Online dating and meeting girls: personal experience sharing (10)

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Hi everyone, it's me again, Lao Xu.
This post continues from the last one. I plan to write 10 articles in this series to finish it (to round it out, I'm a bit of a perfectionist). I wrote this in a bit of a rush, so the writing isn't great and there might be some typos. Please forgive me, thank you!
Without further ado,
let's get to the main point: Showing attraction can pique her interest in you. At this stage, she might not only be interested in you, but... well, she might even like you a little. But liking someone doesn't equal everything, right? So, is it okay to ask her out at this point? Of course, you can. Even in the second sentence of your chat, you can ask her out. However, the purpose of meeting girls through social media is to ask them out, but we're not asking them out just for the sake of asking them out. What does that mean? First of all, there are so many girls online. If you do what I said before, asking a girl out isn't difficult. But what is your purpose in asking her out? Just for a meal, a meeting, or coffee? Many people also ask me how to take a date to bed? Everyone, isn't this what you all want to know from my articles? You've read so many of the previous nine articles, right? Our goal is to escalate the relationship with the girl and then ask her out. If you can't advance the relationship through conversation, then asking her out is pointless. It's just a matter of one person paying the bill, then dinner, a movie, and everyone going their separate ways—it's meaningless.
So, we come to the fourth step—escalating the relationship. This is also to avoid falling into the friend zone and to develop the relationship further. It's about letting the girl feel that you don't just want to be friends with her, but want to take things to the next level. And you need to know that in her heart, she also hopes that you can escalate the relationship, because she doesn't lack male friends; she needs a real man. Whether she wants to have sex or not, I don't know, but what's certain is that if you directly invite her out, even if you succeed, there's a high chance that she really just wants to have dinner. Here, I want to emphasize that we're not just asking out a girl who has no chance of anything, so you can have another female friend, or a girl who has other intentions towards you. Nowadays, on social media, you often encounter people like "bar girls" or "meal girls" who want to take advantage of you. They want to hook up with a girl they can have sex with. If you're looking for a girlfriend, this is a viable option. If you want to take things further, escalating the relationship is essential. There are three specific ways to escalate the relationship:
First, express interest. This means that based on the previous groundwork, you need to test the girl's interest in you. We can divide this into two types: 1. Positive expression. For example, when the conversation is going well, you can say: "Ah, I dreamt about you last night." The image was quite graphic, used to test her reaction. 2. Negative expression. For example: "I've been sneezing a lot today, is it because you're thinking about me?"
Second, discuss ambiguous topics. This means you and the girl discuss intimate topics. For example, you can say to the girl: "Your upper lip is thicker than your lower lip; scientists say that you don't stick your tongue out when kissing." Or: "Your hair is smooth, which means your hormones are high." When the girl doesn't reject these ambiguous topics, it means she accepts the ambiguous feeling.
Third, flirting. It's important to note that not everyone enjoys online flirting. Generally, the other person needs to be open to ambiguous topics before proceeding. Also, just because she's willing to flirt online doesn't mean she'll be open offline (I've encountered people who were wildly flirtatious online but incredibly reserved offline). There aren't many tricks to flirting. Just be a little flirtatious and interesting, but not too vulgar. Don't directly ask, "What positions do you like?" or be too self-absorbed, with you only satisfying her curiosity. You could say something like, "I've heard women with thick pubic hair have a higher sex drive. Have you ever counted how many hairs you have?" Be a little playful and funny, make her happy, and then it's up to you to improvise.
Once the relationship has progressed, the next step is the most important. Fifth step – making an invitation. How do you invite her? Simply asking, "Are you free today? Want to go to a movie together?" The probability of rejection with this approach is probably fifty percent. The girl will either say "okay" or "I'm not free today." Everyone is busy these days; if you ask if someone is free, they'll usually say no. How can you make your invitations more successful? I recommend two steps.
First, there's the "invitation seeding" process. This means that before formally inviting her, you should first make a vague invitation, without giving a specific time or place. This is called "invitation seeding," or a vague invitation. This makes it hard for girls to refuse. For example, you can tell a girl that you're free sometime and want to go to the movies together, or say that you're free sometime and I'll take her to eat the best durian cheesecake in the city center. The woman will say, "Okay, we'll see," because she can't say, "No, I won't go with you." If she really says that, then what's the point of chatting? Hurry up and find another target. Because she might be married, or she might just be chatting with you for fun (there are also those who just flirt online for pure entertainment), and you won't be able to achieve your goal of asking her out.
Second, there's the "finalizing the invitation" process. This step is done about two days after you successfully "seedled" your invitation, and then you can finalize the invitation. But remember, there are two things to keep in mind when making a vague invitation: First, as a man, you must plan the date. Don't ask her where she wants to go or what she wants to do. Let's look at a sample dialogue:
You say: "Oh, do you have any plans for this weekend?"
The girl says: "Not yet."
You say: "Okay, let's go see the newly released 'Jumanji: The Next Level'?"
She might say: "Should we book in advance?"
You say: "Okay, let's call each other beforehand."
Yes, it's that simple. The second thing to note is that when you've finalized the invitation, you must have the girl's phone number. This is not only to judge whether the girl is sincere, but also to make the date more certain. If the girl refuses and says, "Let's just use WeChat, it's inconvenient to call," you can insist and say that you contact your friends by phone, which is more convenient. That's it. Now, here's another invitation method that will guarantee you won't be rejected: you say to the girl: "Um, I'm going to Beijing for a business trip tomorrow, and I won't be back for two days. Let's go see the newly released 'Jumanji: The Next Level' together then." Whether you're actually going on a business trip or not isn't that important; it's just an excuse. This tactic is called a high-value invitation, and I've used it countless times with unfailing success. It can even spark more conversation, and you can even tell her you're catching a flight and leaving after you've already slept (you know why). Of course, if you want your date to go smoothly with holding hands, kissing, hugging, or even having sex, some offline preparation is needed (image, demeanor, body language, mindset, and conversation skills at the dinner table). I haven't yet compiled a complete guide on this. If you want to know, feel free to message me privately.
Okay, it's been about two weeks now. That's all for my sharing of online dating tips for now. Now, I want to share some heartfelt words. First, thank you to everyone who's read this far. Chatting with girls online is really quite simple; it doesn't require much skill. Basically, if you read everything I've written and try it out seriously, you can do it. The reason I've written so much is that I want to make more friends so we can have fun and exchange ideas. In the next post, I'll share my first successful threesome experience on the 69 platform and share some experience with all you single guys.
I'm Lao Xu. If you like my sharing, please leave a comment to support me, and you can also add me as a friend to get to know me!

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