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Every day, I see posts on various couples' forums asking, "What should I do if my wife doesn't agree to online dating?" or "How should I explain this to my wife?" As a single man, since 2011, I've been involved with various couples 3-5 times a year, encountering all sorts of couples. Most of them were initially in agreement, some had tried it multiple times before, and a small number initially disagreed. However, through the joint efforts of myself and the wife's husband, we eventually succeeded in having sex with all three. Of course, there are also failed cases, which are not discussed here.
This article discusses in detail how husbands can "train" their wives in online dating, the roles of each partner (husband and wife) in online dating, various methods, physical examinations, safety, and precautions. It provides theoretical guidance for couples and single men who enjoy online dating:

Part 1: Training

- Playing Hard to Get. Online dating with three people is a strange thing, and most women will find it perverted at first. Some cuckolded husbands, eager to find partners, constantly bring it up in front of their wives, which only makes them more resentful. Of course, some have succeeded using this method. However, everything varies from person to person. If this approach doesn't work, you should stop immediately. You can pause first and then try other methods, such as intentionally or unintentionally revealing your phone or computer chat history while chatting with other single couples, or deliberately exposing certain websites or URLs to her to entice her to look. Even if she is very virtuous and chaste, over time, she will gradually give up her resistance.
Second, influence her through exposure. This goes a step further than the first. When you are alone with your husband, you can watch videos or articles about dating on 91 forums or other websites in front of her, gradually assimilating her and making her feel a sense of identification. You can also download some pornographic apps to watch couples dating and outdoor sex videos, which are quite effective.
Third, brainwash her with the help of others. After seeing other people's dating stories and pictures, although your wife may waver, she will definitely think, "This must be fake. They must be seeing prostitutes." Or she will say, "This is something only people in big cities or a small minority do. It has nothing to do with me." At this point, you can find some experienced couples or single men from nearby cities to share their experiences. Let them talk to your wife and make her understand that this is commonplace, and she might even know someone who has done it before. This kind of education also helps your wife understand that this won't hurt her; it will only bring her pleasure and satisfaction.
At this stage, your wife may have largely accepted it psychologically, but she might still be a little scared. She might be afraid of being found out and losing face, afraid of contracting a sexually transmitted disease, or afraid that her husband will despise her later. Some husbands may also have concerns about this. To alleviate your wife's concerns, for the first time, you can choose a city that is relatively far away, where no one knows you. Also, remind the single man not to take photos or videos (I have never taken photos during my own experiences) and not to ask for her name, occupation, or other personal information. Regarding hygiene, you can remind the single man to get a medical check-up. As for your wife's fear that her husband will despise her and that she won't be able to go back to being a "good girl," this is something the husband needs to address. He can make promises and oaths, or have a wife who has experience with this kind of thing talk to her.
V. Practical Action. After the "brainwashing" is complete, the wife will generally agree to go. However, she will still have some concerns. First, you need to find a single man she likes. The two of you should contact each other online and chat for a while to help dispel her concerns and successfully move towards intimacy. In this step, the choice of single man is crucial. If he is too impulsive and inexperienced, he may offend his wife during the chat, ruining all the hard-won progress.
VI. Husband's Cooperation. Before the wife is about to take action, the husband should actively cooperate and not back down. He should actively encourage and support her while she chats with the single man. At the same time, he can actively reduce the frequency of sexual intercourse, or even abstain from sex altogether, making her desire irresistible. This will facilitate the actual action and prevent her from regretting it halfway.
Of course, every couple's situation is different. Some wives are very chaste and cannot be successfully "trained" in just a few days. For some, it may take six months to several years. During this period, you can occasionally "train" her, gradually and patiently, without rushing things. In this way, you can basically succeed in the end.
In addition, there are some alternative methods, such as having a single man pretend to be a friend or classmate to persuade the wife, or going out to find women to please the wife, or letting her have an affair first, a one-on-one meeting, and finally leading to a romantic relationship. However, these methods should be used in moderation to avoid damaging the marital relationship.
I do not recommend extreme methods such as getting someone drunk or drugging and raping the wife; these can lead to divorce and children, or even worse, getting oneself into trouble, which is not worth it.

II. Roles

Many couples enjoy making friends these days, and many college students and unmarried couples are also addicted to this kind of fun game. As a single man, I have been interacting with various couples for nearly ten years since I was 20 years old, from the earliest Green Hat Forum, Happy Village, Happy Home, Butterfly Club to the current 91. I have found that many husbands are not clear about their purpose in these activities, nor do they know what role they should play, which often leads to failure in making friends. According to my summary, husbands generally play the following roles:
1. Matchmaker, marriage broker. Some husbands complain that after adding each single man as a contact, they have to introduce their wives' appearance, age, height, weight, and other information, while also asking for their personal information. They find this tedious and feel like they're playing the role of matchmaker, introducing their wives to other men, and they don't experience any pleasure themselves.
Second, there are voyeurs. Some men with cuckoldry tendencies enjoy watching their wives being intimate with other men, even encouraging them to have one-night stands with other men, taking photos and videos to show them. They feel it's like watching porn, but of course, seeing their spouse on camera provides far more pleasure.
Third, there are pimps. Some husbands use the guise of making friends to force single men to buy gifts, send red envelopes (cash gifts), collect various deposits, and even encourage their wives to prostitute themselves. They use their wives to make money, then block the other men once they've achieved their goal. These people are the most despicable. Single men are advised to block these husbands immediately. As for husbands, if they feel their wives are being taken advantage of, they should stop and focus on their own lives. If you want to make money off her, just have her work as a prostitute; there's no need for her to befriend you.

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