A Discussion on Understanding Single Men (Reprinted)

A Discussion on Understanding Single Men
Published: 2017-01-14 Author: Flowers and Leaves Popularity: 989
We are a young couple born in the 90s, 26 and 27 years old, the woman is older than the man, and we are of average appearance, the kind you wouldn't notice in a crowd. We enjoy pursuing a new and exciting life, and started looking for single men in 2016. My wife went from resisting to enjoying it. So far, she has had several threesomes and several one-night stands. From my perspective, on the one hand, I want my wife to be more uninhibited; as the saying goes, "A sexy wife at home brings endless joy." On the other hand, I want her to experience more pleasure. Therefore, I don't care if I'm involved in my wife's dating methods, as long as I'm aware of it and ensure her safety, she can play around as she pleases. Over the years, I've met hundreds of single men, but none of them have become mentors or friends, or long-term relationships, which is quite regrettable. Therefore, I'd like to share my understanding of single men, which is also a reflection of my own experience.
1. Misconception
Many single men think that couples seek out single men because their partners' husbands are impotent. This is a completely wrong understanding. The core factor for couples seeking single men is a strong emotional foundation and deep love between them, and one partner's commitment to the other. Most couples want to add some spice to their mundane lives, while some have cuckolding tendencies (I'm a typical example), and some have a desire to be cuckolded. Only a very small minority are driven by insufficient satisfaction—remember, only a very small minority. The core of all these factors is love. Behind every woman who enjoys a threesome, there is always a man who deeply loves her and makes her proud. So, single men, if you are fortunate enough to meet a couple and spend a night together, cherish it.
2. Choosing the Right Target
I often receive friend requests from single men from coastal areas, which I usually delete immediately. Everyone understands that single men won't travel across most of China for two complete strangers; even if it happens, it's extremely rare, and I've never encountered one. A distance of 2-8 hours by car is ideal. Too close and it might disrupt each other's lives; too far and it's unrealistic. Be realistic and don't make empty promises. When meeting through social media, single men should ideally provide their photos, age, height, weight, education, and occupation to the other couple for screening. Every couple has different preferences for single men; some like handsome men, some muscular men, and some older men—it varies from person to person. If you're not chosen by the other couple, it simply means it's not a good match, nothing more. 3. Chatting Details
Use polite language in conversations. If you've already met, address them as "brother" or "sister-in-law," or "sister," which will help build rapport. Be honest about your situation. If you're married, no couple will try to break up your family, provided you manage things properly and avoid causing trouble. Be proactive in conversations, avoid being vulgar, and refrain from asking for photos of the other couple, especially nude photos. Single men should demonstrate good manners and patience in everyday conversations; manners are always paramount, not your 18cm penis. Be attentive during conversations and compliment the other woman, especially if you're also eager to meet her. Women are slow to warm up. If the other woman is willing to chat with you, it only means your photos and other conditions meet her requirements, not that she's fallen in love with you. You can inform the couple of your free time and specific arrangements in advance so they can arrange a meeting time. If the couple thinks you are a suitable candidate, their photos will naturally appear before you. Quality and patience determine success or failure. If you start by asking stupid questions like "Can you have sex?", "Is your wife sexy?", "Can you have sex?", "Can you give me oral sex?", etc., then I think you won't find anyone. Understand your position. A single man should focus on the couple and satisfy them, not expect one of them to be subservient to you. Generally, one of the couples will communicate their special needs in advance. I always tell single men about my wife's preferences beforehand to avoid awkwardness. 4. Meeting: When a
single man meets a couple, he should dress neatly, shower and brush his teeth beforehand, and ensure he has no body odor. The expenses for the meeting are generally borne by the single man. If you can't afford a hotel room or have difficulty with round-trip tickets, it's best not to disturb their lives. Most single men come here hoping for a free release. A generous man will win the favor of the opposite sex; everything comes at a price. It's best to bring a small gift when you meet—a lipstick or a bottle of perfume will make both partners feel you are polite and respectful. If you feel these things are a scam or not worth it, then it's best to leave this circle. The room should be quiet and clean. During sex, a condom must be used, for your own sake and the other person's. Maintain good physical condition and a positive mindset during the activity. Avoid situations where tension or other psychological factors cause erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation; you can take medication beforehand. Observe the expressions of both partners throughout the activity. Be a smart single man; your wife belongs to someone else, so be considerate. If you have good oral sex skills, letting the woman enjoy 10-15 minutes of foreplay first is perfect. If you can get her to orgasm first, then all three of you have achieved your goals. If you ejaculate too quickly the first time, don't panic or blame yourself. For many couples, the first time is just an experience; the atmosphere is enough. Adjust your mindset and prepare for the second time. Many single men hope their partners will perform oral sex or even swallow their semen. Most couples are actually quite accepting of this. If this is your request, you're being foolish. But if you don't ask, and your penis is casually placed in front of her during a meeting, I think most wives won't refuse.
5. Afterwards, if the first meeting was successful, maintain regular contact. Once a woman's body accepts another man, her feelings will shift; it will just be attraction. Show concern for her well-being, ask about her life and work, and talk about happy things. If once is enough for you, gradually reduce contact. If you can continue meeting, remember not to express your desire to meet her sister-in-law alone, even if you both share the same desire and the circumstances allow. A man who loves his wife will understand her feelings, so such opportunities will come to you. As long as you are patient and good enough, it's just a matter of time.
6. We're an ordinary couple in Suzhou. I encourage my wife to find single men herself, and I've created opportunities for her to meet them alone. She's very satisfied, and one of the single men even set a record of six times in one night. Looking back, those days were full of passion. However, we haven't found a single man who can be both a mentor and a friend. I'm just sharing my thoughts in the hope that single men entering this circle will see this. Please feel free to point out any shortcomings.

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