Analysis of the Current Status of Couples' Relationships in Xinjiang (Urumqi) (Clickbait title, somewhat long, read with caution!)

Since that crazy day on the third day of the Lunar New Year, I've been wasting my time searching and waiting. Each expectation has brought only disappointment. I feel compelled to vent about these past few months, as I believe many loving couples like myself are still caught in this cycle of uncertainty and anticipation.
After the Spring Festival, work settled down, and being busy was inevitable, naturally reducing my time browsing the web on 69.com. My search and communication shifted from forums to mobile QQ. During this time, I've met friends through three main channels.
First, I created a QQ group for sincere couples from Xinjiang. Many Xinjiang friends found it through keyword searches, but the vast majority were "purely" single men seeking novelty or sex. This was obviously not our target; the reasons are clear to everyone here, so I won't elaborate. Occasionally, I'd meet one or two couples. One couple was in Kashgar, but work prevented them from meeting. Another couple was in Yili; apparently, the wife hadn't found work (or even worked at all), wasting her time and energy. Friends from this channel instilled a great deal of distrust in us, so I decided to shut down this constantly flashing chatter group.
Secondly, there were couples introduced by friends I'd chatted with a few times. There are currently two such couples. One couple seemed quite sincere, and we could exchange a few words. Unfortunately, we couldn't resonate with each other due to age or visual differences; occasional exchanges of feelings were fine, but physical intimacy was out of the question.
The other couple was also quite experienced. The wife was said to be 18 years old, with a beautiful figure and stunning face, practically breathtaking. The husband was also described as having the looks and physique of Pan An and Song Yu. It's a pity we haven't seen them, which is a great regret. After one conversation, they seemed rather arrogant and self-important. It was as if all couples had to be treated like concubines, constantly waiting for their favor or anticipating their disparagement. This was unacceptable to us from the inside out. In terms of appearance alone, we're not bad-looking; we wouldn't dare exclaim in admiration, and praise is always plentiful. In the vast land of Xinjiang, we are both unparalleled in our respective fields. We also believe we have some inner qualities. So, when faced with such a proud swan, all that's usually needed is a gentle smile.
The third and most important channel is, of course, from our 69 followers. They follow, they add us on QQ. Seven out of ten times, there's no follow-up, as if adding us on QQ meant uninstalling our account. Opening QQ and seeing those gray little penguins, that lifeless, gray color, is heartbreakingly sad. Some friends are clearly online, but don't greet you. You greet them, but they ignore you. Over time, they keep trying to curry favor with you; anyone would feel uncomfortable in that situation! It's as if I'm begging you, begging you to come and see how beautiful my wife is, so beautiful she deserves your attention. Emperor in his coffin! Wake up! Wake up!! That's the good thing about
69; there are many sincere couples there. Some couples add each other, chat. They ask for photos, we send them. They think they're not clear enough, so they send more. I sent it over, and they complained my wife was wearing too many clothes... Kid, are you out soliciting prostitutes? Even if you wanted to hire couples like us, you might not be able to afford it even if you sold your wife and house!
Then there's this husband who chatted with me once, and a few days later he'd ask for my information again—height, weight, bust, waist, and hip measurements—and finally, a photo. Uncle, you've asked me for these things eight times already! Don't you chat with too many people?! Having many friends is understandable, but please at least add a note to my name. It doesn't waste pen or ink, and it won't hurt your little dick. How can you be so careless?! Even funnier, one guy, after chatting with me again, asked for my name again. Upon hearing my name, he pretended to suddenly realize: Oh!!! Right, right, I remember, your wife wears glasses, isn't tall, has dark skin, and yellowish pubic hair, right?! "I bought a watch last year!!!" What kind of friends do you chat with?!
