Some experiences from couples who want to try dating [reprinted]

First, there's the issue of motivation. Some husbands explicitly told me they just wanted excitement, to satisfy their own sensory stimulation and curiosity. But when I asked if they had considered their wives' feelings, they couldn't give a clear answer; some simply said they agreed, while others were still trying to persuade them. I believe the motivation for couples engaging in group sex shouldn't be primarily for the man, but for the woman. In modern society, men can easily find pleasure by spending money, but women cannot. Therefore, our motivation and starting point should be to let our wives experience and enjoy the pleasure and excitement of group sex. Because we deeply love them, we want them to experience pleasure that most women don't have. We are arranging a fun game for our wives; the participants are playmates or toys that we, the husbands, have found for our wives. Therefore, the starting point must be for the wife, not for ourselves.
Once the motivation is clear, let's talk about finding a partner. A significant number of netizens emphasize that the other person should have good character and good looks, which I completely agree with. But one thing should be clear: the choice regarding appearance should rest with the wife. That is, the wife should choose the husband first, not, as some netizens do, immediately demand to see photos of the other person's wife. A husband can only consider accepting his wife if she has already chosen him. Generally, if a wife is satisfied with her partner's husband, the husband should, in principle, satisfy her wishes even if he is not entirely satisfied with the wife, to cater to her preferences. This is because women are relatively picky and finding a suitable partner is not easy, while men are relatively easier to please. Furthermore, communication is crucial. Some couples only have communication between the husbands, which is far from sufficient. The wife should be encouraged to communicate with her partner's husband. A woman cannot accept a man based solely on appearance, especially on the first date. It's important for her to be psychologically accepting. Online communication is a process of heart-to-heart communication. Only when the wife is psychologically prepared can she experience true physical release. Moreover, online communication truly reflects a person's character. This is very important!
Next, let's talk about persuading wives. Many husbands have asked me to help persuade their wives, and I've agreed. Indeed, almost all of them have been persuaded. What's the secret? It's not actually that mysterious. The prerequisite is that you must be a truly loving couple. You need to assure your wife that you love her, that you want to try this game for her sake, and that it won't affect your relationship; on the contrary, it will deepen your bond. Finally, let's talk about how to try it for the first time. First, it's not advisable to participate in group activities, because there are many situations you can't control. Plus, it's your first time, so you'll likely feel uneasy, making it impossible to fully enjoy the experience. If your wife has a bad experience, don't expect her to play again. The first time is usually with two couples, ideally inviting one of your wife's favorite men to play a threesome. Some netizens might not understand why a threesome is recommended for couples seeking companionship. There's a reason for this. Your wife's psychology will be more complex for the first time. The key to success is to immerse her fully in the atmosphere of desire, so it's important to get her focused on enjoying the pleasure. However, if two couples play together, it might objectively make her concerned about how her husband performs with other women, especially when she sees the other woman experiencing multiple orgasms under her husband. This would naturally arouse jealousy, causing her own sexual desire to vanish completely. That would be disastrous; such a failure would be devastating. Not only would she be unable to play again, but it could also leave a psychological scar. Threesomes objectively prevent this from happening. Once she experiences pleasure from such a game, even if she plays foursomes next time, she will look forward to experiencing that physical pleasure again and won't pay too much attention to her husband's performance. Choosing a partner for a threesome is also important. Never choose a boy who is too young, because young boys don't have much experience with foreplay and don't know how to be considerate of the woman and gently guide her to orgasm. Because of their good stamina, they might be eager to penetrate directly, which won't allow the woman to experience physical and psychological pleasure. Therefore, when choosing partners for a threesome, it's best to select male friends of similar or even slightly older age. This will likely make the wife feel more secure and comfortable. As for a foursome, I must remind you that the first time you play, it's best to avoid the swapping and separating format, as this will make the wife feel insecure. It should be two couples playing together, and at the beginning, the husband should hold his wife's hand tightly, kiss her frequently, and offer encouraging eye contact to show her he loves her. This will give her the courage to continue playing.

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