My first time, an unexpected experience with a single man!

I only started getting into the topic of wife swapping in the last two years. The more I read online, the stronger my urge became. But urges aside, my wife and I were newly married and didn't have children yet. I wanted to wait until we had kids before taking action, so I usually just read and replied to posts. One night in 2009, I was reading passionately about wife swapping on a forum and got so excited that I frantically searched online, joined several QQ groups, and contacted a few forum posters. But after chatting for a few days, it felt completely different:
QQ groups were usually like this: after joining, you had to state whether you were single or married. I said I was married but not ready and needed to communicate, and I was either kicked out or ignored. The groups were for organizing activities, and the announcements clearly stated, "You must bring a female companion to participate in the activity." I asked the group admin, "Are there many people actually swapping their wives?" The admin said very few... It seems this is just a sex party. The netizens in the "exchange" group rarely reply after accepting my request. Occasionally, a few will respond, but they'll either say things like, "We're too far apart," or "We're not ready yet, what's the point of chatting?"
In my opinion, this group of people who exchange partners can be divided into two categories: one is those who just want to sleep with other people's wives or mistresses. Sharing their wives or mistresses to satisfy their desires is nothing special. The QQ groups I joined were roughly like this. Everyone knew the women brought along were unlikely to be real wives, but they could still have fun. Actually, nine out of ten of the women brought along were promiscuous and didn't need to be exchanged. They could easily find them in bars, internet cafes, etc., so why go through the trouble of exchanging? Later, I figured it out: if a man finds a promiscuous woman as a mistress, he can easily sleep with many women by participating in exchange parties. He doesn't need to pick them up, spend money on meals, or save time. And with multiple people participating, it's definitely more exciting. So even though everyone knows the women brought along aren't respectable, they can still have a lot of fun, after all, their goals are different!
The second type of person is someone who derives pleasure from seeing their wife being sexually assaulted by another man. Does that sound perverted? I think I fall into this category, and there are probably some other users like that in this forum, though I doubt there are many. I believe it's a somewhat dark and perverse psychology. I tried searching online to analyze it from a psychological perspective, but I didn't find much. Perhaps this psychology is too complex. For someone like me, the second type, simple swapping parties are unacceptable; I can't derive sufficient pleasure from them. Undeniably, I also want to sexually assault other people's wives, but comparatively speaking, if I were to swap, I'd rather watch others sexually assault my partner.
I'm not trying to offend anyone in this forum by writing this; everyone's swapping motives are different, there's no right or wrong. I'm writing this hoping to find genuine and sincere couples.
Now, let me tell you about my unexpected experience. It's unexpected because I never imagined it could be implemented so quickly, especially as a single man. Back in 2009, I added several online friends, but I only really communicated with one: Brother S. He was a civil servant in the capital of a neighboring province—I only found out later. Our initial conversations were disjointed and I've forgotten what we said, but it was something like I was feeling the urge to swap partners, but I was still searching and had never done it before, so I wasn't sure if I could overcome my mental hurdle. He said he'd never swapped partners either. He was 35, his wife was 31, and I said I was 29 and my wife was 23. I didn't think too much about it at the time, because I figured a 35-year-old man would probably have a big belly and not much stamina, and watching someone like that with his wife probably wouldn't be very exciting. So I treated him like a regular online friend. Then one early morning, I saw he was still online and asked him what he was doing. He said he was looking at some documents at work. I guessed that since he said "work unit" instead of "company," he was probably either working for a state-owned enterprise or was a civil servant. I asked him if he was a civil servant, and he told me he was a civil servant in city A. Then, after hesitating for a moment, I told him that I was also a civil servant in City B. (I passed the civil service exam in 2008. Before that, I ran a small business, and later went back home to help my dad with a larger business. However, my family absolutely refused to let me stay in our small hometown, so I had no choice but to take the civil service exam. I found a low-paying job in one of the least developed areas of City B, so it was easy for me to pass. After all, my family was relatively well-off and I didn't rely on this for a salary.) Brother S was obviously a little suspicious