Let me share my wife's opinion.

My writing skills are average, not as good as my wife's (actually, my wife's writing skills are also average, we're both science majors). After two months of spending time with her lover, my wife has become more open and honest with me than before. We often discuss topics that we wouldn't talk about before, such as her lover. After posting a blog entry a few days ago, my wife checks the comments almost every day. She likes most of them, but a few mentions of Lei's friends make her feel a little uncomfortable. First of all, he's still single. His family has been introducing him to girlfriends all year. In the two months he's been with his wife, he even went on one blind date, which was encouraged by his wife. At first, he couldn't let go of his wife, after all, she's still young at 89. He kept saying he loved her and would wait for her. After nearly two months of his wife's guidance, he now understands that we both have our own lives to live, and we can't let nostalgia or the warmth of not seeing each other for years disrupt this balance. His wife still needs to live her current life, and he also needs a new life. Rather than saying they're lovers, it's more like his wife is like an older sister to him. They can be like lovers while also finding comfort in each other like family. Like yesterday, his wife told him that she likes him to hold her as she falls asleep, but when she's with Lei, she likes to hold Lei, and Lei likes to bury his head in his wife's chest. Based on my work experience over the past few years, this psychological reflection suggests three things: first, his wife likes to be protected by him; second, his wife feels that Lei needs her protection; and third, Lei may feel insecure around his wife. So these three points are enough to lead to our current situation. Thinking about this, I'm planning something that will help Lei let go of his desire for revenge and face his wife. My wife also wants to see a confident Lei who has aspirations for his life and future. I've met Lei a few times and we're fairly familiar with each other. I plan to invite the three of us to dinner this weekend at a resort-like place where we can stay overnight. I'll book a standard room in advance and let Lei know we'll be staying that night. Around 11 pm, I plan to pretend to leave as a friend, telling them to go to sleep if they're tired, as I might be back late. Before leaving, I'll have my wife act out a scene, saying she's scared of being alone, and then subtly hint to Lei: "Hey, Lei's here!" and tell him that if his wife is scared, he can comfort her with a hug. After that, it's up to them. I think this gives my wife and me a way out and also hints at my attitude to Lei. It doesn't mean I approve of them having sex so openly, but at least he'll understand that I don't mind them being alone together, even hugging and cuddling. I believe that's how people are. When you force something, it might not work, but when you show indifference, it might. I think Lei will let go of his burden after this; he'll be fine now, and the two of them will be more natural in the future.
Let's talk about making friends. Before that, I have to mention my "cuckoldry"—don't laugh, it's all because of those three words. I'm not the type who gets excited just imagining my wife having sex. What I enjoy is my wife's cuteness after receiving love and satisfaction. So, we won't be involved in threesomes for now, and swapping is out of the question; she won't allow it, and I don't like it either. My wife values emotions, and sex is a product built upon those emotions. That's not the result we want, but rather a way to maintain the process. We won't be having threesomes in the short term, but I don't rule out sincere friendships. Just don't come up thinking about how to sleep with my wife; I believe that kind of guy will never get the chance to sleep with someone else's wife. Respect is the foundation of all forms of friendship. For like-minded people or single men, every couple here could be your chance for connection. Opportunities are rare, so please cherish them.
Thank you all for your support, understanding, and even your questions. It was a question raised in our previous post that prompted my husband and I to decide to do something truly meaningful for Lei! So, regardless of personal preferences or the format, we hope everyone can have fun together in this small community.

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