How can a single man do better in a 3P?

Every day I see couples looking for single men, all shouting about needing "high-quality" single men. Single men looking for couples all claim to be "high-quality" single men, but what exactly does "high-quality" mean? Do you even have a standard in mind? Do you even know what kind of single man qualifies as "high-quality"? Those who call themselves "high-quality"

single men, do you know what you're trying to achieve? My wife and I have also looked for single men, and I'd like to share my thoughts so we can discuss them!

First, we need to clarify our purpose in looking for a single man. As a husband, my purpose was to let my wife experience that exciting atmosphere, to try different pleasures from different men, and I also wanted to experience that thrilling feeling myself.

Those of you considering becoming single men, take note: couples looking for single men aren't doing it because the men are inadequate or can't satisfy their wives. You need to have the right mindset. More importantly, couples who choose to date single men must have an exceptionally strong relationship. The husband must deeply love and cherish his wife to even consider letting her experience different men. Their relationship must be so close that they can talk about anything. If you, as a single man, were to secretly arrange to meet someone's wife, it would be extremely offensive to her, as it would be seen as betrayal. If you approach the man and he agrees, that's a different story. As a

single man, you must understand why someone would choose you. What advantages do you have? Are you handsome? Tall? Large penis? Proficient? Top-notch technique? Good stamina and endurance? Whether your penis is large or not is something no one knows until you've actually tried it. Talk is cheap, and I believe most people wouldn't believe that's enough to choose you. Besides the size of your penis, what other advantages do you have? Looks and physique are crucial; they're the foundation of whether someone will choose you. Secondly, conversation is important. A conversation can reveal a person's sincerity. Shared interests are essential for a chance. Penis size is just one small aspect. To all you single men out there, let me tell you, it's not that others won't give you a chance, it's that you haven't done enough. Don't blame people for deleting you after a few messages; it's because they didn't like what you said. If you sent photos and they didn't reply, don't bother asking; just block them yourself. Most of the time, it's because they weren't interested but were too embarrassed to reject you outright.

Many couples looking for single men look for handsome, tall, well-endowed, and long-lasting men. Are these really the key points? Right, first impressions are important. After seeing a photo, you need to have an initial impression, at least something acceptable, to have a chance to continue chatting. I feel that looking for a single man isn't about how handsome or tall he is; those aren't important. The important thing is whether he can give your wife a pleasant sexual experience. Women need to be coaxed. Single men have high expectations for their eloquence. If they can't speak well, take forever to say something, are nervous, or have poor psychological resilience, they can be rejected immediately.

Many couples, especially husbands, don't know how to start. It's actually very simple: if you want your wife to give you a clear answer, "I want to find a man to sleep with me," that's almost impossible. They might agree in bed, but then deny it afterward—that's a woman's prerogative. As a husband, you need to take the initiative. My advice is to bring it up frequently and decide which method to use based on your wife's personality and temperament. One approach is to have the single man chat with your wife to get to know her. Another is to find a single man based on your wife's preferences, arrange an opportunity for both of you to meet at a karaoke bar in a small private room. The singing itself isn't important; the key is the environment. Chat, drink, play some games, and once your wife is a little tipsy, you can start to get physical, touching and kissing her, and then have the single man join in, complimenting your wife's beauty and skin, and casually touching her a little. If your wife doesn't strongly object, it's done. It's really that simple.

As a single man, a high-quality single man, if it were me, I would first understand the other woman's preferences and then tailor my approach accordingly. Before I was involved in this, when I asked girls out—what we now call hookups—I would chat for a few days, meet them, and win them over after one or two meetings. It's simple: say what she likes to hear, and prepare what she likes. The same applies to single men. The key is to make the other woman's wife happy. Say whatever she likes to hear. Saying nice things doesn't cost anything, and a few words can make a woman happy. When she's in a good mood, other problems don't matter. To be a good single man, you need some financial stability. If you don't want to spend money but want to sleep with someone's wife, expecting them to shower her with affection, who do you think you are? I hate it when people say, "What's your wife doing? Sleeping?" Can't I just go over and have sex with her? Seriously? Can't I do it myself? Do you need to do it for me? And those guys who immediately ask for photos and then hesitate to send them—I think if the photos aren't suitable, nothing else matters. Talking too much just wastes everyone's time.

It's perfectly acceptable for a single man to give his partner gifts—flowers, lingerie, cosmetics, etc. Practicality shows thoughtfulness; the value isn't important, the thought is what counts. Whether it's inviting her to dinner, karaoke, or a hotel room, the most important thing is to consider the other woman's wife's feelings. Say nice things, make the other woman's wife happy, and proactively pay the bill to increase her impression. If the husband agrees, you must take the initiative. Do you expect her to bring it up herself? Do you expect her husband to strip her naked and offer her to you? Actively engaging in conversation and finding topics to quickly break the awkwardness of initial acquaintance is key. If you've already successfully booked a room, don't be impatient. Take it slow and let the other woman experience your skills quietly. Oral sex is essential; slowly lick her entire body, starting from her neck, back, buttocks, and thighs. Let go of all distractions and do sufficient foreplay before starting. Excitement, tension, and a quick ejaculation the first time are normal. Let the husband finish, rest, and then continue. What's the point of having someone who goes straight to sex and ejaculates in minutes?

I've said quite a bit already; I'll add more later if I think of anything else. In summary, for couples seeking single men, the key is to make the wife happy, prioritize her feelings, and let her experience a different kind of excitement. A successful and perfect first time will make future encounters much easier. Don't overthink it. What's with all the "tall, rich, and handsome" and "gentle, considerate" types? You're not looking for a husband for your wife, so why are your standards so high? Nobody's perfect. There's no way a single man will perfectly meet your requirements. If you're hesitant and keep thinking there isn't a suitable single man, you should reflect on whether your standards are too high and you're overthinking things. Looking for someone with a big, impressive penis—aren't you afraid your wife will find your size uncomfortable after trying many? Don't overthink it. Men should be proactive and take action! If you're waiting for your wife to ask, keep waiting! Women are often saying one thing but meaning another; if she does ask, she might be afraid you're overthinking it! Invite someone, have a few drinks, give her a way out, give her a chance and an excuse to be promiscuous!

For couples looking for single men, be very careful with those young, sexually frustrated men who are just looking to take advantage. What you want to give your wife a good time might just be a topic of conversation for him. Maybe his friends will know about it tomorrow. I think married men with normal family lives are more reliable. You decide for yourselves!

Single men looking for couples, hoping to get something for nothing and a free ride—forget it, this isn't for you. A truly high-quality single man should prioritize making his partner's wife comfortable and happy, with his own pleasure as an afterthought. That's the mindset needed to be a good single man.

Finally, I wish those who haven't tried it yet will start soon, I wish everyone finds the right person, and I wish everyone a happy sex life.

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