Different sex organs require different methods of sex.

"Please, can you be on top?" Believe it or not, your man might one day utter this plea during sex. Even if you're surprised, even if you scream, it might be the very voice of a man's heart.

Judy is deeply troubled by her husband's desire for varied sexual positions. During sex, her husband seems to have changed, always trying every possible trick in the book, which deeply annoys Judy. She doesn't understand why her husband, who is steady and proper during the day, becomes a different person at night. He claims that only in this way can he achieve "liberation," while Judy feels deeply repressed. Is this a perverted or psychological "compulsion"? In fact, Judy has been married for seven years, and her husband is 36 years old. For men of this age, sexual behavior can change. Whether they can still achieve orgasm or satisfaction during sex, whether the wife can still enjoy the pleasure of sex, and what positions are appropriate—these are the key points we should discuss.

Age is a significant factor in the quality of a couple's sex life. A 36-year-old man's erection time is faster than that of an 18-year-old. Men in their 30s are quite different. When a husband starts making love, he's on top. After achieving an erection, to maintain it, he might move to the bottom, perhaps a tacit understanding between the couple. If it lasts around 20 minutes, they might even face each other sideways, resulting in three different positions. Just these variations lead some women to imagine their husbands are being unrestrained or even neglectful. Therefore, what one person enjoys might be unbearable to the other. A husband's behavior during sex shouldn't be seen as abnormal; it's simply a lack of communication and an inability to share sexual pleasure. If only the husband enjoys it while the wife finds it boring, over time, this can lead to marital discord and even sexual dysfunction. However, on the other hand, some wives are overly conservative, hoping to only "experience a little bit of sex," which also becomes a major reason for the husband's burnout or lack of sexual interest after many years of marriage. Even with a strong marital bond, some "liberation" of ideas still has its limitations. It's necessary. Because as men age, their ability to control erections decreases. Changing positions or locations, but adhering to the principle of not changing the "person," should allow for discussion on everything. I read an article titled "Can a woman say, 'Let me be on top?'" In fact, during sex, "Please, can you be on top?" is a common sentiment among many men.

A Taiwanese study found that the "man on top" position puts a greater strain on a man's heart than the "woman on top" position. In the "man on top" position, a man's heart rate increases to 127 beats per minute, 17 beats per minute more than in the "woman on top" position. Regarding oxygen consumption, the average level before sexual activity is 3.7 to 4.5 liters per minute, while in the "man on top" position, oxygen consumption increases by up to 40%. Therefore, when a man wants the woman on top, it's sometimes a subtle indication that he's feeling tired. When a man reduces his physical exertion, he can achieve a longer erection during sex. The woman-on-top position is a basic sexual position, but it can be varied in different ways. In this position

, the woman's legs can be kneeling on either side of the man's body, and her body can be upright, leaning back, or lying prone in front of the man's chest, facing or facing away from him. Her upper arms can be placed in front of the man's shoulders or under his armpits, or used for support when leaning back. The man can be half-sitting, half-lying, or fully lying down, and so on. At the same time, the man can caress the woman's breasts or clitoris, or make slight pelvic upward movements to enhance sexual pleasure. Since the woman-on-top position can bring so much novelty, it's understandable that a man would say, "Please, can you sit on top?"

In short, how to communicate is always an issue in sex—with the body, with words, with eyes, or simply with guesswork—many things are negotiable. Unlike the busy world of the daytime, when night falls, the person around you also changes, becoming somewhat unrecognizable. In fact, in the world of sex, we often have to face our more authentic selves, which is not necessarily a bad thing.

TIPS to help your partner last longer:

When he orgasms before you, or when you're not satisfied with the duration of his erection, perhaps the following methods can help you enjoy more pleasure.

1. Try the "woman on top" position:

You take the lead, actively thrusting, bumping, and jolting, controlling the force, rhythm, and amplitude of the movement. Keep him as passive and inactive as possible. After half an hour or even an hour or more, when you are aroused, you can return to the missionary position, with him leading you both to orgasm.

2. Reduce penile sensitivity:

A more practical method is to use a higher-quality, thicker condom. Thicker condoms help reduce the sensitivity of the glans penis. Another way to reduce glans sensitivity is to use a special ointment. This ointment works by numbing the glans penis, thus allowing him to maintain an erection for longer. These ointments can be purchased at sex shops.

3. Regulate breathing to reduce sexual tension.

Tell him that before orgasm, he can try taking slow, deep breaths to mentally "shut down" excited emotions and reduce sexual tension. Repeating this briefly during intimacy can extend the usual 2-3 minutes of intercourse by 2-3 times.

4. Cool the scrotum with cold water.

Before intercourse, help him wet his scrotum with cold water (ice water is better) to induce a contraction response. Be careful not to wet the penis. During intercourse, you will notice a significant improvement in both his erection and duration. Additionally, pausing intercourse during sex and withdrawing the penis for 1-2 seconds to "cool down" will create more anticipation for both men and women.

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