A few points to note for couples in the industry (or for singles):

How did my husband and I get into this circle? We have three people to thank: my wife's best friend F, and a couple, Brother Liu and Sister-in-law Liu. Brother Liu and Sister-in-law Liu introduced us to this circle and helped us avoid many pitfalls compared to others, such as whether to use acquaintances or not, and whether to use condoms. Many friends in this circle want to join but are afraid to, unsure of where to start or what the key points are. After all, every couple is unique. I remember one chat friend whose wife agreed to meet him, and they went to a hotel separately. He was worried his wife wouldn't be able to get an erection. He said the half-hour session felt like an eternity. When it was over, his wife wanted to go home, but when she asked him what happened, she wouldn't answer. She said he wasn't being honest, that he had done it and wouldn't admit it. They couldn't continue their conversation. And that was the end of it. So, friends who are considering joining this circle, are you really ready? Not just you, but your spouse too! Do you both understand each other's thoughts and needs? My wife was initially very skeptical of my feelings for her, and it was only after I poured my heart out that she believed me, thanks in no small part to her best friend's advice. I'm very grateful to her! Now, after sex, my wife tells me about the actions and even the details of her feelings. Some friends ask why? Because my wife understands that I want to know; if she doesn't, I'll be jealous, but if she does, she'll feel excited, thrilled, and joyful. Returning to the earlier point, after both partners have communicated well, how to begin varies, and you can consult someone in the industry. I'll talk about how we started later. Next is crucial. Important points to note: 1. Don't meet acquaintances; 2. Don't meet someone in the same city; 3. Don't take photos; 4. Don't cheat; 5. Don't accept money; 6. Don't do it too frequently; Condoms must be used; safety must be ensured! These are advice from friends and lessons learned from our own experience! The reason for not meeting acquaintances is simple: starting is easy, but ending is not! I won't go into details, but let me explain why we didn't date someone from the same city. We met a guy (W1) from a nearby city. One weekend, my wife stayed overnight. The next morning, she was wearing her pajamas (provided by the bride) and had breakfast with the groom. His parents just walked right in. Although they didn't say anything, my wife felt incredibly embarrassed when she got home! But that wasn't the end of it. At my wife's relative's wedding, we actually ran into his parents! My wife blushed immediately, and I still remember the look in his mother's eyes when we greeted them. The worst part was that they even invited us to hang out sometime! I was puzzled by my wife's expression at the time, but after they left, I realized they were (W1's) parents. That feeling is still vivid in my memory. W1's father is the bride's mother's cousin. And my wife and the groom are cousins. Luckily, they don't have much contact. If they were from the same city, or if the other party had a big mouth, it would have been deeply hurtful! So, besides the reason for not dating someone from the same city, there's also the final point: maintaining confidentiality and security! No photos! Why are there so many couples exchanging videos and photos online? There are reasons for leaks, but more often it's because someone took photos and posted them online. Perhaps it's for showing off or something else, but regardless, if someone close to us sees it online, it's a kind of avoidable harm for many in our circle. Of course, we can't rule out the possibility that cameras were installed at the location. Therefore, we mostly exchange partners in apartments, not going to each other's homes or inviting each other over (my wife specifically requires that even if we bring someone we know home, it's only for overnight stays; neither of us is allowed to be intimate with anyone else at home). It's safer and more reliable than hotels. Occasionally, we meet alone, with the couple sharing a room and the other sharing a room. If the other person can afford it, they both pay; otherwise, they each pay their own way. Of course, sometimes we pay, but we'll talk about that another time. Not cheating means neither of us is allowed to meet alone in private. We always communicate with each other beforehand; it's a sign of respect and a way to strengthen our marital relationship. Of course, for those with a penchant for sex, it's also a kind of enjoyment! It's easier to understand not accepting money, but gifts are acceptable. I remember a couple (from Shanghai) introduced a single man to my wife. He arranged a one-night stand with her and later secretly transferred 5,000 yuan to me. I was very unhappy about it. After I refused the money, I blocked him. Later, he contacted us through the couple to apologize, saying he was just passing through our city and contacted us impulsively. He said he felt bad for not having prepared a gift and had no other intentions. He also prepared gifts for both of us during his apology. Only then did I forgive him. It's not that I'm being dramatic, but every couple's purpose for a date or a one-night stand is different. My wife has said that people who don't respect my husband don't respect us as a couple. I'm not a prostitute, and my husband isn't a pimp. Otherwise, why would we provide food and lodging for people who aren't particularly well-off? However, it's important not to have too frequent contact after the exchange, otherwise, uncontrollable problems can easily arise. Especially for newcomers, be careful, as feelings can develop over time! My wife herself said that if I hadn't kept a close eye on things, she might have been in trouble when she met someone with X, and both of us might have been in trouble. Finally, let's talk about condoms. To put it in a self-deceptive way, I've told my wife that although men are different, they all use condoms for intimate contact; different men are just different tools to make you happy! Of course, that's a joke. Women always have moments of extreme pleasure, and going condomless is naturally acceptable. But I've always been concerned, not just about safety, but also because I feel like using a condom gives me peace of mind. After the first man other than me had unprotected sex with my wife, on Liu's advice, we went for a checkup. My wife had trichomoniasis, but I didn't. Those in the know understand that this disease usually affects both partners simultaneously. My wife didn't believe it, and after a week of unprotected sex, I also got infected. Only then did my wife start using condoms every time. Of course, there are also lucky ones who can have sex without a condom a few times. As for other precautions, feel free to discuss them with friends in the community.

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