Superficial Views on How to Be an Excellent Single Man (Moral Aspect)

My introduction to this circle was purely accidental. Although I had often heard about similar matters of couples engaging in casual sex before, and there were even 3-series adult films in Japan, I always thought it was something foreign. After all, in China, such matters are quite taboo, violating moral ethics, family harmony, and social realities. Even if such phenomena existed, they were usually conducted in a relatively secretive manner. However, with the continuous progress of society, the increasing liberation of thought, the development of the internet, and improved material conditions, people are becoming more open to and increasingly pursuing the once taboo subject of sex. As Confucius said in the *Book of Rites*, "Food and sex are the greatest desires of humankind." This truly reflects Confucius's view of life—focusing on the physical, not the metaphysical. Human life revolves around two major things: food and sex. One is a matter of survival, the other a matter of sex. Food is equivalent to a matter of livelihood, while sex pertains to well-being and pleasure. Life is inseparable from these two things. Therefore, couples engaging in casual sex are gradually becoming more accepted and practiced. This also shows that it's progress. As long as it doesn't harm society or family, or negatively impact those around them, and it's consensual and within reasonable limits, I think it's acceptable. It strengthens the bond between spouses, provides psychological and physiological pleasure, and might even lead to making new friends. These are my thoughts and opinions on couples making friends. Now, let's talk about how to be a well-mannered single man.
1. Manners refer to the innate physical and personality traits a person possesses, as well as those acquired through cultivation, shaping, and training. Simply put, it's your moral character. Recently, I've often seen people in the community requiring others to have good manners when making friends. What constitutes good manners? I believe it's a matter of attitude, especially for single men who feel they are a vulnerable group in their social circles, which is understandable! So, if you're a single man, you need to work hard to improve your own qualities. For example, if you start dating a couple, you'll probably communicate with them through social media. From this moment on, you need to pay attention to your manner of address. If they're older than you, you should politely use "you" instead of "you," and address them respectfully as "elder brother" or "sister-in-law." Also, be humble and genuine in your tone of voice, striving to make a good impression on the couple. A good impression is a good start. Secondly, pay attention to avoiding typos when chatting. Truly cultured and tasteful couples can discern your character and personality from small things. Also, try to let the other person finish speaking; don't interrupt. This will prevent them from getting a word in edgewise and make them dislike you, significantly lowering your impression score. Even if you're exceptionally good-looking or incredibly talented, I think they'll eventually lose interest in you. Why? Because of poor manners. Don't underestimate these details; details determine success or failure! Details reveal your personality traits and way of handling things, because couples looking for single men value character and integrity above all else. This will put their minds at ease! I'll just give this one example regarding manners; I'm just offering a starting point, and you, the readers, can reflect on it yourselves. Manners are both innate and cultivated. As manners improve, so does one's taste and inner qualities.
2. Sincerity: Being genuine and honest will move others from the bottom of your heart and ultimately gain their trust. So, how can a single man demonstrate sincerity? When the couple asks you questions, you should answer honestly and truthfully, as long as it doesn't involve personal privacy. In short, first, don't be pretentious or fake; answer their questions honestly. Second, don't pretend to know or boast! If you don't know, don't pretend to know. Don't boast about your extensive experience or how amazing you are when you clearly don't know or haven't experienced something. Isn't honesty better? Perhaps the couple will choose you because of your honesty? Sincerity can move mountains! Use your sincerity to touch the couple's hearts!
3. Safety and Privacy: As a married couple, I think the most important and worrying thing is safety and privacy. As a single man, you should be even more considerate of couples. Don't ask questions you shouldn't, and don't pry into private matters you shouldn't. Respecting couples is respecting yourself. Also, don't casually reveal a single word about your relationship with a couple to outsiders. Only you, your partner, and the couple should know. Especially those who get carried away and start talking after a few drinks, using other couples' affairs as bragging rights with their friends—that's unethical. You're not genuinely trying to make friends. Consider the immense pressure the couple faced to be with you; how despicable of you to act like that! Furthermore, be mindful of computer and network security. Regularly scan for viruses and carefully safeguard your private information, especially your phone! This includes social media chat logs; I suggest setting a password, just in case!
4. Understand your role. As a single man, you should know your place. Unless the couple agrees, you should understand that you are a supporting character, and the couple is the main character. You are assisting them in accomplishing something meaningful, not stealing their thunder and leaving the husband out in the cold. Also, be mindful of the couple's feelings and be observant.
5. Learn some romance, such as preparing a small gift for the other person when you meet, as a kind of greeting. Also, before confirming a meeting, be sure to communicate and exchange ideas with the couple. Don't be impatient or greedy; as the saying goes, haste makes waste. Good things take time to cook.
These are some of my superficial thoughts and understandings on how to be an excellent single man in the context of dating. Since I haven't actually experienced it myself, these are just some insights I've gained from reading the experiences of others. Please feel free to correct any shortcomings or inaccuracies! Finally, I sincerely hope to connect with some couples in the neighborhood. And best wishes for a happy May Day!

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