My understanding and experience regarding sex techniques.

Yesterday I summarized my understanding and knowledge of sex and love. I also had in-depth exchanges with some friends in private. I learned and gained a lot. I felt that this kind of exchange was really comfortable. It was sexy but not lewd. It allowed both of us to face sex and get pleasure from the exchange.
Then I wanted to combine my previous practical experience (mainly from two girlfriends during my undergraduate and master's studies and several older sisters who were relatively fixed after I started working. Every time we had sex, it was very fulfilling and harmonious). I summarized the techniques and skills that I think are very useful and effective in the process of sex as follows

. I welcome everyone to exchange ideas and give criticism and corrections: [Foreplay - Guidance and Stress Relief] I think foreplay is the most important stage of sex. Everything is difficult at the beginning. If you have a perfect start, the process and the result will not be too bad.
(1) Foreplay can not only stimulate the senses of both parties after being caressed, but also allow them to understand each other more, build mutual trust, and relax more.
(2) Men should give more and invest more in foreplay because most women/wives are relatively reserved and less experienced than men/husbands at the beginning of sex. No woman/wife is purely for physical stimulation, so men need to give them enough care during foreplay. Try kissing, caressing and licking the woman's entire body. If you don't mind, you can kiss her soles and toes to let your woman know that you are willing to give and do a lot for her, so that she feels that you are equal to her. This is very important. Whether in family status or sex life, many women are in a position of being dominated and used. Over time, they will naturally choose to be passive and unwilling to cooperate. This requires men to guide her and create an atmosphere of equality and mutual love, so that your woman can enjoy this kind of spiritual pleasure. Only then will she be willing to release herself and do more for the man.
(3) Never ask your woman to give you oral sex right away, because most women do not like to give men oral sex right away unless they are forced to. So men should not be impatient. Sincerity for sincerity is not only about communication between you and strangers. Can you be sure that you and your lover/wife are sincere with each other when you make love? There is an old saying, "treat each other with the respect due to guests." I would like to borrow this saying: if you respect and care for a woman, she will respect and care for you in return. This is very important if you want to achieve true physical and mental pleasure and happiness in sex.
(4) When you kiss and caress every part of your woman's skin and lick her vulva, including her labia, clitoris, and inside her vagina, your woman will slowly let down her guard. Whether or not she will give you oral sex, at least she has received the pleasure of being treated equally and cared for by the man. In the following sex session, she will be more engaged and relaxed both physically and mentally.
(4) Having said so much, let me share my experience. I especially enjoy licking my woman during foreplay. That enjoyment comes with a sense of appreciation. It's a genuine desire to caress my woman as a treasure, a work of art, kissing every inch of her skin, from her earlobes and behind her ears, down her neck, breasts, back, thighs, calves, insteps, and soles. I gently stroke, kiss, or lick her skin, and I also kiss or put each of her toes in my mouth to savor them. Then I kiss her vulva, using my tongue to roll and hold her labia, turning them over with the tip of my tongue. After repeatedly licking and touching the clitoris with the tip of your tongue, try licking it in different directions, while pressing the clitoris firmly with the tip of your tongue. Your woman will tremble with pleasure. Then kiss her pubic area with your mouth. It is best to lick the pubic hair with your tongue. Then lick the pubic area with the tip of your tongue little by little. Use the tip of your tongue to explore and lick every soft part of the flesh you touch. At the same time, suck and taste the constantly flowing cum. This stage is very important and tests a man's oral skills and attentiveness. Some women will reach orgasm at this time. This is the first orgasm point. First, serve your woman well and make her comfortable so that she will be more willing to cooperate or take the initiative to serve you.
(5) After a man caresses and licks a woman in this way, after reaching a certain peak, your woman's mind and body will relax and be released. Her body will tremble from time to time, moan softly, and caress other parts of your body and your penis with her hands. Then she will kiss and lick you and lick your penis. Remember, men must put in the effort to please women. Women have a psychological threshold; your service and skill must bring her to a certain peak, a critical point, before she truly accepts your advances and can relax more fully for mutual caresses.

