Online dating and meeting girls: personal experience sharing (1)

(This is a compilation of my own experiences, with some additions.)
Let me briefly introduce myself first. I was born in 1992, male, and live in Xiamen. I used to work in Fuzhou too, but now I'm settled in Xiamen for work.
When I say "hooking up," I mean hooking up with single women. I use various apps to chat and flirt (I won't go into details to avoid advertising). I've hooked up with hundreds of women. I'm relatively new to this circle, so please don't ask me how to hook up with couples; I don't know either. I'm mainly sharing this with single men. If you like my content, please support me.
Now, to the main point:
When I was younger, I was a complete loser. In college, I was incredibly groveling, but I was still single. It started when I met a friend, and then I read all sorts of dating guides online. I've read countless PUA (Pick-Up Artist) tutorials online. With my own efforts, I've achieved this result. Some friends might think it's exaggerated, but in short, try it yourself and you'll see. But honestly, after hooking up with so many people, I did have a bit of a revenge mentality at first, and I felt a little guilty.
Here's a summary of some practical tips for hooking up. You can judge for yourselves how effective it is after reading it. Today

, I'll focus on three key points: 1. To hook up, you first need to know how to present yourself effectively. What girl wants to date a loser? (I certainly haven't met one). You need to present yourself as the type of man she likes, such as someone who can cook, loves animals, has a romantic lifestyle, enjoys traveling, and possesses other desirable qualities.

2. Don't bother with any chat skills tutorials. They're all scams. Everyone's personality is different; you can't learn someone else's routine. It's like a salesperson who only knows how to recite scripts—they look stupid. Girls aren't stupid; they'll understand after a few sentences. So, if a girl isn't interested in you, no matter how you talk, you won't get anywhere. If she's cold to you, even if you're a master, it won't help. So, present yourself well first, attract girls, and then ask her out. That's much better.

3. Most girls are looking for a romantic relationship. So don't be silly and open a chat app, find a girl, and directly ask, "Want to hook up?" 99% of the time, no one will pay attention to you. It's all about chatting first, getting to know each other, and then having sex. I recommend a one-stop shop: dinner and a movie. However, if you're married and want to go out, my personal advice is to wear your wedding ring. Don't lie; women's intuition is very accurate. If she's willing to develop a relationship with you, then you can continue.

Having said all that, how exactly do you do it? First, I personally think many dating apps are scams. Those that try to trick you into buying a membership, saying that paying for VIP will guarantee you matches—forget about it. Girls online don't lack men; they can just post something and a bunch of people will chat with them. Why would they need an app to match them? (I've been burned by these scams myself; if you like to try, then

disregard what I said.) So, when using apps to meet girls, a few key points: First, it doesn't matter which app you use—there are only a few mainstream ones. When downloading an app, you need to make sure the girls' authenticity. Those that try to trick you into buying a membership or have a bunch of girls actively contacting you (like a certain dating app, I won't name names)—forget about them; you know how marketing works. I can't post screenshots here, otherwise I'll post a few for you to see.

Okay, if the software is working properly, you can confidently try to meet up. First, I can assure you that anyone who uses the software regularly (except for occasional casual users) is definitely looking to meet up. Online dating isn't about hookups; you're looking for true love? I've never seen that. Do you really think you're on 69 or downloading dating apps just to find true love?

Impossible. Okay, so why do so many people fail to meet up? It's simple: you're not attractive. On these apps, if a woman is female, she gets dozens, even hundreds, of messages a day. So it's not that she's ignoring you; she's too busy. Simply put, you're just one of many people, and she doesn't have time to look at you. So, going back to the previous point, presentation is crucial!

How do you present yourself? Okay, let's get straight to the point: appearance—watch/glasses/plain shirt (professional with a touch of casualness). I know the users on this website are generally older; you won't be able to pull off trendy looks, and I can't explain it clearly. On social media (every app has something similar), post pictures of pets, food, or travel. Remember, fewer selfies, more photos taken by others, unless you're really handsome. Sounds like PUA (Pick-Up Artist) tactics, right? That's right, it's borrowed from there. However, over time, I've personally felt some things are wrong. First, don't post pictures of luxury cars, five-star hotels, or flaunting your wealth. Many college students don't buy into that; they'll think you're pretentious. Don't over-package yourself; a huge gap between your online persona and reality will ruin the chances (remember this, a huge gap means you're out of luck). If your social circle is well-built, you can basically arrange dates every two days, going out for dinner and a movie—a complete package (I'm not kidding, if you invest all your time and energy, you can totally do it).

Since you've read this far, let me share a few tips. First, be a gentleman when eating out. Offer food to others, and ask about their dietary restrictions and preferences beforehand. I once dated someone who didn't like Japanese food, and the whole conversation was awkward and ended badly. For movies, choose later ones. You know what happens when you go out late at night with a girl. Private cinemas are also nice, preferably ones that offer overnight stays—that way you can go all the way.

Bring a bottle of red wine to the hotel. If the girl doesn't like red wine, I recommend Rio Peach; a little wine might help things get going faster. Remember, don't rush things the first time, and don't get her drunk; just a light buzz is enough for flirting. Finally, remember to bring condoms and be careful!

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