A brief discussion on the difference between M and slave

Many novice S (dominant submissive) don't understand what a slave is. What is a submissive? A slave is first and foremost someone with a submissive nature! What is a submissive nature? (Submissive nature is manifested in one's mindset.) Submissive nature is an innate characteristic of a very small number of people! Even after reaching adulthood, their independent thinking and self-sufficiency are very poor. They need someone to provide them with intellectual support and dependence to feel secure. They need someone with a strong will to dominate them to generate sufficient spiritual strength. They are prone to developing a sense of admiration for someone of the opposite sex who is exceptionally capable or has achieved success in a certain field. If their admired person asks them to do something, they will feel honored and will do it willingly without any conditions—a kind of selfless dedication. This is primal submissive nature. Having
primal submissive nature doesn't necessarily make someone a slave in SM; many people don't like SM. Those without this primal submissive nature can never become true slaves in SM! This primal submissive nature continues and develops in SM, and among those with this primal submissive nature, there is an innate tendency towards being a submissive. As they grow into adulthood, exposure to texts and images depicting bondage and abuse triggers noticeable mental and physical reactions in them. These reactions manifest as tension, excitement, tightly clenched legs, and in adult women, slight vaginal discharge. These mental and physical reactions ignite fantasies, making them feel comfortable, enjoyable, and satisfied to be manipulated in such a way. Those with such fantasies experience initial excitement. Feeling different from others, they seek answers online. Learning about BDSM ignites a desire to bring it into reality. They want a Dom as their emotional and practical support, willing to give everything and endure all pain to satisfy their partner. With this premise, some of the pain during training can be transformed into pleasure. This is the origin of subservience. Therefore, I say subservience is innate, an inherent nature! In short, subservience is the master's strong will providing the slave with a spiritual anchor, a sense of belonging, and dependence, giving the slave a sense of security. A slave's repayment to their master is willing, wholehearted service, absolute obedience, and a relentless pursuit of pleasure, ensuring the master derives maximum joy and satisfaction from their service and submission.
Based on my observations in BDSM, such subservient individuals comprise only one in tens of thousands of people—a rare breed indeed. Slaves with strong subservience enjoy mental training, humiliation, conquest, control, bondage, and the feeling of obeying orders! They derive pleasure and enjoyment from these experiences. The more authoritative and severe the master, the more subservient the slave becomes! A true slave doesn't have preferences for any particular training method; they simply enjoy whatever their master likes! During training, even in pain, they will endure the agony to please their master, transforming pain into pleasure. In this state, pain often becomes pleasure. In life, their master's happiness is their happiness, and their master's sadness is their sadness, even hoping for severe punishment. They use their own suffering to bring joy to their master, for their minds have been surrendered to them. This is the true slave! Unfortunately, such exceptional female slaves are few and far between in China. In China, there is a type of slave called a "private slave," and the private master-slave relationship is the main form of SM in China today. This is directly related to China's national conditions. A true private slave has a slave mentality, but due to national, social, and personal reasons, she cannot find a master to keep as a domesticated slave, so she can only exist as a private slave. This type of slave also enjoys humiliation, being conquered, controlled, and bound and abused; she enjoys the feeling of obeying orders, etc.! She feels pleasure and enjoyment from this, but for certain reasons, it is limited to training, and satisfaction is obtained through training. What is an M? An M is someone with masochistic tendencies, while a slave not only has masochistic tendencies but also a slave mentality! What is the biggest difference between a slave and an M? The biggest difference between a slave and an M is: 1. A slave has a servile nature, while an M does not necessarily have a servile nature but only masochistic tendencies. 2. A slave's thoughts are not independent; she only has the master in her heart and no self! Her thoughts are the master's thoughts, while an M's thoughts are independent. She has a self-awareness, and many Ms who engage in training are self-centered. 3. The submissive's spirit is dependent on the master, receiving both spiritual and physical pleasure. Most submissives (M) do not accept spiritual training, and even if they do, it's superficial. Most submissives seek physical pleasure and enjoyment for satisfaction, lacking spiritual dependence on the master. 4. Submissives don't have a concept of liking or disliking training methods; they only have obedience and endurance. Submissives, however, are different. Before training, they clearly express their likes and dislikes in communication with the master. Therefore, submissives can be divided into several types. The first type is the submissive with masochistic tendencies. These submissives are true submissives; they inherently possess masochistic tendencies, which are gradually brought into reality by online stimulation. With proper training, these submissives can potentially become slaves. Due to fear and aversion to certain training methods, they develop a rejection mentality. Because many submissives have careers, families, and children, they can only choose training methods they prefer that won't leave physical marks to satisfy their masochistic desires. The second type is the "slut." This type of submissive is not actually a submissive. They themselves don't have masochistic tendencies; they simply seek an extreme way to satisfy their sexual desires and needs. The level of discipline they accept is relatively mild, and the range of activities they can tolerate is limited. Such sex slaves are frequently seen online. The third type is the thrill-seeker, who isn't a submissive (M). These are mostly young girls who don't have masochistic tendencies; they simply find SM exciting and fun. This is the least reliable type of submissive. The fourth type is the novelty seeker. This type of submissive isn't a submissive at all; they don't have any N-type tendencies. They've stumbled into the SM community and claim to be submissives. The fifth type is the stress reliever. This type of submissive is mainly composed of white-collar workers. Strictly speaking, they aren't submissives because many don't have masochistic tendencies. They experience high work pressure and use SM as a way to relieve stress. People without N-type tendencies cannot experience the pleasure and enjoyment of being a submissive. Ultimately, whether someone is a slave or a submissive is unimportant! SM is simply about mutual satisfaction and fulfilling each other's physical and emotional needs! The most important thing is that both people enjoy themselves, have fun, and experience pleasure and satisfaction without negatively impacting each other's work, health, or family! People who genuinely enjoy SM and have SM tendencies make up only a tiny fraction of the population, perhaps one in a hundred thousand or several hundred thousand. Therefore, the vast majority of "M" (submissive) people online are the types I've mentioned; true M or submissives are extremely rare. This is one of the reasons why SM is not widely accepted.

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