Five compelling reasons why wives get involved in online dating

If you are a woman, if you believe you will spend your life in a forest of men, unable to wholeheartedly love only one tree, and if you still cherish your family and don't want to break up your existing life, then you really can try couples dating.

This isn't instigation, it's personal experience. I have five reasons to support this.

1. The inner need for infidelity.
Marriage is too long, love is too short. No matter how passionate and deep the initial love was, long-term married life will wear down the passion. You will fall into the habits of marriage. You can't live without that person, but with that person, there may not be a constantly exciting sex life, or even the restless excitement in your heart. In fact, you need other men, you need different men, like different bonfires, burning at different points in your life, giving you ample passion and warmth. You are a puddle of water beside that bonfire; you need the power to evaporate, you need the warmth of life... making you feel that life is not a straight river, without even a bend in the road, just rushing to the end.

Who wants that kind of life? I don't want to. When I look back on my life, I want it to feel like a bountiful autumn, the heavy fruits making me truly feel their weight, seemingly endless. Like a story, it can never be finished, always with different climaxes and ups and downs.

2. The inevitability of safe and secure infidelity.
Infidelity cannot risk destroying a marriage; otherwise, it's not worth it. Marriage is the most stable river in a woman's life. Don't try to jump out of this river in every relationship, because the fleeting warmth many men give you is not enough to support your body's depth. He might just be a small pond; if you bravely jump in, you might just end up crashing into hard concrete. Therefore, infidelity should be done safely and securely, without loss. Like in the journey of life, you only pause briefly, picking a touch of spring's vibrancy and carrying a handful of autumn's brilliance. This "infidelity" is just a small pause, a small detour, and then, filled with physical and mental pleasure, you return to your main path.

There is no other way to allow you to cheat while ensuring your infidelity is safe, secure, and risk-free. Only through marital infidelity. Because your actions are permitted, even encouraged, and shared, not restricted, prohibited, or abandoned. Just like me, hiding under the umbrella of marriage, or anchored in the harbor of marriage, looking around, occasionally venturing out, always remembering the direction of home and the warm, unchanging light.

3. The inevitability of sharing happiness in infidelity.
Other types of extramarital affairs all harbor the danger of marital and family disintegration after exposure, making it impossible to control the future direction of life, with immeasurable costs. But women, if you participate in marital infidelity, then infidelity and extramarital affairs become a form of shared happiness. From the moment you start looking for romantic encounters, whether you are looking for couples or singles, you and your husband will have many more topics to discuss—guessing, planning, anticipating, even fantasizing… Happiness is secretly shared, not something you hide, something that cannot be seen in the light.

You will feel that the love you receive at this time is infinitely expanded. Originally, your husband's love was 10 parts, now it's 20 parts. Because of his magnanimity, his indulgence, his encouragement, his trust, and his meticulous care and concern, the bond between you has grown significantly… Meanwhile, you've also gained the care, concern, allure, and passion of another man. Your happiness will increase by another 20 parts. A

purely secret affair might offer 20 parts of pleasure and excitement, but the risk and pain of a broken marriage could wipe out all 20 parts, leaving a lifetime of negative pain. I don't want to take the risk, I don't want to lose, I don't want to bear the emotional debt. What about you?

4. The necessity of maintaining control.

The power of emotions is terrifying. An irrational person might destroy their existing life under the influence of a momentary emotional impulse. Especially the common stories of families being torn apart by secret affairs—these are constantly playing out around us.

How can we risk losing our originally harmonious and peaceful family for a moment of pleasure? Therefore, covert and deceptive infidelity or extramarital affairs are not worthwhile. Women, if you want to enjoy life safely and securely, and without danger, within your own control, the only option is to participate in marital friendships. Perhaps women are too emotional, and their emotional self-control may be temporarily lost. But rest assured, your husband will keep things in check for you, and your partners will help you manage things from each other's perspectives, ensuring that while things may be exciting, they won't be chaotic. It allows you to immerse yourself in a sudden, unexpected relationship, yet it also has enough pull to bring you back to your original life.

Moreover, you will be filled with gratitude for life, your husband, and the world because you are being inspired by a great love. You enjoy physical and mental pleasure without betraying love and family; you remain noble and unique. You don't need to bear any moral condemnation because your emotional journey doesn't affect your sense of social responsibility. Your attitude is a return to family, not a departure.

5. A path to self-awareness, improvement, and learning.
No life experience is without cause, nor is it without gain or reflection.

A woman who, with maximum understanding and support, enjoys extramarital affairs and sex, enriching her otherwise meager life, will not be a wooden woman, indifferent to these seemingly rebellious acts. She will certainly reflect more deeply, carefully learning from these experiences—learning from each man's choices when faced with the clash between emotion and reason, learning their trade-offs and considerations in life, learning their different ways of expressing passion and love, and learning their excellent and compassionate qualities. Take me

, for example; I've always been selfish. No matter how much I change each time, I've ultimately come to some realization. I would lie in my husband's arms, reflecting on my pettiness and greed, begging for his forgiveness, asking for more time to slowly correct myself, or perhaps even resorting to pleading and pleading for his tolerance of my flaws…

Perhaps due to my personality, I could never be perfect in this regard, but I would desperately try to make up for it in other ways. Love requires seeing and giving; sometimes, the word "reciprocation" isn't wrong. As long as you give, the other person will see and feel it, and will reciprocate in kind… In this way, everyone grows and strengthens within the marriage—how wonderful!

So, participating in an extramarital affair together, treating your spouse and loved ones with openness and honesty, is perfectly wonderful and incredibly blissful—don't you think?

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