The ultimate classification of single men, young men, take note!

While writing this article as a married couple might seem inappropriate, it's understandable given the circumstances. The 69 community is relatively small and lacks professionalism, so the purpose of this article is to share my experience. I plan to write more articles about couples in the future, hoping we can exchange ideas and build a suitable platform together.
When I was studying in a tourist city, perhaps due to my relatively good circumstances and a friend's introduction, I entered a relatively high-end couples' social circle. Therefore, over the past four or five years as a single man, I've accumulated some experience. Essentially, single men should be divided into four levels. Finding the right level is crucial for a good experience, as there's no single best way to make friends, only the most suitable
fourth category.
I prefer to call the inferior single men "scumbags." Just like in real life, these men often only have hormones; they expect everything else to fall from the sky. They think that having a penis means someone will send a wife to their bed. Go to sleep, kid. These single men are known for their selfishness, which not only poses high health risks but also leads to instability in their character and personality, making them often opportunistic and prone to sexual harassment.
Key characteristics: Impatient, impolite, perfunctory, insincere, likes to ask for photos, likes to pry into private matters, lacks a clear direction, selfish.
The third type, the novice single man
: This type tends to be perceived as inexperienced single men, mostly those with limited sexual experience or relatively young students. These men are often one-sided, failing to realize that dating is a higher level of social interaction, requiring more investment and emotional connection (not just money), instead viewing it as a casual hookup. They are also prone to the extreme view that husbands in marriages are impotent and unable to satisfy their wives, which is not only naive but also easily rejected by couples. In reality, to some extent, eight or nine out of ten husbands who engage in dating are not impotent but rather sexually aroused. Why would you be the only ones who can get laid so easily?
Key characteristics: Sexually aroused, boasts about their sexual abilities and techniques (SPA, acupressure, etc.), lacks sincerity and enthusiasm for topics other than sex, provides very little personal information, and doesn't know how to communicate with their spouses. The second type of single man lacks tacit understanding and cannot keep secrets.
These are mature single men. They often have some experience and attractive qualities that draw attention to specific couples. Some may be physically strong, some well-educated, some from different regions where marriage is considered safe, and some may have exceptional romantic skills and techniques. Ultimately, however, they rely heavily on psychological communication. They are proactive in making friends, alleviating their husbands' doubts while paying attention to their wives' sensitive needs. They understand what they should avoid and what they should emphasize, possessing a certain ability to play to their strengths and avoid their weaknesses. No one is perfect; understanding the needs of a couple is key. This type of single man is often the kind of quality single man that many couples seek. He doesn't necessarily have to be exceptionally outstanding, but rather he understands his own position.
Key characteristics include: patience, having special skills as a bonus, humility, politeness, and honesty. He provides the necessary information for the couple, can build tacit understanding, can meet the couple's specific needs, and can compromise during sexual activity, prioritizing the satisfaction of one partner before seeking his own.
The first type is the successful single man.
This type of single man not only possesses certain strengths—perhaps financially, physically, or with a good physique—but also has excellent interpersonal skills. He proactively addresses his partner's concerns and anxieties, treats people with sincerity, and can effectively manage the dynamics of the relationship. He knows when to distance himself from overly intimate situations to alleviate his husband's worries, and when to show concern for his partner from overly distant situations, maintaining a good sense of understanding. He fundamentally builds a social and friendly relationship with his husband, establishing trust and respecting his wife's needs. He addresses both physical and psychological needs, and after reaching a certain level of understanding, fully satisfies his own sexual desires. This type of single man often has a long-term vision and doesn't expect a one-off, superficial relationship; he values future development and pleasure.
Key characteristics: honest, optimistic, with a stable career and family, a stronger desire for success than sexual desire, good interpersonal skills, a sense of humor, an understanding of romance and ambiance, and trusts his partner, effectively gaining his husband's trust in return.

Having discussed so much, the key point remains the same: character. The word "character" is simple, yet it encompasses so much. If we were to quantify it, I would say: first, having appropriate sexual experience and avoiding promiscuity; second, ensuring good health, especially having a strong interest in sports; third, having at least a bachelor's degree from a top-tier university to avoid a flawed value system; fourth, having a sufficiently positive social and professional network to avoid being a masturbator; and fifth, knowing how to make friends and giving rather than taking. Finally, don't get involved with money. Whether you're a couple or a single man, keep your feelings and interests within reasonable bounds; getting involved with money is a crime and illegal. I hope everyone will continue to exchange ideas.

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