Can love, friendship, and sex really be distinguished?

"Sexual friendship" exists between friends and lovers, satisfying the body without involving the soul, enjoying pleasure, and avoiding trouble. Men and women begin as friends, then develop "sex," or become friends because of "sex."

This is the currently popular and constructive fourth type of relationship between men and women, existing outside of "pure" friendship and complex love. The sexual needs of men and women are physiological phenomena; friendship facilitates sex, and sex strengthens friendship—it's that simple. There's no right or wrong; it's simply enjoying the fusion of friendship and sex.

Most sexual encounters between adult men and women are consensual. Those who don't love each other might want to sleep together to satisfy their most primal physiological needs; those who love each other want to sleep together even more because of the blissful climax of spiritual and physical union. Even for truly loving couples, their mindset before and after sex is completely different. Before sex, the woman is the "general," and the man is the "slave." After sleeping together, the woman becomes the "slave" and the man becomes the "general," or vice versa. Before sex, the man is the "general" and the woman is the "slave," but after sex, the man becomes the "slave" and the woman becomes the "general."

Men are excited before sex and languid afterward—this is the norm for males. Women, however, experience extreme excitement after giving themselves in, believing the man is now theirs, and begin to control everything, clinging and fighting relentlessly. The result is that they completely lose the confidence they had before sex, becoming "that man's."

Love doesn't need to be expressed through the body; sleeping together is simply a matter of who's on top and who's off. If you want love and happiness, and can't control yourself after sex, then you need to recognize the "quality" before going to bed. Don't wrong yourself and become a resentful woman or a miserable man prematurely. And when you get out of bed, please be elegant; don't let it become a life-or-death struggle with the person you've slept with.

"Since we're idle anyway," in days without love, it's better to wither away and look forward to the next bloom in happiness than to wither away. More importantly, there's no risk of being taken advantage of, no need to worry about being clingy. This kind of "sexual friendship" transcends simple friendship, yet lacks the fanfare of romantic love. There's mutual care when needed, while respecting each other's personal space. It's just about sex; it doesn't mean that a one-night stand should lead to marriage or the responsibilities of love.

For a man and woman to maintain this kind of "sexual friendship," it must be based on mutual attraction. To turn it into a romantic relationship or marriage would always feel somewhat unsatisfactory, or perhaps even fundamentally flawed. It seemed impossible from the start. But because they both liked each other, a spark ignited between them in the right place and at the right time. Afterwards, they returned to a peaceful friendship. When one of them felt lonely, they would invite the other out to bars, chat, play, and even have sex. This cycle repeated itself; they didn't see each other often, but there was a subtle longing; it wasn't a regular relationship, only occasional passion.

They were friends, then had sex, but remained friends. Or perhaps they had sex, so they became friends, but it only stayed at that level. This is "sexual friendship." This is also my understanding of "there is only love between men and women, no friendship."

"Sexual friendship" is like a close male friend or female confidante; it exists between friends and lovers. In today's interconnected world, the frequent online interactions between men and women provide fertile ground for "sexual friendship." It satisfies the body without involving the soul. Developing this kind of "sexual friendship" between men and women allows them to enjoy pleasure while avoiding trouble.

I think that perhaps in the near future, "sexual friendship" will become a fashion or a term, replacing the roles of lovers and mistresses. They are friends, then there is sex, but they remain just friends. Or, they have sex, so they become friends, and that's all it takes. This is our "sexual friendship." If one day, the moonlight is just right, and his eyes... A hazy, dreamy mind, and a restless heart—the spring breeze rustles outside the window…

Sex and love are often intertwined yet independent. The body is physiology, love is sociology; laws clash, principles clash. Sometimes, sex is more realistic than love.

In the city, a kind of emotion circulates: love is far from enough, but what is desired is more than a kiss. Satisfying the body without involving the soul. Between men and women, a kind of "sexual friendship" exists, enjoying pleasure while avoiding trouble. Regardless of your opinion, it is quietly gaining popularity.

Could sexual friendship become a more constructive third type of relationship between men and women, beyond pure friendship and grand love?

"In days without love, rather than withering away, it's better to find some happiness for yourself."

"The reason for making love isn't necessarily for love; in the face of true love, I am always the purest lamb." However, "

adding sex to friendship isn't like adding sugar to coffee; it's like adding lactic acid bacteria to milk—it completely changes the flavor, turning it into yogurt. It tastes a bit strange, but it's nutritious and easily absorbed." Don't you agree?

But while enjoying the pleasures of sexual friendships, never neglect knowledge and prevention of reproductive health and sexually transmitted diseases!

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