These are the things couples should learn about sex.

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When two people live together, they become more familiar with each other over time, and their love will subtly change. The seven-year itch will then arrive. Some people cannot withstand this seven-year itch, which ultimately leads to the breakdown of their marriage. To safely get through the seven-year itch, we need to master some tips in our married life to maintain our attraction to each other.
intimate
Many couples view frequent intimacy as clingy and explain that "not being affectionate in public" is a sign of not being frivolous. However, expert research has found that intimacy has a wonderful effect on improving the quality of family life, and people who lack hugs and kisses for a long time are prone to "skin hunger," which in turn leads to emotional hunger.
Therefore, family life should ideally include more affectionate gestures. For example, a grown-up daughter can still hold her father's hand; couples can hug and kiss before leaving the house; if one spouse comes home late, they can gently compliment the busy other, and so on.
communicate
In movies and TV shows, we often hear one spouse say, "I want to talk to you!" Then, both partners find an opportunity to vent their frustrations. However, many Chinese couples suppress their opinions and unhappiness, never speaking out, even calling it "good temper and good manners." In reality, mutual isolation only deepens misunderstandings; long-term suppression is like accumulating negative energy, which, once it erupts, is far more destructive. We often see couples who normally get along well, but when they argue, they dredge up old grievances, bringing up everything trivial and insignificant, resulting in escalating conflict and sometimes even separation. The proper approach is to strengthen communication. Opinions and unhappiness should be expressed sincerely, gently, and tactfully, and couples should proactively try to understand each other's thoughts. Arguing isn't necessarily a bad thing; after all, it's a form of communication. Just never bring up past grievances or resort to personal attacks during arguments.
romantic
Many Chinese families are too practical and lack romance. Perhaps some, when asked, "After a long day of work and chores, why don't you go for a walk as a family?" might answer, "I'm too tired." However, these same people who say "I'm tired" will soon be playing mahjong, or even playing all night. Clearly, the key to romance lies in having a romantic spirit. Don't think that boundless romance is just about giving flowers and dancing, or that you can't be romantic if you don't have time or money. Remember, romance takes many forms.
appreciate
People often view their children with appreciative eyes, hence the saying "my own child is the best"; conversely, they often view their spouses with critical eyes, hence the belief that other people's wives (husbands) are better. For example, if one spouse is completely devoted to their work, the other might appreciate it, saying, "He/She is very career-oriented!" or criticize, "He/She doesn't care about the family at all!" This illustrates that evaluating the same thing from different perspectives leads to vastly different conclusions. If you can list many of your spouse's shortcomings without thinking, then you likely lack an appreciative eye. If you only speak of your spouse's strengths, both to their face and behind their back, then you have learned to love and will reap love in return.
Love words
Psychologists believe that spouses should say at least three affectionate words to each other every day, such as "I love you" or "I like your [specific quality]." However, many Chinese people are overly concerned with subtlety; someone who constantly expresses "love" is often seen as shallow or cheesy. Many Chinese couples prefer their spouses to demonstrate love through thoughtful and considerate care. This is certainly true, but if there are only actions and no words, won't it feel like "a main course without the garnish"?
Couples should not be stingy with their feelings; they should bravely express their love, create small romantic moments from time to time, and improve their sexual techniques. This will surely help maintain their marriage at a higher level.

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