Where there's a will, there's a way (Part Two)

After posting my first blog entry, I felt I hadn't said enough, so I'm typing this to continue. The purpose is also to get to know each other better before we communicate on QQ.
Let me first describe our basic situation. I'm short and thin; we were born in the 1960s, and it's incredibly lucky we didn't starve to death during that famine. Perhaps my current situation is due to some congenital factors. Although I'm in my early fifties, I don't look it; I look younger. I have no major health problems, except for a 20-year history of gallstones, and no infectious diseases. My appearance is average; I'd be hard to spot in a crowd.
My wife is about 1.6 meters tall, slightly overweight, weighing no more than 120 pounds, and also not particularly attractive. We are both an ordinary couple; those who are obsessed with finding a wife with stunningly beautiful looks will be rejected.
But we are not ashamed. In life, people who are both talented and beautiful, as described in books, are extremely rare. We don't admire others, nor do we look down on them; the primary principle of friendship is equality.
Our first choice for friends is single men. Because I can't go against my initial reason for joining 69 Paradise—my wife's happiness is my happiness.
Our specific requirements for single men are: firstly, you must be taller than us, at least 1.7 meters; you don't need to be too handsome (too handsome and we're not good enough for you), but don't be too withdrawn either. Withdrawn behavior has multiple levels (you know, I won't elaborate). Secondly, you must be over 35 years old. Single or married is not a restriction. However, married men seeking friendships as single men must obtain their wives' informed consent (we don't want you to cause collateral damage).
Thirdly, everyone agrees on the importance of character.
Let me elaborate on character. Why do we all agree that character is paramount for single men? Why do single men lament the difficulty of finding excellent partners? The crux of the matter is the lack of open communication. Making friends is about open communication; if you're not honest with the other person, how can they be honest with you? It's undeniable that there might be some defensiveness in interactions. Therefore, it's essential to follow an organizational principle (also applicable to our Party): don't say what shouldn't be said, don't listen to what shouldn't be heard, don't ask what shouldn't be asked, and don't look at what shouldn't be seen. If everyone follows or understands this principle, various entanglements in interactions will be easily resolved. I know a single man in my area, and we only chat occasionally. For a while, I noticed he hadn't been online for a long time, and a phone call revealed his father was seriously ill and hospitalized. I thought that as a friend, I should visit him, but he politely declined. Afterwards, I understood that we were just friends in this area, and I shouldn't intrude on his private life. Being too involved in someone's family matters makes them feel awkward; imagine how he would introduce you when you appear in front of him in a friendly and welcoming manner? In hiking groups, three principles are also prevalent: don't lend sleeping bags, don't lend water, and don't lend fire. Let's extend this further: what belongs to others is what belongs to others. No matter how good it is, it's still someone else's property. Don't try to possess something just because it's nice. Imagine, if someone is willing to let you sleep with their wife, what's there to be reluctant about? That's why you should be mindful of your actions. Another key point of good manners is to remain calm and composed. Everyone's environment and experiences are different, and their perceptions of the surrounding world vary. Don't imagine that persuading your wife is simple and easy. If it were simple and easy, what would be the point of having 69.net? If it were simple and easy, such things are commonplace, so why bother with all the effort? If it were simple and easy, would we just pick someone up on the street and have sex? That would be unacceptable in today's society, wouldn't it? So, haste makes waste, and you can't eat hot tofu in a hurry.
Now, let's talk about safety. Some people believe that exchanging partners or inviting single men for a threesome is a personal matter and doesn't affect or harm society (I suggest those who hold this view study Article 301 of the Criminal Law). In other words, even if you're not breaking the law, you are at least violating social morality in the current situation. We live in a socialist country with Chinese characteristics, not the West. It's not that I'm afraid of everything. It's more about being prepared for the unexpected. And what if? You know the consequences. When engaging in this activity, everyone should try to be rational. We can get excited, but we shouldn't act impulsively.
Ideally, I'd like to meet a single man in Tongling. Initially, we might just be friends. We can travel together, go hiking, go fishing—everything will happen naturally, and perhaps we'll find love naturally.

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