and asked which system I was in. I told him it was a certain system, a low-paying job, and I briefly explained how I passed the exam. After that, Brother S started contacting me more often, mostly asking about work and colleagues, telling me that newcomers should talk less and do more, and to be harmonious. I already knew all that even without him saying it, but since he meant well, I'd occasionally ask him what my boss said to me that day, whether there was any hidden meaning, and ask him to analyze it for me. It was really just making conversation, but that's part of the exchange process; isn't that how people gradually get to know each other? However, we never seemed to discuss the exchange itself; we both seemed to have forgotten our original intentions. Then one night, he suddenly asked if I had a webcam and wanted to see me so we could get to know each other. I hesitated for a moment, then quickly plugged in the webcam. That's how we first saw what each other looked like. Brother S was slightly overweight, not very tall, but generally looked quite ordinary, like a junior manager in the office, wearing glasses, and seemed very kind. Brother S said I looked very young, and I said I didn't have much pressure and was happy, which made me look young. At the time, I happened to have some documents from work that I needed to study, so I showed them to him. He also showed me everything next to his computer, which established a strong sense of trust between us. After a while, he suddenly asked if I wanted to see Sister S. I said of course, and he called Sister S over. I saw Sister S hunched over the computer screen, seemingly studying me closely. After about five seconds, she suddenly ran away quickly. I later realized she initially thought she was looking at me but I couldn't see her, and then she realized their webcam was on, so she ran away. It was right after the New Year. Sister S was wearing a pink thermal top set. Thermal tops are usually very tight, which accentuated her curves. She looked very attractive, with long hair, a firm bust, and a round, perky bottom. She was quite pretty, at least her features were nice, and she seemed like a woman who hadn't had much to worry about. Brother S asked me what I thought, and I said she was very sexy. He then asked if we could swap. I immediately told him: "My requirement is that I can only do this after I have a child. I just got married, unlike your kids who are already two years old." S replied that he understood my requirement; he meant I could go see them alone. Hearing this, I felt a surge of joy, but I still tried to remain calm and asked, "Has Sister S agreed to this?" S said, "I'll talk to her." That was that groundbreaking conversation.
Our conversations became quite lively afterward, covering everything from national affairs to how to make a living at work, from Edison Chen to Messi... We occasionally talked about sex, but rarely. S would sometimes chat with me about it, and we even video-chatted. S was very attractive, and the more I looked at her, the more aroused I became. I really didn't know when that day would come. Later, we also chatted by voice and video, which helped to bridge the distance. I was always very careful with what I said when I talked to S, afraid of saying the wrong thing. But thankfully, we were sincere before, and as long as you don't have ulterior motives, even if you slip up and say something wrong, others won't take it seriously. During that time, I kept fantasizing about that moment, but I couldn't mention it to S, because he had to take care of things. I waited and waited, and finally, on the evening of April 25th, S told me that if I was free during the May Day holiday, I could come to their place. I said okay, I'll ask my boss tomorrow if I can ask for leave or take a day off in lieu of a day off. The next day, I lied to my boss, saying that a distant relative from my hometown was hospitalized and might not make it, and that we younger relatives needed to go back to visit him. (Isn't that a bit unethical? But I don't have any distant relatives.) My boss readily agreed, giving me three days off plus three days off for May Day, a total of six days. My boss isn't stupid; he probably thought I wanted to take my wife on a trip, and since I usually perform well, he gave me leave—just doing a favor! (My wife and I live in the same city, but it's only a two-hour drive apart. She usually comes to my dormitory at work to spend the weekend with me; otherwise, we only keep in touch by phone.) That evening, I reported to Brother S, and everything seemed fine. Then Brother S gave me his phone number to call him. He told me very seriously that if I went, I shouldn't think too much about it yet. We should just travel around and have some fun, visit tourist attractions, and see how things develop. I asked Brother S what he thought of me, and he said that he and his wife thought I was very sincere and didn't seem to have many ulterior motives, making me a worthwhile person to befriend. However, this was all online; to take things to a real level, we needed to communicate in person. At the same time, Brother S also reminded me to take good care of my health so I wouldn't be in trouble when needed. Hehe is so thoughtful.
