In-depth analysis of cuckoldry

Hello everyone, it's been a long time. I've been quite busy these past six months, thank you all for your concern and support.

Since my return, many new friends have asked me questions. I think it's better to write an article to address these questions. I welcome questions from newcomers, but some people try to educate me, even criticize me, and some even link adultery with moral character and ethics, which I don't like to hear.

I understand that our country has been ruled by feudal and patriarchal societies for thousands of years, so this kind of mentality is normal and a common social phenomenon.

Many people like to associate marriage with love, but this is completely wrong. Marriage and love have nothing to do with each other. Since
the beginning of marriage, it has never been about love. Marriage is simply a cooperative way for humans to survive, like the ancient saying "men till the fields, women weave." Tilling the fields provides food but not warmth, while weaving provides warmth but not food. This is where marriage came in as a cooperative survival model.

Marriage is simply a way of demonstrating a cooperative relationship between two parties, while also constraining and protecting their interests, much like a contract today. It has nothing to do with love.

Furthermore, marriage, love, and sex are all independent entities. I don't deny the existence of feelings between people, but marriage, love, and sex exist and arise independently of each other, without any connection or mutual influence.

The first thing a person needs to understand is why they are alive. I believe that living is about doing what you want to do. Viewing marriage, sex, and love as mutually generating and interacting is a form of mental blackmail, an inhumane act that destroys life.

People earn money to better satisfy basic desires, which are the mundane necessities of daily life like eating, drinking, and sex. These can be considered basic physiological desires, and marriage satisfies these basic physiological desires. Above physiological desires, there are spiritual desires.

Moreover, humans have a tendency to tire of the old and crave the new; this is human nature, unrelated to morality, age, or gender. Like the famous saying, "Behind every beautiful woman is a man who's tired of her," this tendency is an irresistible human trait.

Traditional, mentally manipulative thinking about marriage does nothing to benefit the longevity of a marriage or the beauty of life; on the contrary, it destroys both.

If a person follows traditional marital ethics and thought patterns, then it should be dating, marriage, and after marriage, only having sex with their wife, and vice versa. Even if the man has only had sex with this one woman, and the woman has only had sex with this one man, sooner or later they will face the test of human nature: aesthetic fatigue.

What will happen then? They might be constrained by traditional thinking and suppress themselves for a long time, or they might find a lover. Finding a lover requires cultivating feelings first; it's impossible to just have sex right away. Over time, this will inevitably lead to marital breakdown, which will certainly affect their life.

Some might say that nowadays, who gets married as soon as they have a partner, and who only has sex after marriage? And who doesn't have sex with their partner, and who doesn't get sex with their partner? Yes, that's normal nowadays, but marriages in this situation are even less likely to last. Once they enter the aesthetic fatigue period, such marriages will crumble even faster than the kind I mentioned earlier.

Furthermore, a strange phenomenon has emerged among men due to traditional thinking: they can accept their wives having been with other men before marriage, but they absolutely cannot accept their wives being with other men after marriage. This thinking is bizarre. I understand that this thinking is a product of both traditional thought and male hormones, but it is not only strange but also incredibly idiotic. From the perspective of possessiveness and exclusivity, having been with someone before marriage and being with someone else after marriage are meaningless, or in other words, lead to the same result.

Besides traditional thinking, there is another crucial reason that leads men into this vicious cycle of thinking.

This reason comes from the "cuckolding" players—the "hat-givers" among the two types of male players in the cuckolding community. They have influenced men outside the community to develop this strange thinking, making them unwilling and afraid to enter the community, and also influencing some newcomers to the "hat-givers" (those who have been cheated on) in the cuckolding community.

In traditional thinking, one's wife is one's own and no one else can have sex with her. Letting someone else have sex with her is seen as a loss for oneself and a gain for the other party. Many "cuckolds" (those who offer their wives as gifts) also share this mindset. Their purpose in joining the community is to satisfy their lust, especially those who only offer their wives without actually wearing them. Influenced by traditional thinking, they feel they are gaining an immense advantage by having sex with someone else's wife.

