The main reason for the two men and one woman

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I) The Combination of Male "Voiceover" and "Conquest Desire".

Subconsciously, everyone harbors a desire to voyeurize. Accidentally witnessing a couple making love across the street, or overhearing moaning from next door, can evoke intense excitement and pleasure. Of course, this is from a male perspective; women likely experience the same. Making love takes this voyeuristic expression to its extreme. Watching another stranger bring pleasure to their partner, with the woman's moans or (distorted) facial expressions, can provide the man with intense visual pleasure. For this other stranger, the form in which their "voyeuristic desire" is satisfied is entirely different from that of the husband in the couple. They experience a genuine sexual relationship with a respectable stranger, a purely sexual relationship devoid of any ulterior motives. Generally speaking, the husband in the couple experiences the strongest satisfaction of his "voyeuristic desire," and he is often the initiator of this encounter.

The "desire to conquer" is not hard to understand. Men are born with a desire to conquer. Those with lofty ideals conquer territory and power, while those with humble ideals conquer the women around them. Making a woman achieve pleasure under his body is a source of pride for a man. This explains why men tend to boast about their sexual encounters and why there's the saying, "Women only ever let their partners know 80% of you." Giving a man endless mystery keeps him forever a child who hasn't been weaned. As an aside, some men prefer "anal sex," also known online as "backdoor sex." This is simply a different, realistic expression of a man's subconscious desire to conquer women in every way.
(II) Two men are more likely to bring pleasure to a woman.

A man has limited resources—limited hands, limited oral sex, limited time (O(∩_∩)0). Admittedly, these constraints don't prevent a couple from achieving harmonious sexual pleasure, but this kind of pleasure isn't the most pleasurable. When a man kisses a woman's upper body, he doesn't have a second tongue to stimulate her sensitive areas; when he holds her and caresses her back, he can't simultaneously reach other erogenous zones. Therefore, in terms of sexual pleasure, what a man can do and what a woman can accept are disproportionate. Furthermore, and importantly, a man's time is always shorter than a woman's; men have a refractory period while women don't. Of course, this design is intended to prevent humanity from spending all its time on sexual activity; perhaps it is precisely because of this design that our society has progressed so rapidly.

Some might say, wouldn't three men or even one man be better? The answer is definitely no. Involving a stranger in the relationship is within the husband's (or boyfriend's) control, and the woman's familiarity with both men is roughly equal. This mix of familiarity and unfamiliarity creates an optimal sense of mystery for the woman. If the number of strangers increases, the woman will first feel uncomfortable, and may even feel manipulated. Moreover, such a multi-person arrangement is not easy to execute and carries greater risks. In short, the chances of finding a suitable third party will be greatly reduced.
(III) The woman's level of acceptance .

No matter how open or uninhibited a woman is, she still has a sense of reserve and conservatism. Even with her partner, she still hopes that he can give her 100%. This is interesting. In the case of two men and one woman, the woman receives 100% commitment from her spouse and 100% unknown contribution from another stranger. The situation with two women and one man is different. Personally, I think a man's approach to two women is purely psychological pleasure. Unless he takes Viagra or has multiple orgasms, it's impossible to satisfy two women simultaneously. Furthermore, sharing a husband with another woman can lead to some jealousy. And in a two-woman-one-man scenario, perhaps influenced by pornography, lesbian-like practices might emerge, such as mutual touching between the two women. In such cases, the man's psychological pleasure is more the driving force, and the woman may not be able to accept it emotionally, except for those using drugs or excessively high levels.
The emergence of dating isn't directly related to monogamy, but it is related to aesthetic fatigue and the endless pursuit of pleasure. (There seems to be a dating scene in *Jin Ping Mei*, but I don't remember exactly.)

A married couple consulted a doctor about marital dissatisfaction (mainly the husband's) or male impotence, and the doctor suggested they try dating with a "wife" or other forms of dating. I saw the suggestion about dating with a wife in a movie—I forget the name—but it seems it didn't work out in the end. I saw the suggestion about dating in a private forum.

This extreme approach could potentially raise a man's libido to an excessively high level, causing him to become aroused. However, whether it will lead to side effects such as addiction, I don't know.

Furthermore, many couples who engage in this kind of dating are very loving. I saw a post on a couples' dating website seeking a single man, where the couple sincerely explained their thoughts. Those who constantly talk about "having sex" and "going to bed" and take pride in "going to a respectable woman" generally don't get a response. They have a conflict in their hearts; on the one hand, they want to find a single man to participate, and on the other hand, they don't want to be taken advantage of by low-quality scoundrels with ulterior motives. Moreover, these couples are generally "three-high" individuals: high income, high education, and high standards. Of course, "three-high" is just a general term, a concept imported from the West, which I will elaborate on later.

Therefore, some dating can improve a couple's sex life. You can call it regulation, or you can call it being bored or having too much sex—food and sex are natural. For those people, I personally think it's understandable, after all, they are not forcing anyone.

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