Love first, then do it, or do it first, then love?

In her novel *Lust, Caution*, Eileen Chang wrote, "The path to a woman's heart is through her vagina."
This statement, not only in her time but even today, is quite shocking, shattering the traditional image of women as virtuous and gentle. It turns out, women are also sexual beings. Who can still say men think only with their lower bodies?
However, this is also an awkward statement; seemingly lewd, yet revealing wisdom, but not entirely accurate.
Does it mean that one can reach a woman's heart through her vagina, or is it necessary to reach a woman's heart through her vagina? Eileen Chang didn't use explicit words like "as long as" or "then" to clarify.
In fact, a thousand women will have a thousand answers; there has never been a standard explanation. "
Only with the one you love,
'through the stomach,' reach the man's heart," and "through the vagina, reach the woman's heart." The language is naked, cruel, and straightforward. The former is similar to the common saying "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach," and the latter is also frequently used. Many women don't initially love a man, but after sleeping with him, they fall deeply in love.
This isn't to say women are cheap, but rather related to women's nature. Many women are confused the first time, not understanding what they want. They often don't experience sexual pleasure, and there's no guarantee a lasting relationship afterward.
However, once sex is established, the relationship changes. The man leaves something in her heart, good or bad. This is why many men have a virginity complex.
Men always hope to be a woman's first man, and women always hope to be a man's last woman.
After sex, men worry about the woman clinging to him; women worry about the man abandoning them. Thus, sex is the end of a story for men, but the beginning for women.
A woman who is confused the first time will definitely be serious the second and third time. If she's willing to let you in, she must have already placed you in her heart.
It's often said that men separate sex and love. Perhaps some men are, but most men prefer to sleep with the women they love.
Women are so sensitive; they can tell whether you love them or not from a man's every word and action, let alone physical intimacy.
"The way to a woman's heart is through her vagina"—this doesn't mean a man's virility alone can win a woman's heart. Sleeping with a man is a ritual, a woman's way of expressing love.
In the union of bodies, a woman sacrifices herself to satisfy a man's needs. Love is interactive; men satisfy their physical needs through sex, while women satisfy their psychological needs.
Sex, in any case, is a sacred thing, and it should only be done with someone you love.

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