This fundamentally misunderstands the true meaning of cuckoldry. Cuckoldry is absolutely a spiritual enjoyment, not merely the satisfaction of lust. Having sex with her is a necessary procedure and means, but definitely not the ultimate goal.

All normal men are sadists, and women are masochists. This aligns with the ancient Chinese I Ching theory, where the eight trigrams are divided into two extremes, with positive and negative aspects.

Both sadism and masochism are high-level, primal, and innate spiritual enjoyment. Masochism is relatively simple, but sadism is an art. Having sex with someone else's wife is merely a basic form of sadistic enjoyment, at most satisfying a male's primal desires. The truly artistic aspect is the spiritual self-inflicted and masochistic experience, not simply inflicting pain on others or appreciating external forms of sadism.

In the taboo game of cuckoldry in modern society, the players who offer and receive the cuckoldry are equal. Many players who offer the cuckoldry neurotically believe that they are superior to the players who receive the cuckoldry, which is a morbid way of thinking. If we really have to determine who is superior, the players who receive the cuckoldry are actually slightly superior to the players who offer the cuckoldry.

This is like the relationship between an employee and a boss. The boss invests money, contacts clients, bears all the risks, and pays the workers. The workers, on the other hand, don't need to invest anything; they just get paid monthly. If the company goes bankrupt, it doesn't affect them. This is a very obvious cooperative relationship. The company can't operate without the boss and the workers. It's like having a cuckold; you need someone to wear a hat and someone to offer a hat. This is also a cooperative relationship. The boss invests money and bears the risks in this cooperation, while the workers only invest manpower. The cuckold in a cuckold invests their wife and also bears the risks, while the person offering a hat only invests manpower. The workers don't need to worry about anything traditional at the end of the month; they just get paid. The person offering a hat doesn't need to worry about anything; they just have sex with other people's wives. Directly talking about the investment and return of the cuckold and the person offering a hat might be difficult to understand due to traditional thinking. I'm using this simple example to make it easier for everyone to understand.

Leaving aside traditional thinking, in this collaboration, the "hat-wearing" player (the man who sleeps with his wife) alleviated post-marital aesthetic fatigue and gained immense, opium-like enjoyment, while his wife also received excellent nourishment and enjoyment. The "hat-giving" player, to some extent, accelerated aesthetic fatigue, and while being fucked is beneficial for a woman's health, the "hat-giving" player, as a man, visibly expended energy and stamina, and excessive fucking is very harmful to the body.

Therefore, under the influence of traditional thinking, it seems that the "hat-giving" player gained a great advantage, but in fact, if we step outside of traditional thinking and analyze carefully, the "hat-wearing" player is the biggest winner.

This is my personal experience. If you're tired of fucking your wife, try letting someone else fuck her a few times while you watch. When you fuck her again, you'll enjoy it even more than the first time. Try it yourself; this feeling is indescribable, absolutely opium-like. Once you try it, you'll never be able to stop—it's so incredibly pleasurable.

Some players take the first step correctly, but the second step is wrong. In cuckoldry games, many players hope their wives will become promiscuous and fully cooperate in providing sexual services, but this is a mistake.

To get the maximum enjoyment in this game, the player providing sexual services must consider themselves superior and the player providing sexual services inferior. Of course, the player's wife should also do the same. This is a psychological distinction, because cuckoldry is about mental enjoyment, experiencing the mental struggle and visual stimulation.

The cuckolding player experiences the greatest pleasure only when witnessing their beautiful, sexy, and noble wife being humiliated and violated by a lowly person. Similarly, the wife must absolutely not cooperate with the cuckolder—I mean, a mental refusal—but must fully cooperate physically. However, this physical cooperation must be based on mental refusal and a sense of helplessness; she must genuinely feel that this is not her own will, but a complete and forced submission. Only then can she experience the greatest masochistic pleasure, and the even stronger masochistic pleasure from the wanton humiliation and violation of her noble self by a lowly person. The psychology of

the cuckolder is complex; I will write a separate article later to specifically discuss the psychological preparation, psychological changes, and self-psychological adjustment involved in cuckolding games.

