69 January's Gains and Reflections

Before I knew it, I'd been involved with HQ for over a month. What started as secretly writing and reading logs has now become sharing good articles with my wife. Our daily interactions have strengthened our bond. I want to take this opportunity to thank this wonderful platform for exchange. Although my wife and I haven't reached the level of success many of our predecessors have achieved, my purpose in joining this community has already been to "enhance our marital bliss."
A year ago, when I first encountered the term HQ, it was because of the Hefei Youth League's group sex scandal. At the time, I truly couldn't believe such a group existed. What man would willingly offer his beloved wife to another man? My first reaction was that these people were truly perverted. However, humans are curious creatures. During that period, driven by a thirst for knowledge, I downloaded all the photos and videos I could find from that incident and followed the online doxxing posts on Tianya (a Chinese online forum) daily. When I saw that the doxxing revealed it was about Wang Tuan and his real, beautiful wife, I was completely stunned. I had always thought that HQ (a type of online slang for prostitutes) was mostly attended by men in their forties or fifties with their lovers, or young people with prostitutes. Who knew there were actually high-class people around my age attending with their real wives? That time, I felt my worldview was completely shattered.
Though my worldview was shattered, my curiosity remained. I started searching for articles and photos of various HQs. I've looked at photos of Wang Tuan and his wife countless times. Over the course of more than a year, I gradually tried to understand the mentality of these people and suddenly realized I was caught up in it. Many times, I even fantasized about my beloved, beautiful wife moaning happily under someone else, while I watched their bodies coming together. That would definitely be incredibly exciting, but I would also feel envy, jealousy, and hatred—a complex mix of emotions. I won't go into the details of this complicated state of mind over the past year, as it's not something that can be explained in a few words. I wonder if any of you readers have had similar experiences.
Getting back to the point, a month ago, I came across 69 (a Chinese online forum), and also registered a QQ account. When I saw good articles, I would read them with my wife. Now I'm selective about the articles I read; I skip those that simply describe the process and only read about the experiences of successful people or those who have similar ideas but haven't implemented them. I find those incredibly real and moving (my wife says so too). I believe that sincere communication doesn't rely on explicit or provocative language, but rather on exchanging perspectives. That's how you quickly bridge the gap between two people. After all, in this society, there's too much distrust, and too much to consider about protecting yourself and your family.
In the past month, we've gained two regular QQ users, "Xiao Fan" and "San Mao," who are in the same situation as me. Although we don't chat often, when we do, it's always very sincere and polite—a conversation that aligns with my own principles. My wife occasionally chats with them too, but with our respective families and careers, the opportunities for direct communication are limited. However, every time I share the content with my wife after our chat (so far, we haven't discussed much about sex), her attitude towards sex changes significantly. The quality and frequency of our sex life have returned to what they were before she gave birth, which makes me very happy. Thank you to the two high-quality FQs; I hope you see this.
My wife and I deeply love each other, and we've discussed our bottom line: no swapping during sex. While some readers might look down on us, saying we've been rambling on and on without any real intention of swapping, yes, that's not a level we can reach in a year or two. Please understand.
I've rambled on quite a bit, testing your patience, haha! However, I still hope to make friends with more FQs who have similar experiences. I reject those who cast a wide net, adding me on QQ without knowing my purpose (I've encountered countless this month), those who immediately want to swap, and those who harass single men and women.
Friendship is based on love, and sincerity comes first!!

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