My naive sister-in-law secretly had an emotional affair with me.

My sister-in-law has been divorced for a year. This time last year, she was going through a rough patch. She was only 25, and less than 100 days into her marriage, she was kicked out of her husband's home. When asked why, she blamed it all on herself. She's a typical Platonic lover. She's very willing to engage in emotional exchange with men, but dislikes physical intimacy, even rejecting things like kissing and hugging. She finds sex dirty; who could tolerate her if they married a man with erectile dysfunction?
Her husband suspected she had a problem, and after several instances of forced sexual intercourse, many unpleasant incidents occurred, almost leading to a serious incident. So, they had to divorce so soon after getting married. But they had dated before marriage, for a considerable period, about a year and a half. At the time, he thought she was a very pure girl and even promised to have a passionate, lifelong relationship with her…
After my sister-in-law's divorce, I gave her a lot of affirmation, even wholeheartedly supporting her decision. Being on her side obviously shortened the distance between us. During our conversations, she was always the one pouring out her heart, and I was always the listener. Although introverted, she had a lot to say to me; a day's conversation with me was almost equivalent to a year's worth of conversation with someone else.
It was through these year's conversations that I understood her inner turmoil and contradictions. She also told me a secret she had kept hidden for many years. She said she had been abused in childhood, which had left her with severe psychological trauma that she couldn't escape.
When I understood my sister-in-law's experience, I suddenly felt pity. I wanted to help her, to help her "detox," to help her become more positive, to help her become a normal woman. Unexpectedly, I secretly began a spiritual relationship with her behind my wife's back. When I first told her I loved her, she felt shy. The girl's "purity" and "truth" were unmistakable; she liked me. But it was impossible for her to trust me so completely… My
sister-in-law's secret was that when she was 13, she was sexually assaulted by a neighbor. She could never forget that afternoon, never forget that familiar yet ugly face. From that moment on, a seed of aversion to sex was planted in her heart, taking root, sprouting, and growing. That trauma left a deep mark on her young soul.
The year she entered high school, she was again sexually assaulted by her homeroom teacher, pinned to his office desk. From then on, she developed an extreme aversion to men's bodies. She said she was pitiful, unlucky; crucial moments in her life had stained her. It wasn't that she was unwilling to have sex out of love. Rather, she felt guilty, sensing injustice from the man she loved. Rather than rejecting sex, she was running away…
She was able to confide these things to me. I truly felt sorry for her. I never imagined that those two heinous, inhuman experiences during her formative years had truly harmed her. I believe that after understanding the root of her problems, I can help her gradually change… It
just takes time and patience. But I also feel a lingering fear; I'm afraid I might become the third person to hurt her. Now, she trusts me so much, relies on me so much. Every day, she wants me to chat online with her, text me, and call me. It's become a habit between us. At first, after the divorce, my wife thought I was helping her, but now she's starting to suspect something's wrong with us. I always say, "Your sister isn't normal; I'm slowly correcting her." My wife asks, "How are you going to correct her? Are you going to guide her on how to have sex?"
My wife knows the reason for her sister's divorce, but she doesn't know her sister's unspeakable secrets. Only I know, but no matter what, I have to keep her secret. If it's leaked, she might choose suicide. That tragedy is something no one wants to see, and it's unpredictable.
However, I'm gratified. I see my sister-in-law's progress. She's trying to change herself and listens to me. A few times, she even leaned on my shoulder. I don't have any improper thoughts about her. On the contrary, I hope she'll take the initiative to seduce me soon. I think that at that time, she'll probably break free from her own curse. I want her to not only be spiritually attracted to men, but also truly learn to have sex out of love. I
don't want to be the "protagonist," but at this stage, I have to take on that role. I honestly don't know if I'm right or wrong. But if I end up hurting her even more because of me, I'll feel guilty. Should I rub salt into her wounds? Or add fuel to the fire? Should I help her or harm her? I'm truly confused...

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