Generally, the cuckolder thinks the cuckolder is lowly, and then naturally assumes that his wife is also lowly. This is complex and I won't elaborate on it now, but most people probably have this mentality, especially those who only offer the cuckoldry without actually wearing it.

What I'm trying to say is that I personally really enjoy players who only give their wives the product without wearing it. Although most of them might have a strange mentality and think they're taking advantage of me, I generally don't try to correct their thinking. The more they think that way, the more they feel inferior to my wife and me, especially when they're watching. This only fuels their mentality, making them feel like they can only watch while I'm having sex with their wife in front of others. They become even more frenzied, experiencing a sense of power and catharsis, which makes my wife and I feel even better. There

's no such thing as a free lunch. As a player who uses a condom, to get the maximum enjoyment, you must regularly give your wife beauty treatments, skin care, and genital care. These must be done regularly. If necessary, vaginal tightening surgery should be done. And very importantly, circumcision is a must. If you can accept it, it's best to shave or have your pubic hair removed at a beauty salon. If your labia are too large, go to the hospital for repair surgery. If conditions allow, you can get nipple piercings and clitoral piercings. No tattoos, but use stickers. It's best to use stickers on the chest, back of the shoulders, ankles, and lower back, not tattoos.

To maximize the sexual desire of a "hat-giving" player, the man you choose should not be younger than your wife. His age doesn't matter, but he must be older. If your wife is in her 20s, I suggest finding someone in her 40s; if she's in her 30s, I suggest finding someone in her 30s. These are theories I've derived from my own experience, considering the psychology of all parties involved, and through repeated practice.

Don't take birth control pills, don't use condoms, use an IUD. Condoms can be used occasionally for delay or pleasure, but you must ejaculate at the end. Ideally, he should ejaculate inside, but it's okay if he doesn't. The perfect ejaculation method is to first insert fully and ejaculate two or three spurts, then ejaculate just inside the vaginal opening. In other words, first insert the entire penis all the way in, then pull the penis out most of the way, letting the vaginal opening cover the coronal sulcus before ejaculating.

The advantages of ejaculation in this way are: during a woman's orgasm, her vagina intermittently tightens, allowing the entire vagina to fully experience the length and thickening of the penis during ejaculation. Furthermore, the penis becomes hotter after the rapid thrusting before ejaculation, and its intermittent throbbing during ejaculation further stimulates the woman to reach the peak of orgasm. Most importantly, the ejaculated semen can reach the cervix, providing a warm, tingling sensation, especially since she is being fully penetrated by another man in front of her husband. This multi-sensory stimulation leads her to the highest point of orgasm.

Finally, the penis is pulled back to just the coronal sulcus because pulling it out further causes the tip to taper, which is less visually appealing and less stable inside the vagina, meaning it might fall out, which would be inappropriate. Even if it doesn't fall out, the tapering of the tip diminishes the feeling of penetration, making it feel more like the penis is just pressing against the surface rather than being inserted.

The final ejaculation, with the penis positioned so that the coronal sulcus is blocked, serves not only for visual appeal and the stability of the penis within the vagina, but also to allow some semen to flow out. This creates a visually appealing effect, allowing the two men to sit and admire the sight of her legs spread wide, her body limp, and the semen flowing from her vagina. While enjoying this view, they can discuss their feelings, perhaps even verbally insulting her, and the three of them can have another round of pleasure.

Use plenty of tools during the encounter. I'm a VIP member of several large sex toy websites like Orange, and I have virtually everything you can think of. If you don't know how to use any of the tools, feel free to ask me.

I highly recommend: blindfolds, genital training belts + anal ropes, handcuffs, and nipple bells. These are relatively inexpensive, offer the best results, and have the fewest limitations.

Blindfolds are crucial. Fear stems from the unknown. Imagine sitting in a room full of people; even knowing you're surrounded by people, being blindfolded will induce panic, and panic is the best catalyst for female libido.

