Let me share my experiences of being misled by 69 over the past two years.

In the evening, having some free time, I'm summarizing two experiences of being scammed on 69 over the past two years, as well as some situations involving making friends. My writing isn't great, so please bear with me. Consider this a casual essay or a reference, thank you.

Let me introduce myself first. I was born in 1982 and have met up with people on 69 a few times. You can see in my blog that I was criticized after a somewhat inappropriate date, so I've stuck to the principle of not giving more than 400 yuan in red envelopes. I work in the field of studying abroad and immigration, and my job is quite relaxed, so I occasionally browse 69. Let me tell you about my first experience of being scammed. The woman was from Nanjing, Jiangsu, and said she owned a clothing store, but I'm not sure if that's true. We chatted for a few days and got along quite well, so we quickly arranged to meet. Since there was still some time before the meeting, the woman suggested buying some sexy lingerie, which I thought was reasonable. These things wouldn't cost much, so I bought them. I bought them on Taobao for about 200 yuan. After that... A few days later, the other person said they had their eye on another bag, which puzzled me a bit. I was new to dating and inexperienced, and the bags she sent were only 400-600 yuan, which didn't seem expensive, so I bought them. The appointed day arrived, and before leaving, I called to confirm if I could come and if I had time. After confirming, I bought a train ticket and went directly to Nanjing. Then, a bad feeling started. On the train, I couldn't get through on the phone. After calling for a long time, I finally got through and, worried that something might have come up, I confirmed again if I could keep the appointment. She confidently said she would pick me up at the station, so I felt relieved. But when I arrived in Nanjing, something strange happened: her phone was off. I guessed it was out of battery. So I found a hotel and checked in alone. The next day, she was online on QQ, and her phone rang but no one answered. I figured it was definitely over; I'd been scammed. What a rip-off! Being tricked from Fuzhou to Nanjing—the money was a small matter. What a hassle! He came back the next day, but what's infuriating is that he was online on QQ the whole time. This kid's a professional in this business, oh well, bad luck. Let me tell you about another one, something that happened yesterday. The other party was a couple, quite active on 69, constantly looking for single men. I won't name names, everyone has to make a living. After adding them as friends, the husband answered. He was very direct, talking about the process of meeting up, without mentioning gifts or money. He seemed very honest and genuine. After getting to know each other better, he sent me the wife's WeChat. We added each other on WeChat and chatted briefly. The husband told me to take it slow and get to know each other better. The day after we added each other on WeChat, the woman said she was short a few tens of yuan for a pair of shoes and asked if I could send her a red envelope. I thought we'd been chatting for a few days, and red envelopes are popular now, so I sent her a 100 yuan red envelope. She was very polite and thanked me repeatedly. I thought it was just a small amount. As we got to know each other better, we both expressed... If I was satisfied, we could make an appointment, and I could set the time. I felt the other party was very sincere. The next day, the lady said she wanted to buy a dress to match the shoes she wore yesterday, and offered to host me. I was a little touched, and naturally, I paid for it. To be honest, it wasn't expensive—260 yuan. She showed me the link on Taobao, and I didn't want to ask for her address or other private information, so I just sent her a red envelope (cash gift) and told her to buy it herself. The next day, I asked if she had bought the dress, and she said no, worried about the quality and would buy it herself at a mall. I thought that made sense and didn't ask any more questions. She asked when I was coming, so I made an appointment with her. Then the lady asked what gift I should bring. I thought that a gift I bought myself might not be something she would like, and besides, it's not appropriate to ask someone what they like about gifts. It's the thought that counts. What if I bought something she didn't like, wasting money, and didn't even please her? So I said, "You can buy the gift yourself; I'll send you a red envelope. You can buy whatever you like." Since I had already sent her a red envelope before, I decided to let her buy it herself. The woman was quite happy and agreed, saying she wanted a big red envelope. I was a bit hesitant; how much constituted a "big" red envelope? My expectation was 400 yuan. I tentatively asked how much constituted a "big" red envelope. She seemed embarrassed to say, but I could clearly sense that a few hundred yuan wouldn't suffice. I subtly sensed something was wrong, so I politely asked others how much they usually gave her. She said around 2,000 yuan. To be honest, it wasn't that I was unwilling to give money, but I always felt uncomfortable when money was involved too much on dates. Having been criticized by everyone before, I didn't want to refuse. So, I very tactfully said I could give her 400 yuan. I thought finding some red envelopes or gifts was a good idea. The man offered the service willingly, but directly asking for a price felt like a transaction, going against the initial intention. He clearly stated it couldn't be less than 1,000, and I'd already sent him several hundred in red envelopes. Now that he's directly asking for a price, I'm not going. Then he started making all sorts of excuses. Sigh, I've encountered paid services before with 69, but at least they clearly stated their prices when they first contacted me, not just when we were having a pleasant conversation. This is really unethical. I don't object to any way of making money; it's their own body, but I believe there should be basic morality. Besides these, there are too many tricks involved in 69; it's exhausting to even talk about them. Good luck to everyone.

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