[Penetration—Soul and Flesh] After the emotional build-up and physical relaxation during foreplay, some men and women with excellent oral skills can bring their partners close to orgasm (not necessarily reaching it, but not impossible). Then, strike while the iron is hot. Choosing the right penetration position and sequence is very important, very important!
(1) The first type is for the woman to lie down. It is best to give your woman a pillow so that she can lie down comfortably. Kiss her, say a few sweet and playful words to her, and then use your hands to rub her breasts, lick the back of her ears and neck with your tongue, and then lick and suck her nipples. At the same time, you should lie down and use your penis to touch and tease your vagina. Because you have already produced a lot of fluid during the foreplay, it is easy to insert at this time. Use a regular nine shallow and one deep thrusting motion for a while, and then change positions. This is the key. The previous thrusting was just a prelude and guidance. The man should squat halfway, get into a horse stance, and make sure his lower body is stable. Hold your woman's waist with both hands from both sides and then insert. This should be inserted deeper. The most important thing is that the man can thrust without much effort, and the thrusting sensation of both men and women is very strong. You can clearly feel the little brother thrusting in and out of the little sister, while the little sister's embrace becomes very strong. At the same time, you can vigorously rub the big breasts with both hands and have a passionate French kiss with her. If your lower body is stable and strong, this position can last for more than ten minutes. The woman may go crazy with pleasure, and some may even reach orgasm. This is considered the second orgasm point. This is considered the horse stance thrusting method. For men, the more they thrust, the better the state of the little brother becomes, and the harder and thicker it gets. The embrace is very strong and very satisfying. For women, the thrusting is very deep and fast. It is a kind of open and wide experience. The contact with the little brother is very clear and strong.
(2) After the horse stance thrusting gets tired, the man can sit down directly and then help his woman up. Have her sit on your lap, keeping you penetrated. You can lick and kiss her frequently, including French kissing and sucking her breasts. Then, grab her buttocks with both hands and gently knead them. Lift her buttocks up and down forcefully, stroking your penis while simultaneously thrusting upwards with both your buttocks and penis until she trembles again. This position is particularly conducive to emotional connection during sex. Both are sitting on equal footing; you can massage her breasts and buttocks, and even try gently inserting your fingers into her anus. Because she's already quite wet, this can provide extra pleasure for both partners. However, face-to-face penetration for too long can cause ejaculation in the man; at this point, you can switch to another position.
(3) Stand up and get down to the ground. At the same time, pick up your woman and let her hang on you, with her hands clinging to you. Hold her waist or grab her buttocks and walk up and down while thrusting. Make sure to walk around in the bedroom first, so that your woman will receive more psychological stimulation due to the change in location and environment (not just on the bed), and her vagina will flow more. This position is quite tiring, so you can use it appropriately, but it is really amazing. If you are skilled, you can help your woman reach a third orgasm.
(4) Then return to the bedside, have your woman sit down, and lie down. Bring your woman to your lap, making sure she lies on top of you first, her breasts touching your chest and her vagina touching your penis. Then kiss her passionately and engage in French sex with her, while simultaneously thrusting your penis upwards to tease her vagina. Then wrap your arms around her back and hug her tightly, while simultaneously thrusting your penis in forcefully and pumping your hips wildly. This intense sense of possession will make the man unconsciously thrust harder, which is very pleasurable. The woman will want to scream during the thrusting. Remember not to give her a chance to scream and release her pent-up pleasure; you must seal her mouth with your lips. After the intense French kissing continues, her body will tremble with pleasure, and her large buttocks will keep responding to your thrusts, potentially reaching a fourth orgasm. Then release your hands and let the woman sit upright, as she is exhausted. You can then take advantage of the moment and use your hands to support her large buttocks as she sits on your penis, while slowly thrusting in and out. After the woman has rested, she will support you, her legs pushing firmly against the bed, her large buttocks moving up and down vigorously to thrust into your penis. The thrusting can be very forceful and deep. The man can push his buttocks and penis upwards forcefully, repeatedly hitting her G-spot, making her incredibly happy. The woman will also twist her waist back and forth and side to side to envelop your penis, which is extremely pleasurable. After this thrusting, you can have the woman turn around, facing away from you, while the man holds her large buttocks and thrusts up and down forcefully. It's easy to reach the climax, and the woman will tremble uncontrollably. Don't stop; continue this position for a while, and she can reach her fifth orgasm.
(5) When your woman reaches or does not reach the fifth orgasm, she will be penetrated to the point of pleasure by the above position. Then, immediately strike while the iron is hot. The man stands up, squats in a horse stance, and penetrates from behind, facing the woman's big buttocks. The woman is still lying face down on the bed with her hands. Don't forget to grab and rub her big breasts at the same time, so that she knows that you are connected to her not only by her sister and brother, but also by her big breasts. This will make her feel at ease. After thrusting like this for a while, you can pull her body towards you, grab and rub her breasts, and make her turn around and kiss you. Continue to grab her big buttocks and thrust hard. She will be driven crazy by you again.
(6) After you are tired of the previous position, release your woman. Your woman will be tired and lie on the bed again. This time, you can put a pillow under her waist and raise her buttocks slightly. Your woman will be more comfortable and will not be too tired. Then, still half-squatting, insert from behind. This feels amazing; the vagina is very fleshy and feels very enveloping. After thrusting for a while, you can lie directly on top of your woman. Remember to be gentle and don't hurt her. Then, hold her breasts or shoulders from the front with both hands, while the man thrusts hard with his buttocks and penis. It feels great for both of you. In this final stage, use your tongue to lick her ears, neck, and back, and make her turn her head. Then, kiss her passionately. At this point, don't control whether you ejaculate or not. Just enjoy this most exciting moment of orgasm. Thrust wildly and forcefully, grab her shoulders and pull her onto you. She will tremble uncontrollably from being fucked. Finally, both of you ejaculate and reach orgasm together. This is the sixth orgasm point for a woman.
(7) You will be very tired after ejaculation. Don't rush to get up. Kiss your woman, kiss her neck and back, and then have her turn around and kiss you together. Your penis will still be hard enough to stay inside her for a while. After resting for a while, the man should turn around and lie down first, then gently pull the woman into his arms and hold her close. Cover her with a blanket to prevent her from catching a cold. Then kiss her, ask her how she felt, what she liked during the process, and what aspects she could improve. Encourage her and tell her what she could do better. This will make for a more perfect sexual experience.

