A single man's reflections after a year of dating.

I started dating last year and have only had three successful experiences so far. I'm currently a university student in Beijing. I wouldn't call myself incredibly handsome, but I'm at least clean-cut, sunny, and have decent features. I've chatted with about 180 couples so far, but very few of them have lasted long. Many couples lack experience and often hope to proceed gradually, chatting more before making a decision. However, I'm actually quite introverted and don't talk much, unlike some of my friends who are really good conversationalists. So, many couples who seemed promising at first have gradually lost contact. Actually, most of the couples I've met so far are very nice people. Because I feel that single men are often seen as the ones who get the better deal in dating, I try my best to cooperate with them when I meet them. Initially, I readily provided photos when they asked for them. Later, some couples would request four- or five-star hotels or ask to go to hot springs, and as long as I could sense their sincerity, I would try my best to fulfill their requests. Many couples are genuinely good people, and of course, there are also some oddballs, which I won't go into here. I think at least some single men, like me, aren't really participating in dating games because they lack women; they're just looking for excitement and thrills. However, they're often misunderstood as just looking for casual sex. I can often sense the coldness in the tone of the couples' voices, and some couples even seem superior, as if single men owe them something. But in dating games, couples and single men can't be completely equal. I think there should at least be mutual respect. Once, a couple saw my photo and asked to meet that night, insisting on staying in a five-star hotel. I asked if I could see their photos, and the husband impatiently said, "Why are you being so fussy?" I said, "At least we need to be compatible; we need to be mutually satisfied for us to have a good time together." Then he casually sent me a picture of his wife's back, and I was stunned. From the back, I felt the wife was at least fifty years old and slightly overweight. Since I'm not really into that type, I tactfully suggested we chat first before discussing meeting. The husband immediately started cursing, saying I was being too fussy. But I think mutual attraction is the bare minimum. Some couples don't care about looks, height, or overall quality... they only require strong sexual ability. I find this really frustrating. My length is normal, around 13-14 centimeters. I usually last about ten minutes the first time, then twenty or thirty, sometimes even thirty or forty. But I've noticed many single men claiming they can last an hour or two, with lengths of 17 or 18 centimeters. I feel incredibly insecure. I wonder if I'm just too weak. Some husbands encourage me to meet their wives privately. Honestly, I get nervous in those situations. Firstly, I'm terrible at sweet talk, and secondly, it feels wrong. Meeting privately is like having normal sex, but that defeats the purpose. That's all I wanted to say. I'm sincerely looking for friends, and I hope genuinely interested couples will contact me. Thank you.

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