Why is there no passion when dating an old flame?

I was chatting with my best friend, and she's been feeling down lately; it's a long story.
In our naive imaginations, having a rendezvous with an old flame behind our husbands' backs is something exciting, romantic, and thrilling. However, harsh reality forces us to question our own hearts: how long will this pleasure last?
My friend went on the date, full of anticipation, thinking the passion would be like before, but she left disappointed. I've encountered this situation myself, and been confused by it. After careful and quiet reflection, the reasons become clear.
First, an old flame is ultimately just a thing; things change, and so do you. We've all been with many men over the years. A woman's memory of her sexual partner is indelible. The man who made her feel good will be etched in her memory forever. If she had the chance to meet him again, she would still like him and experience orgasms. In other words, the old flame hasn't kept pace with your experiences; he's degenerated and can no longer satisfy your current physical needs or bring you the expected pleasure.
Second, the lover you've invested the most emotionally with isn't necessarily the one who gave you the most physical pleasure. When women sleep with men, there's always some emotional element involved, which is slightly different from men. Therefore, if physical intimacy and emotional connection are separated for too long, the emotional connection fades, and naturally, the physical intimacy cools down as well.
Thirdly, the few old lovers I still cherish are all charming and intelligent men. Strictly speaking, the pleasure they gave me was more spiritual than physical. However, initially, physical intimacy definitely took precedence, and later, spiritual intimacy became paramount. That's why we're called foolish women!!!

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