Breast bells are small bells that are attached to the nipples. They come in various styles, including rubber bands, clips, necklaces, and vibrating ones. I have several different styles of each type. Some have a single bell, some have two bells, and some are decorated with feathers. I also have a ring-type breast bell where you add weight yourself. I didn't buy that because I think it would change the shape of my breasts. My wife's breasts are very firm now, and I don't want them to sag, so I didn't buy that type.

The genital training belt and the anal rope are essentially two different things, but also similar. The genital belt is described as a waistband with loops all around, requiring the use of the anal rope, B-shaped belt, egg-shaped belt, etc. I highly recommend the anal rope; the Y-shaped rope runs from front to back, with the Y fork positioned to catch the bulging flesh on both sides of the vagina. The back rope is inserted into the buttocks, increasing vaginal tightness. My wife, who hasn't had children yet and has a very tight vagina, still uses it and it's effective. Even the tightest vagina refers to the inside. When a woman is in heat, the flesh on both sides of the vagina bulges, opening the vaginal opening slightly. The anal rope's function is to completely close the vaginal opening even with the bulging flesh, ensuring a tight fit from head to toe when your penis is inserted, eliminating the opening.

As for handcuffs, I won't elaborate. Ideally, you should handcuff each hand separately and secure them individually. If that's not possible, use a pair of handcuffs together. The best way to instill fear is to blindfold and control the hands.

Finally, and this is crucial, it's absolutely essential that your wife lick the penis of the man who brought you the cuckold. This cannot be omitted. Even if you're in a rush to have sex, make him lie on the bed with his legs spread, and have her kneel in front of him and lick him for a while.

Also, both of you must be completely naked, no condoms, and it must be unprotected sex. If any of these three conditions are missing, she hasn't been fully fucked, and he hasn't fully fucked her either.

That's all for now. Later, when I have time, I'll write more articles to spark discussion. Please forgive any inaccuracies; everything I've written is based on my careful consideration, practical experience, and summarizing of lessons learned. Of course, everyone's requirements and feelings are different. This article is for reference only, and consider it a reward from my group members for their concern during my seven-month absence.

Actually, this isn't the first article you're seeing. I wrote a more perfect and academic one, but then I accidentally clicked "don't save," so I had to rewrite it. Rewriting the same article is never as good as the first one, and I'm tired of writing so many words. Please bear with it; the basic meaning is the same. Criticism and corrections are welcome.

I wrote this while watching AV. I personally hate Japan, but I really like AV actresses. Honestly, if China's AV industry were as developed, with everyone watching and selling it freely, I would definitely marry a famous AV actress.

Imagine how awesome it would be if everyone sitting on and off the stage at her wedding had seen her naked and videos of others having sex with her, and a large portion of them were her colleagues—people who had actually slept with her. If it were even more open, and a few colleagues were invited on stage to perform a scene in their wedding dresses under the emcee's guidance, followed by a complete reenactment of their work together, and then she could share her work experiences, with her colleagues commenting on her performance and their feelings about working with her. What a perfect wedding that would be! After the wedding, wherever they went, there would be people who had slept with her, people who had seen her naked and videos of others having sex with her. How awesome would that be?

Occasionally, I'd bring her food or visit her on set during her work hours. If I happened to be working with a group of men in bed, I'd just wait nearby—that would be the perfect life.

Sigh, some things are better left unsaid, haha. Wishing everyone: "May you all have abundant wealth, good fortune, good health, and enjoy yourselves!"

The two videos I watched while writing this were STAR-664 and STAR-648. Don't fast-forward through them; they're quite interesting.

I recommend everyone watch them.

I also remembered something from my first draft, so I'll add something:

Don't think that marriage is a product of evolution, unique to higher beings. If marriage and so-called marital morality were truly products of evolution, then after marriage, or after a man has sex with a woman, her vagina should be fixed in the shape of that man's penis, and no one else should be able to penetrate her. For example, consanguineous reproduction is taboo, so those who have consanguineous reproduction are either mentally challenged or have disabilities—that's what evolution truly means.

Marriage and so-called marital morality are absolutely not products of evolution. They cannot be used to bind the minds of humans as higher beings. On the contrary, marital morality is an anti-human phenomenon that destroys the right of people to pursue happiness in their short lifespan of a few decades.

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