After the call, I calmed down, feeling a mix of excitement and nervousness. I was excited because the long-awaited moment was finally about to arrive, but nervous because I had never experienced anything like this before, and I had only been with two women: my college girlfriend and my current wife. I often heard my buddies say that they couldn't get an erection the first time they went to a prostitute because they were in front of a strange woman. I was a little worried; what if that happened? Wouldn't that spoil everyone's fun? After much hesitation, I decided to buy a Viagra. It wasn't that I lacked confidence, but I was afraid that something unexpected might happen and affect everyone's mood, thus ruining all our efforts. Before leaving, I did a few things: I searched online for topics that married women were interested in, bought a Viagra for 90 yuan, picked out a few sets of decent underwear and outerwear to take, bought some local specialties, bought train tickets, and settled my wife in. Then I set off. I got off work at 5 pm the day before the holiday, and by 3 pm, the office was empty, so I went straight to the train station. After a 7-8 hour train ride, I arrived before midnight. As agreed with Brother S, he told me to stay at the XX Hotel near his home. After checking in, I called him to let him know I had arrived and settled in. S told me to get a good rest that night and he would pick me up around 10 AM the next day. The journey was tiring, so I took a shower and went straight to sleep. I
woke up early the next morning, took another shower and washed my hair, changed into a white long-sleeved shirt and jeans, and emptied my bag of unnecessary items, only putting a few things in: Viagra and two condoms at the very back, a pack of tissues, a bottle of mineral water, a magazine, and a newspaper. Why did I bring Viagra and condoms? It might seem a bit creepy, but I figured since I was there for this purpose, I should be prepared. Around 9 AM, Brother S called and said he would wait for me at the hotel entrance at 10 AM and take me around the city first. I arrived at the hotel entrance at 9:55 AM. A few minutes later, a silver-white economy car drove up. It slowed down noticeably as it approached, and the driver honked deliberately. I guessed it was Brother S. Sure enough, the car stopped, and Brother S got out. He was about 176cm tall, slightly shorter than me, and looked much like his online photos and my image of him. People definitely come in different types! The funny thing was, his clothes were very similar to mine, except my shirt was slightly more patterned, and his jeans were a slightly darker color. We were both wearing white sneakers. "Hello," I said, raising my hand slightly stiffly. "Hello, hello," Brother S greeted me as he locked the door. "This is a small token, some local specialties," I said, handing him the souvenirs. "Oh, oh, okay, you're too kind. You look quite young, and your skin is so fair." "Yeah, it's probably genetic. I didn't want it, haha." "So, how's the hotel?" "Not bad, as long as it's clean, it's not expensive." "Then let me show you around first, and we'll have lunch together later. My son is making a fuss at home, and your sister S is trying to soothe him." "Okay, I've never been to this place before either." After these polite exchanges, Brother S drove me along the main road, introducing me to various places. I tried hard to find topics to talk about, but to be honest, my mind wasn't really on it. Aren't all cities in China the same in terms of scenery and buildings? Later, I took the initiative to steer the conversation towards work, which made it easier to talk. I told him about the huge crowds during my exams, and he told me that he was quite reluctant to join his new company because many college graduates at that time hoped to be assigned to government or state-owned enterprises rather than small units. We then reminisced together... Around 11:30, Brother S mentioned a restaurant near his home and called Sister S over. After we sat down, Brother S went out to make a phone call. About ten minutes later, he came back and said Sister S would be over soon, so let's order first. We ordered a few common dishes. Although I'm not a big drinker, I know that alcohol can bring men closer, so I suggested it. Brother S said it was fine, we should just have something simple for lunch, as we might need to go out to buy things in the afternoon. A while later, Sister S arrived. She wasn't too different from what I had imagined, but she was enough to arouse my desire. She exuded a charming mature woman's allure: slightly wavy long hair, light eyeshadow, a beige casual shirt, a black belt, a black skirt, flesh-colored stockings, and black leather shoes. With so many elements combined, her facial features didn't matter at all. As long as a woman has charisma and her features aren't unattractive, she's bound to be attractive! I quickly looked her up and down before averting my gaze and smiling at Sister S: "Hello, Sister S." "Hello, you look so young! I didn't believe Brother S when he told me earlier, you look like a college student." "Yes, I can't help it, please excuse my appearance. But compared to Teacher He Jiong, I'm quite mature, right?" "Haha, that's right, that's right." After sitting down, my eyes quickly scanned Sister S. There were a few crow's feet at the corners of her eyes, but they didn't detract from her overall beauty. Her breasts were probably a C-cup, and through her white shirt, I could vaguely see that her bra was a darker color. I was already fantasizing, wondering if I could finally get my hands on some goodies. However, I reminded myself to stay calm and not be hasty. I would listen to S-ge's arrangements. During dinner, I was quite casual. When the topic turned to children, S-ge started talking non-stop. She advised me to be fully prepared before having children, mentioning how tedious it was to wash diapers, change sheets, and put the baby to sleep! I chimed in, saying that I had a childhood friend back home. Before he had children, we played together almost every night. After he had a daughter, he almost never went out anymore. Every time I called him out, he said he was holding the baby. I didn't understand at the time, but now, hearing S-ge's explanation, it seems he really was overwhelmed. Hearing me say this, S-ge seemed even more interested, talking more and more, all about children. The atmosphere was very comfortable, and I became less nervous myself. I was quite satisfied with my performance.
