A Brief Discussion of 3 Years of Experience in the Industry – Avoiding Pitfalls

Hello everyone, long time no see! I, Lao Xu, am back. You might not remember who I am, but I'm the Lao Xu who previously shared a bunch of techniques for online dating and meeting girls.
First, please allow me to express my feelings. If you've seen my previous posts on online dating and meeting girls, you'll know that such a method exists. If not, there's no need to look again. I have some new thoughts and insights that I'll share with you later. This year's pandemic has changed everything a lot. I arranged to meet several couples, but the connections weren't made possible due to the pandemic. Over time, our contact has faded, and I rarely visit this website anymore. My location has also changed from Xiamen to Shenzhen (couples who are interested can try to connect). Ah, I must say, this is truly a city for making money. Not only is the pace fast, but the interpersonal relationships are also indifferent. It feels like there's not much interaction beyond mutual benefit. I
might be a bit long-winded after not speaking for a while, but let's get back to the main topic. This time, I'll mainly talk about my views on this industry.
Today is the first installment: Avoiding Pitfalls.
Many people read my writing simply because they're looking for something they need—you know what I mean, so I won't elaborate. After a year, I've grown a bit, and you can sense it from my writing. I've matured, haha. This is primarily a forum for couples, and this post is meant to help newcomers avoid pitfalls, sharing my own experiences to make things smoother.
First, there are all sorts of groups in this circle: Telegram groups, potato groups, WeChat groups, and many forums. The famous 91 and Caoliu are strongholds for many low-level guys (don't be offended, just kidding). I've been in this circle for several years, starting with 91 and Caoliu, and finally discovering this place. I've also made many mistakes, spending a lot of money along the way. Of course, there are many stories to tell, which I'll write about gradually when I have time. If you're interested, please leave a comment. Currently, the mainstream invitation platforms are Twitter and posts in the 91 premium section. Ours is a niche platform, and our invitations have a clear characteristic: they involve taking event photos and a minimum fee. First, let's talk about what a "threshold fee" is. It's when you add someone on WeChat and have to pay 100-200 yuan to even have them contact you. Personally, I feel 90% of these are fake (personal opinion). I haven't encountered any on 69 (a Chinese social networking site) that asks for a threshold fee. Although the threshold fee is supposedly to exclude "loser" men, requiring single men who add you on QQ or WeChat to send red envelopes to prove they're not "losers," this behavior is truly baffling. I think the definition of a "loser" man is primarily based on poor character, not on whether he has money. But think about it: posting on these places will get you at least a couple hundred people adding you. Over time, hundreds more will be willing to pay, easily earning you over 10,000 yuan. I saw many people making money this way last year. Couples, please don't follow this method; it's not a good way to make money.
So, single men, calm down and don't let temptation cloud your judgment. While some couples may genuinely be serious about the "entry fee," it's really unnecessary. You can't judge a person's character based on just one or two red envelopes. If you want to prove financial strength, ask for proof of assets. Personally, I think it takes at least two weeks of communication to discern a person's character through their words and actions. You could even try meeting up for meals and chats a few times. If it works out, great; if not, don't. Don't immediately ask for red envelopes. Does sending a red envelope prove high character?
And many so-called "couples" or "partners" are always talking about travel plans or "anytime, anywhere." Let me tell you, they're in this business. Think rationally: don't you have a job every day? If you run a business, don't you have to manage it? Where does your income come from if you have so much free time? Does it all come from your "wife"? Or are they all rich kids benefiting single men? Couples who genuinely enjoy this kind of thing wouldn't have that much free time. They have many concerns, let alone sending their wives directly to single men, letting them take photos, and using various suggestive photos. I don't know about others, but at least the times Lao Xu arranged these meetings, he didn't take photos. Why leave any evidence? So, what's the point of a normal person doing this? (I'm not saying there's no point, I'm not making sweeping statements). Who can guarantee that the photos the single man takes won't be sent to others? Does he have no regard for his wife's privacy at all? So, I advise all my friends that if you really want to be favored by excellent couples, start now to manage your physique and improve your external image, read more books and learn more to improve your inner cultivation. Cultivate both your inner and outer qualities and become excellent so you can find a hookup anywhere.
So, single men reading this, stay calm in the face of temptation. If you can't stay calm, read Lao Xu's article to cool down. Thank you!

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