Sex and friendship can actually coexist.

"Sexual friendship" exists between friends and lovers, satisfying the body without involving the soul, enjoying pleasure, and avoiding trouble. Men and women begin as friends, then develop a sexual relationship, or become friends because of sex.

This is the currently popular and constructive fourth type of relationship between men and women, existing outside of "pure" friendship and complex love. The sexual needs of men and women are physiological phenomena; friendship leads to sex, and sex strengthens friendship—it's that simple. There's no right or wrong; it's simply about enjoying the fusion of friendship and sex. Most

sexual encounters between adult men and women are consensual. Those who don't love each other might want to sleep together to satisfy their most primal physiological needs; those who love each other want to sleep together even more because the union of body and soul brings a blissful climax. Even for couples who truly love each other, their mindset before and after sex is completely different. Before sex, the woman is the "general" and the man is the "slave." After sex, the woman becomes the "slave" and the man becomes the "general," or vice versa. Men are

excited before sex and languid afterward; this is the norm for males. Women, however, experience extreme excitement after giving themselves in, believing the man is now theirs, and begin to control and cling to him relentlessly. The result is that they completely lose the confidence they had before sex and become "that man's." Love

doesn't need to be expressed through the body; sex is merely a matter of who's on top and who's off. If you're after love and happiness, and can't control yourself after sleeping with someone, then you need to be discerning beforehand. Don't force yourself to become a bitter, resentful woman or a miserable man. And when you get out of bed, be elegant; don't let it become a bitter feud with the person you've slept with.

"Since you're free anyway," in days without love, instead of withering away, look forward to the next bloom in happiness. More importantly, there's no risk of being taken advantage of, and no need to worry about being clingy. This kind of "sexual friendship" transcends simple friendship, yet it's not as dramatic as love. You care for each other when needed, while maintaining your own space. It's just about sleeping together; it doesn't mean that one night of passion should lead to marriage or the responsibilities of love.

For a man and woman to maintain this kind of "sexual friendship," it must be based on mutual attraction. To become lovers or in a marriage is always somewhat unsatisfactory, or simply impossible. But because they like each other, in the right place and at the right time, the spark of sex ignites. After the initial spark, the relationship returned to a calm friendship. When one party felt lonely, they would invite the other out to bars, chat, play, and even have sex. This cycle repeated itself, with infrequent meetings but a lingering, subtle longing; not fixed, only occasional passion.

They were friends, then had sex, but remained friends. Or perhaps they had sex, became friends, but only stayed at that stage. This is "sexual friendship." This is also my understanding of "love between men and women, not friendship."

"Sexual friendship" is like a close female friend or a male friend between friends; it exists between friends and lovers. In today's interconnected world, frequent online friendships between men and women are fertile ground for "sexual friendships." It satisfies the body without involving the soul. Developing this kind of "sexual friendship" between men and women provides pleasure while avoiding trouble.

I think that perhaps in the near future, "sexual friendship" will become a fashion or a term, replacing the roles of lovers and mistresses. They were friends, then had sex, but remained friends. Or perhaps they had sex, became friends, but only stayed at that stage. This is our "sexual friendship." If one day, the moonlight is perfect, his eyes are dreamy, and your heart is fluttering, then, with the spring breeze rustling outside the window…

Sex and love are often intertwined yet independent. The body is physiology, love is sociology; laws clash, principles clash. Sometimes, sex is more realistic than love.

In the city, a kind of emotion circulates where love is far from enough, but what is desired is more than a kiss. Satisfying the body without involving the soul. Between men and women, this kind of "sexual friendship" exists, enjoying pleasure while avoiding trouble. Regardless of your opinion, it is quietly gaining popularity.

Could sexual friendship become a more constructive third type of relationship between men and women, existing beyond pure friendship and passionate love?

"In days without love, rather than withering away, it's better to find some happiness for yourself."

"The reason for sex isn't necessarily for love; in the face of true love, I'm always the purest lamb."

However, "Adding sex to friendship isn't like adding sugar to coffee; it's like adding lactic acid bacteria to milk—completely changing the flavor, turning it into yogurt, a bit strange-tasting but nutritious and easily absorbed." Don't you think so?

But while enjoying the pleasures of sexual friendship, never neglect knowledge and prevention of reproductive health and sexually transmitted diseases!

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