The true meaning of marriage

After so many years of marriage, I sometimes wonder, why get married? Did people in primitive societies have marriage? Did matriarchal societies (like those in Lijiang) have marriage? How did they manage the relationship between men and women? Has humanity progressed in managing the social relationship between men and women? Have traditional Chinese values and current marriage laws been challenged? ... Recently, I've occasionally joined a "love forum" and read many "diaries." While many people express their feelings or describe their experiences and thoughts, few delve into deeper issues.
Today, I'd like to share a few superficial observations with friends. In reality, most marriages today begin with mutual attraction, develop feelings after dating, reach a certain point where they discuss marriage, and then get married and have children. (Of course, there are exceptions.) The process isn't complicated, but it needs to be viewed from a certain stage or period. During this time, the feelings and emotions between the two people will change along different curves. That is, love gradually transforms into familial affection, with the woman focusing on her husband and children; friendships also gradually transform into responsibilities and obligations. (Of course, there are exceptions.) Therefore, based on the insights of many people in the love forum, we can conclude that if you truly love your wife, let her "fall in love" again, provided it doesn't affect the family, because that's a responsibility and obligation! The goal is to let her radiate beauty, regain her youth and charm through friendships. At this point, I think many men will love their wives even more than before (some say the ideal wife is: a harlot in bed, a lady in bed). Don't let wives lose their beauty prematurely due to a lack of friendships, or even become haggard women they themselves dislike.
Therefore, for the sake of social stability, marriage laws are necessary, but people's attitudes need to change! Of course, friendships shouldn't be all about sex, and neither should marriage be all about sex. Sex is essential in life, but it's definitely not the only theme! Friendship, kinship, and love are essential. The same applies to couples making friends; it's just that things or topics that you wouldn't dare or feel comfortable discussing in your usual social circle can be said or done freely here! However, this is absolutely based on the premise of not harming others, equality, friendliness, and mutual understanding and respect! Everyone can release their emotions here!
I believe that you can definitely find genuine, understanding friends on this premium couples' website. As a philosopher once said, "To have one true friend in life is enough!" This true friend may be your lifelong spiritual support. Let's all cherish each other!

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