[In conclusion] Sex is about the mutual satisfaction of mind and body. It is about the feelings of equality, mutual complementarity, mutual cultivation, mutual love and progress between men and women. Ignoring any aspect of the process will leave regrets for either party.
Before sex, you should respect and cherish your woman. Your sincerity can earn her true feelings. First of all, you must have the right attitude. A woman is not a man's plaything or toy, nor is she inferior to him and can be controlled at will. Even so, she can still obtain both psychological and physical satisfaction. At this point, some brothers might argue: "Some women are just promiscuous, wanton, and cheap; they can be slept with and played with at will, and they like it and seek that kind of thrill." I want to suggest that brothers holding these views reflect on whether their mindset and psychology are flawed. Do they believe all women are like that? Do you want your mother, your wife, your daughter to be like that? You need to correct your values. Don't assume all women are promiscuous and wanton.
I appreciate and respect the unique charm and maternal instincts of women. I firmly oppose those with distorted minds and warped values who use sex as a way to trample on women's dignity, charm, and maternal instincts to obtain perverse pleasure. Only
when men and women respect each other during sex can they have deep communication and truly experience the highest satisfaction of body and soul. Some people, in order to obtain this satisfaction in a distorted way, twist their minds and use extreme methods such as wax dripping and needle pricks to pursue this false stimulation. Think about it, is such behavior worthy of praise? Why are so many sexual behaviors abroad not only open but also perverse? Because they don't understand true sex, they don't understand the cultural refinement of China's ancestors over thousands of years, and they don't understand the correct and reasonable sexual culture of the Chinese people.

Finally, I wish everyone can cherish each other, treat each other equally and with respect, pay attention to interaction and communication during sex, and use their heart and mind to achieve the greatest satisfaction of both body and soul, achieving harmony of yin and yang, and making both men and women's bodies and minds better and better!

Welcome to criticize and discuss; thank you.

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