After dinner, Brother S asked Sister S in a questioning tone: "How about we go sightseeing tomorrow? We haven't been out in a long time." Sister S readily agreed, but they hadn't decided on a particular place. Brother S told me to go back to the hotel and rest, as they had some things to take care of at home. He said he'd come to get me later that afternoon to go buy some things for our trip. So I went straight home.
It's taken me a long time to write this much; it seems I can't write about everything in detail. I'll just pick out some of the more significant events to write about.
The next day, we set off around 6 a.m. by bus. Today, Sister S was wearing a different athletic outfit: a pink short-sleeved T-shirt, a white skirt, and a sun hat. She looked like she played tennis. I casually remarked, "You look like you play tennis." Sister S said she had recently started learning tennis, and this was what she wore. I continued, "No wonder Sister S has such a great figure..." Haha, one point for the compliment.
Upon arriving at the scenic area, we started climbing. I was still carrying my own bag, with the same few things inside, and I was also carrying some food and drinks. S-ge was also carrying some food and drinks. We walked and chatted along the way. It was clear that S-ge's stamina wasn't what it used to be; he might have gained weight. Of course, I wanted to appear younger. Along the way, S-jie would help S-ge when the path became difficult, and I would help S-jie whenever I had a chance. This kind of interaction easily brought us closer.
We walked and stopped frequently, and around 10 o'clock, we reached a rest stop. We ate something, and our burdens were much lighter. S-ge said he wouldn't walk any further and would rest there, letting S-jie and me go on our own. S-jie didn't object, and I was naturally delighted. All along, I kept wondering if S-ge was hinting at something, but we were both very tired, and apart from helping S-jie, there weren't many other opportunities. However, seeing so many wildflowers by the roadside, I suddenly had an idea. Every now and then, I would pick a pretty flower and put it in my bag. S-jie saw this and asked what I was doing. I said I was going to bring it back for my wife, and S-jie praised me for being thoughtful. Later, we almost reached the top, and many people were taking photos there. I saw a souvenir shop and went over to pick out something for 50 yuan. I said, "I'll buy this; I won't haggle. But could you tie this bouquet for me?" The shopkeeper, of course, had no problem. He used some tin foil, added some thin ribbon, and a few embellishments. Hehe, it looked just as good as what you'd get at a florist. When I suddenly presented this bouquet to Sister S, I could tell she really liked it and was touched! Women are born liking flowers! I quickly found someone and asked him to take a picture of Sister S and me. I put my hand on Sister S's waist, and she didn't refuse. Hehe, we took another step closer. Later, we found a place to sit and rest. I told her that there were many mountains where I went to university, and hiking with Sister S reminded me of hiking with my girlfriend before. I said I was jealous of Brother S, and so on. Anyway, since it was just the two of us, we were quite close, so I deliberately said some cheesy things, in a joking tone, of course. Sister S lowered her head after that, probably a little embarrassed. I really wanted to hug her then. Actually, hugging or cuddling now wouldn't be a big deal, but it felt a little inappropriate since Brother S wasn't there. Then we headed back, and when I saw Brother S, I reported what happened. The atmosphere was great, so we went back. We ate something casually outside that night and went to bed. I was very satisfied with today's progress. Brother S told me to come to their house for dinner tomorrow, and he'd let Sister S cook. Hearing this, I thought things would fall into place by tomorrow... I spent the whole night daydreaming!

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