Two couples were even worse; they asked for photos after only a few words. I tolerated it and gave them to them! After a few words, he asked for my phone number, which I gave him. Instantly, the phone rang, a lewd voice piercing the receiver, shrill and loud: "Hey buddy, what are you doing? Is your wife home? Let me talk to her!" What a load of rubbish!! Please forgive my profanity! He even video-chatted with me at night. The screen showed a guy who looked like the kind of hoodlum who frequents small hair salons, grabbing my wife, ripping open her pajamas, and exposing her breasts. The woman flinched in fear and shyness. As soon as he released her, he grinned lewdly at the camera, revealing his smoky teeth: "Call your wife over for a chat too, ah~~~". At 3 AM, the phone rang incessantly. It was that persistent, vengeful ghost again! One of the few bad guys in the 69 community, and I've hit the jackpot!
Of course, I mostly granted requests to exchange photos. After all, in a marriage, one party always has to be honest. Some took the photos and disappeared, vanished like MH370. The more polite ones would say, "I don't have the photos on my phone right now, I'll send them to you tonight." I waited and waited. Countless sleepless nights were spent waiting. MH370 was lost, that was an accident. If our photos were leaked, it would be a major incident! In Xinjiang, a vast and sparsely populated place, there are at least 30,000 to 40,000 people who know me personally. Just thinking about the consequences sends chills down my spine!
I chatted with a young couple, and we got along well. We've been in contact for two months. We're not the type to flirt randomly; if we find someone suitable, we won't actively seek out others. Focus might be a virtue. But then, in the last two weeks, they suddenly disappeared without a trace. They're online on QQ, but never reply. Do they look down on us, or do they have someone else? If you just said something, we'd understand. It's like a middle-aged single woman asking, "Do you want me? Just say something! Are you alive or dead?" I still have to get married and have kids!
If this keeps up, it seems like there aren't many couples left. It's not that I'm picky, we've all been through this before. We understand your shyness, your bashfulness, your safety concerns, etc. How many people actually sleep with you the moment they meet? We wouldn't choose someone who pulls out a penis or takes off their bra on the first meeting. You're so reserved that you don't even dare to eat, watch movies, or even ask me out when we're just going for some fresh air in the countryside, you have all sorts of concerns. If you don't take the first step, are you waiting for a windfall? Even if a windfall does fall from the sky, can you guarantee it'll be the lamb and onion filling you want? How do you know it won't be just meat, cabbage, or even chives and vermicelli?! Brother and sister-in-law, please don't hold back. You don't have to pay for the meal. We'll provide the car for our walk in the countryside, not take us to some remote mountain village for a tryst. It's just picking some mint, fishing, and getting some fresh air. We're not going to eat people today.
Thinking about all of the above, we're still single, and we're still hoping. I kind of miss C and his wife. What a great pair of friends! C, why do you smoke so much? You could use that money for haircuts and beauty treatments. It would be so wonderful if the four of us could live happily together like this. Right now, we should be camping and drinking by Sayram Lake. Sigh! What a pity!
Chatting here on 69 has this feeling, like having a stomachache and sitting on the toilet—once you start, you can't stop. I've gone off-topic, turning a perfectly good reflection into a rant. My personal story has become an analysis of the current state of relationships between couples in Xinjiang. I admire myself once again!!
Finally, I'll post our "marriage advertisement" again, for everyone's consideration!
Our expectations are as follows:
1. Couples or lovers, single men are not currently being considered; looks don't have to be too good, but you can't be too bad either.
2. Both of us have relatively relaxed and flexible jobs within Xinjiang. Friends from other prefectures and cities are also welcome to visit Urumqi;
3. We don't require bachelor's or master's degrees, but at least you should understand respect and sincerity;
4. You must be in good health, very good health; a non-smoker, or at least not smell of smoke;
5. We want a long-term friendship. If you can't accept a gradual development of the relationship, or if you're always asking for things to progress, please don't contact us. Many things happen naturally.
6. We enjoy sports, road trips, camping, traveling, skiing, fishing, and cooking. It would be great if we could travel together.
7. We are 35-174cm-68kg and 35-165cm-52kg respectively. Age difference isn't a major issue.
8. Please don't ask for our photos (blurred photos might be okay). It's impolite not to give them, but giving them also makes us hesitant, as we still have some social circles.
It's getting late, let's go to sleep!

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