A single man's opinion on threesomes

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I'm a single man, but a newcomer, with only one real experience. It's not that I can't find anyone, but that I have to look seriously. The only couple I actually had a relationship with has stayed in touch, but because we live in different cities, my friend always regrets not being able to get together more often.

To be honest, the dating format on the forum is quite exciting for a man around 30. I initially joined out of curiosity, driven by a young man's fantasies about sex. A friend online once joked with me, "Looking at your gentle and refined appearance, you must have been a dashing young man in your youth. I can't imagine what you were like when you were sexually aroused?" I could only reply, "Even a dashing young man needs sex when he grows up..."

Gradually, after reading many of the forum members' diaries, I learned about many people's emotional and psychological journeys. I slowly realized that couples looking for single men aren't purely looking for "sex," but also for "emotion."

Of course, I don't mean romantic love, because that's what romantic love is for those couples. As a single man, I imagine a single man as a spice in a couple's relationship, someone who can help them increase the fun of their marriage. The "relationship" between a married couple and a single man can be described as a special kind of "sexual friendship," somewhat like a secret friendship, somewhat like a confidant who only shares private matters, somewhat like a catalyst for the couple's relationship...

Of course, in this process, the single man is not simply giving, because by participating in the relationship of a loving couple, he not only experiences the love between them, but he also experiences sexual pleasure. This is a different kind of sexual pleasure from that of a lover; it should be a relaxed, pure, and instinctive sexual pleasure.

As a single man, I think the most basic attitude should be sincerity and a clear conscience. If one harbors dark thoughts, is not sincere, or purely fantasizes about the couple, then such a person with depraved thoughts does not deserve sincere treatment.

Many friends have a one-size-fits-all attitude towards single men, believing that all single men should have the same attitude. This is not the case. People have various personalities; among couples, some are sincere while others lack goodwill. Therefore, there are also sincere and lewd single men. For example, although I am a single man, I also have my own principles. I prefer to chat slowly, getting to know the other person's personality and temperament first. If we can gradually get along and feel comfortable together, then I'd be happy to meet. Of course, meeting doesn't necessarily mean anything has to happen; it can be a friendly chat. I'm not suited to rushing into discussing sex or immediately engaging in sexual activity after adding someone as a friend. Because I don't need to just satisfy my sexual desires, and other people's wives aren't for sexual gratification. I still prefer to have "friends" with a certain degree of special friendship. Everyone is only seeking the most instinctive pleasure, engaging in sexual activity with someone they like. This is different from the piston-like movement of sex without any feelings.

With a certain foundation of friendship, different kinds of pleasure can be achieved in sex, so single men and married couples can really have longer-lasting relationships. When both parties are familiar with each other, it's safer, more reassuring, and cleaner. I don't currently agree with frequently changing partners...

Of course, if due to practical reasons, this special friendship can no longer continue, then we can become ordinary friends, chatting online occasionally, or each returning to our own paths, becoming a passerby in each other's lives. This is about not seeking forever, but only cherishing the memories of what we had.

Many single men always boast about how big, thick, and long-lasting their penises are… After seeing so much of this, I'm starting to wonder if the average Chinese man has caught up with Westerners? What did these men eat and drink from a young age to achieve a length of 20 centimeters or 18 centimeters? Of course, some men are indeed that big, but I just wonder, when did it become as if every single man is so large? Does it have to be 18 or 20 centimeters to be considered manly? Can't the average man's 13 or 14 centimeters bring a woman to the peak of pleasure?

I feel… I dislike this attitude of focusing solely on length and girth. Do they see themselves as merchandise for sale? Do they need to market themselves like this? It's unnecessary. If a couple really only needs a big, thick penis, why bother with all the effort of dating and making friends? Spending money to hire a professional or buy a toy would be much more cost-effective. Besides, a woman's pleasure during sex doesn't just come from the sensation of penetration, but also from a good mood and the sweet words a man says. Praise women more, boast less about yourself. After all, in a relationship between a single man and a married couple, the protagonist isn't the single man or the husband, but the wife.

Some couples prefer single men with large, muscular physiques; I think their focus might be more on sex than on "love."

Hehe, the above is just my theoretical knowledge and insights as a naive single man, and there might be inaccuracies. Just theoretical talk, please forgive my ignorance.

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