Thoughts of a male massage therapist giving an aromatherapy spa treatment to a couple.

Since posting my personal experiences as a male aromatherapy SPA massage therapist on 69, many friends have added me as a friend. Thank you all for your support! Due to geographical and time constraints, there hasn't been any substantial progress, but anything is possible if fate allows.
Some friends have also inquired about whether professional SPA massage is free. Well, from a psychological perspective, most couples who contact each other for aromatherapy SPA massage are in the early stages of "training" the wife. Through the stimulation of massage by a male, the wife is gradually relaxed. The first time, the wife might only accept the massage, but after taking that first step, anything is possible. In my experience, some wives became aroused after the first massage, and with encouragement from their husbands, they directly accepted a threesome. Others didn't accept a threesome the first time, but through conversation during the massage, they increased familiarity and trust, and accepted it the second time. That's a bit of a tangent. Let's get back to the topic of whether or not to charge. For couples going for the first time, charging makes the wife feel like she's paying for enjoyment. When the masseur tries to remove her underwear during the massage, explaining that it's a normal part of an aromatherapy spa reduces her resistance. I've encountered husbands trying to remove their wives' underwear during massages, and the wives absolutely refused. But when I gently removed their underwear during a normal massage, or asked them to spread their legs at a certain angle, they cooperated readily, like a male doctor treating a female patient. They understood they were paying for the experience. Conversely, if there's no charge, a wife going for the first time might feel like her husband doesn't love her anymore, that he's just sharing her with any other man. Psychologically, this is often difficult for a wife to accept, and she might even consider giving up at the last minute.
To my shame, this weekend a couple from Hangzhou, both in their late 60s and early 70s, invited me to a spa. They hadn't specified any fees beforehand. I arrived at the hotel (which they had booked in advance and was quite nice) at the time and place specified by my husband, and waited from 3 pm until 10 pm. In the end, I received news that the wife had backed out at the crucial moment. The planned meeting, such as tea, dinner, and karaoke, didn't happen due to insufficient communication, which may have led the wife to mistakenly believe that her husband just wanted to find another man to share her life with. I don't mean to blame the couple, and I believe in my husband's sincerity. I'm just using this example to tell couples preparing to take this step that preparation and communication are extremely important. Also, don't directly say you want a threesome; instead, hire a professional aromatherapy spa therapist to help your wife relax. Women are emotional creatures; some things don't need to be said too explicitly. Since she accepted her husband's suggestion, she was already mentally prepared for it (I believe the husband had instilled this knowledge in her beforehand). Being too explicit is counterproductive. Additionally, you should trust my techniques and skills as a massage therapist. (By the way, the guy is also a member of 69, sorry for writing this down, but I reiterate that I don't mean any blame.)
As a massage therapist, I prefer to be an aromatherapy SPA therapist. Therefore, based on the above analysis, I still think charging a certain fee, even if it's just a symbolic fee of a hundred or so yuan for the oil, will make a completely different experience.
Some friends add me as a friend and directly ask me how big my penis is, how long I last, how strong I am, or even ask me to send photos of my penis. Actually, I'm quite averse to these kinds of friends because people are emotional beings, not sex machines. Maybe these friends have already been completely trained by their wives, but as I said before, I prefer to position myself as a massage therapist, or a sensual massage therapist. I have all the necessary skills, and I've never felt my technique was lacking. As long as we communicate beforehand and agree on the boundaries, I'll understand. After all, I'm not lacking in personal qualities or emotional intelligence. (A little self-praise.) Also, if someone asks for the phone numbers or contact information of other couples or friends, I will not disclose their information, especially anything involving privacy, unless they agree or request it.
These are my honest thoughts as a massage therapist, and some people may disagree. As couples, you may be at different stages of your relationship journey, and we have different perspectives. I welcome you to write down your thoughts so we can exchange ideas and provide some guidance for couples preparing to take this step. That's all for
today. Couples, lovers, or friends who want to enjoy an aromatherapy spa can contact me. I'm located in Jiaxing. However, due to limited access, I cannot view your contact information directly. My contact information is in my profile; those with access can add me. With the right connection, anything is possible!

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