I got stood up

To be honest, I came to this dating website with great sincerity. I was very honest when chatting with the couples, answering as many questions as I could and truthfully explaining my basic situation. If they felt comfortable, we could continue our conversation; if not, I wouldn't force it or bother them. I never expected this to still happen. Here's what happened: A few days ago, a couple (from another website) added me. The first day, the man suggested meeting up for a hotel room. Frankly, I was a bit averse to this, and the woman was over forty, which I found hard to accept, so I didn't agree. The day before yesterday, the man contacted me again and again asked to meet up. They were even willing to drive over, so I agreed, thinking they were quite sincere. I then tried to discuss the details with him, such as what they disliked, what I wouldn't do, and what they needed me to do. He didn't discuss these things, but instead made two requests in a commanding tone: I had to treat them to hot pot, and I needed a nice hotel room. To be honest, this put me in a bit of a bind. I'm still a graduate student, and I don't have any projects this summer, so I'm a little short on cash. I told him directly that I probably couldn't afford to treat him to a nice meal. He didn't reply, and I assumed they would understand, so I took it as a tacit agreement. Afterwards, I booked three hot pot buffets on Meituan and also reserved a room, sending them the links, but they didn't reply. Around 7 PM, they arrived in a Hyundai. After parking the car, I led them to the restaurant. On the first floor (the hot pot restaurant was on the second floor), I told them I'd take them upstairs to have the owner prepare the pots while I went to get the money. But the man said not to rush, to look around first, and seemed ready to move on if they weren't satisfied. Honestly, I was a little annoyed, but I didn't say anything and went to get the money while they went upstairs to look at the place. A few minutes later, after I had gotten the money, I received a call saying it was okay, and I breathed a sigh of relief. When I arrived at the restaurant, the man was already getting the food, and his wife was sitting there waiting. I went over to greet her, but she didn't really respond, so I didn't say anything more and went straight to getting the food. Next, we ate the all-you-can-eat hot pot. During the meal, the two of them chatted most of the time, with the man occasionally chatting with me. His questions were related to universities, and he seemed a bit arrogant, giving off a condescending vibe, so I guessed he was probably a university professor, and perhaps holding a minor position. After the meal, we headed to the hotel together. At the entrance, the man told me to go in first to book a room (it was just a reservation online, not yet paid for), and that they could look around first and come later. I went to the hotel alone, paid, and waited for them in the room. I waited and waited, but they didn't come. Gradually, I had a bad feeling, but I told myself not to rush. An hour later, I sent a text message, but there was no reply. A few minutes later, I called, but they didn't answer either. At that point, I knew what was going on. Later, around 10 PM, I received a call from him saying he couldn't come and asked me to send him my bank card number before hanging up. Although I was angry, I thought maybe he had an emergency and left, so I held back and sent him my bank card number. Then I spent a "memorable night" alone in a hotel. After that night, the man never contacted me again, which made me very angry because I felt they owed me an explanation. I felt that if they felt I wasn't suitable, they could have told me directly after dinner; I could accept that, because these things can't be forced. But why did they have to make me book a room before standing me up? Even if they stood me up, they could at least give me an explanation the next day, but not a single word. And they haven't transferred a single penny to my bank card since. It's not a lot of money, and I don't care about the amount, but I just wanted to see if they still had any integrity left. I value honesty, and I feel very guilty if I promise something and don't keep it. What angered me most about this man was his repeated breaches of trust; I felt my sincerity had been trampled upon. Because this is the first time I've encountered something like this, I'm having a hard time accepting it, which is why I've rambled on so much. I hope you all don't mind, and I also hope that you will all be more careful in making friends in the future; it's always good to be wary of others.

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