women, but if each person likes the other, the threesome experience will be much better. Ideally, it would be me with a (heterosexual) guy and a (bisexual) girl. Or maybe with two girls, but I haven't tried that yet. Some people might not need this, like two heterosexual guys and one girl, but I think that would put too much pressure on one of them. Also, it might shift the focus, making the threesome unbalanced. This brings us to the next point…

an even distribution

of one king and two queens or one queen and two kings can be really fun. As the saying goes, sharing is caring. You might not have tried it, but don't be scared off, because it's really great! This ensures everyone participates, because nothing is more awkward in a threesome than being ignored, "Hey you two, remember me?"

Saying no to a threesome at any time

is a bold move. You might think you'll fully enjoy it, only to find it's not for you at all. That's perfectly fine; nobody likes feeling uncomfortable. Try it, but don't rush it, and remember you can always quit. You might think it'll be a killjoy, but if you don't enjoy it, the others don't want you forcing yourself.

Setting Rules Beforehand:

I think everyone enjoys the thrill, but if you're nervous, setting some rules beforehand can calm your anxiety. This kind of conversation might be a little awkward, but it's better than being on edge the whole time. Enjoy!

This article was translated from bustle and published by translator Ivy under a Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial (BY-NC) license.

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