Five essential sexual communication methods for couples

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Communication during sex can take you to sexual heaven or plunge you into an eternal hell of orgasm! Knowing how to express your feelings about sex can make your next sexual encounter even better! Let's be tolerant and work together to improve anything that's not perfect. Which side feels sensitive, what sexual positions you prefer, what you expect from your partner's oral sex—let's learn to boldly and openly communicate these important sexual questions, ladies and gentlemen! It's not that you're sexually incompatible, it's just a lack of communication.
Communication between partners is very important, as many people know, but how exactly should they communicate, or how can they achieve effective communication?
Especially when facing sexual issues, how should one bring it up? Today, let's share some things about sexual communication between partners, and what aspects should be known and even noted. First, we need to consider the differences in words and actions regarding sexual behavior between men and women due to differences in family, society, and culture. For example, it is considered negative and promiscuous for a woman to sleep with many men, while it is considered a feat for a man to sleep with many women.
Therefore, within the social framework, men have more freedom regarding sexual behavior than women. However, men often overlook the mindset of women growing up in such a sexually repressive environment. Some say that a high-quality woman should be a sophisticated lady in public, a domestic goddess at home, and a seductive woman in bed. How can a woman be expected to be conservative for ten or twenty years and then suddenly become promiscuous after marriage or dating?
Of course, we might also encounter men from more traditional and conservative families. You might want to try more different things, but he might think that the missionary position is the only option for penetration (crying!).
Therefore, here are a few points for your reference. If you want to make some changes, here are some things you can do!
1. Never laugh at him.
If he's willing to make some changes, don't ridicule him; instead, praise him. Women, in particular, are often afraid of losing face or being labeled as sluts, so they're reluctant to try many changes in their sex life, including willingly and enjoying oral sex! Therefore, if he's willing to make some changes, don't ridicule him; instead, praise him and say encouraging things like, "You're great," or "You really enjoy it."
2. Never force him.
Before each sexual encounter, you can ask him if he wants to try it. If he doesn't agree, don't ask again or push him. Be patient and wait for the next time! We will keep bringing up a sexual activity we want to try, and sometimes we will even say: Just try it, nothing will happen.
So your partner, afraid of upsetting you, will reluctantly do it. If he finds it's actually not bad after doing it, then congratulations, there's a possibility of taking it a step further. But if he messes it up and feels really uncomfortable, then it's hard to get him to try again.
So before each sexual encounter, you can ask him if he wants to try it. If he doesn't agree, don't ask a second time or push him. Just wait patiently for the next time!
3. Since the opponent keeps losing possession, why don't you try receiving the ball?
If he's understanding, he'll understand your anxieties. Try finding solutions or knowledge together, with understanding and tolerance; it might actually strengthen your relationship! While your partner's demands might challenge your past beliefs, sometimes accepting what you can't see isn't a bad thing. You can tell him your reasons for refusing, ideally by specifically stating your concerns. If he's understanding, he'll understand your anxieties. Then, try researching related information together; this can not only improve your sex life but also strengthen your relationship!
4. Start with skirting the line.
Avoid the main focus and start with small changes! If your partner decides to give it a try, don't rush in headfirst. It's best to start with something subtle. For example, if a guy wants his partner to give him oral sex, try asking him to lick him; there's no need to shove a penis in his mouth. If a girl is willing to let you give her oral sex, start with her inner thighs or near her labia majora. Or, if you want your partner to be on top, why not have her lie on top of you first, and then you move and thrust, getting her used to being on top?
In short, let's avoid the main issues for now and start by making changes in small areas!
5. Consider his cultural background
Family, social culture, and religion all influence a person's attitude towards sex. When someone is unwilling to try something, one should first consider the reasons for their refusal and whether these three factors might be involved. Some of these are sexual myths; once you understand them, the path to acceptance will open up. However, if there are truly irrefutable underlying issues, then it becomes more difficult to resolve.

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